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TTC after miscarriage - A New Start to a New Year x x x

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diddle · 06/01/2006 15:43

Ok ladies, here we go a nice new thread for us to share our fears and smiles on.

Lets keep smiling and positive, and make sure that this is a Happy year for everyone.

Life is far too short to waste, and after such a rough year for most of us last year, lets make 2006 an extra special one x x x

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mygirllolipop · 11/01/2006 13:37

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diddle · 11/01/2006 13:31

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diddle · 11/01/2006 13:31

KK - here is a fab site giving info on reading tests and evap lines

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diddle · 11/01/2006 13:31

KK - here is a fab site giving info on reading tests and evap lines

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mygirllolipop · 11/01/2006 13:25

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diddle · 11/01/2006 13:20

kreamkrackers - CH is right, you shouldn't read a test after 10 mins, its not reliable. It is because after this time an evaporation line appears, hence your hopes being high and feeling like it might be a positive.

I would try and wait until you are due on and then test fi you are late, or ont he day you're due. we have had a couple of people on here, get their BFp's by doing an early test, then the pregnancy not carrying on. If they hadn't done the early test they woudl never have known, and eggs often implant a little early on, and give a faint reading and then drop off again. So please don't get your hopes up too high.
Hope that in a few days time you gety our much longed for BFP

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kreamkrackers · 11/01/2006 12:54

most people don't get signs until weeks after they find out that they're bfp, so really don't give up hope. if your sense in smell has gone up and your feeling down then these might be signs of something happening.

Carameli · 11/01/2006 12:49

no I won't be too sad, af due Sunday so will wait and see. think dh thinks I am as I have been so sensitive to smells and spices in food over the past few days. Maybe feeling like this is preparing myself so I don't feel so so sad if af comes along.

Hellkat: hope you are ok there and pampering yourself.

must go and get myself some lunch, and dh needs to get back to work

Coathanger · 11/01/2006 12:47

KK - you are supposed to read it before 10 mins because of evaporation lines I think. I wasn't aware of them until I joined this thread, but I think it is a line where the positive result would have been seen if it was positive, but where the pee has evaporated it leaves a line behind (is that right girls?) However saying that, it could still be a positive and your levels of HCG are still a bit low to be picked up properly. I really really hope it is a BFP for you hun

Carameli - Does it really?? WOW!! bring on the virtual ice cream!! Mines cookie dough!!
Seriously though hun, dont be down You should have hope. You never know for sure until you get AF. You might be feeling down for a good reason ;) you never know. Where are you in your cycle (if there is one thing you will learn about me its that I have a terrible memory and will ask questions a 100 times!!)

kreamkrackers · 11/01/2006 12:45

i know i felt like i could feel something and it's a few days before i should really be testing but everyones different, you might surprise yourself. i still might not be and i think i'll be more gutted because i've convinced myself that i am.

FirstNikki · 11/01/2006 12:44

Good luck with the test tomorrow KK

Carameli, try not to be sad you don't know yet, when is your af due?

Agree CH virtual ice cream = virtual calories might try some if the weight falls off then carameli

Still thinking of you HellKat x {{hug}}

Carameli · 11/01/2006 12:38

kreamcrackers: I would do another one tomorrow. I a not sure about it, but there must be a reason for them saying not to read after 10mins.
Will keep my fingers crossed for you tomorrow.

I feel a bit low today, just have a feeling this is not the month for me. Don't know why as temps are still ok, but just have that feeling.

Carameli · 11/01/2006 12:36

CH: didn't you know that virtual ice cream actually helps weight fall off you

kreamkrackers · 11/01/2006 12:35

morning everyone. hope you enjoy your ice cream hell kat, we're all out at the moment, need to go shopping. still thinking about you.

took dd to the lightroom this morning, she loved it so much i'm going to make it a weekly event. anyways, i was in a rush this morning and did a pee test, it was negative at 2 minutes. went to the lightroom and came back went to the toilet, had to look at the test again and there it was a very faint positive. it says not to read the test after 10 minutes so now i'm confussed, should i ignore the faint positive? i can do another test tomorrow morning but i'm just curious now to find out whether this could be an actual positive. any ideas?

Coathanger · 11/01/2006 12:20

Hello everyone! Sorry I didn't say good morning properly this morning, but I was so worried about HK and I hadn't had much sleep and was in a daze!

Well I shall say hi properly now - HELLOOOO!!

How are you all?

Seeing as there is virtual ice cream being passed about, can I have some - I'm sure virtual ice cream has no calories!!

Carameli · 11/01/2006 11:00

HK: so sorry to hear whats happening to you. Saying a prayer for you and sending lots of cyber (((((hugs))))) and a huge tub of baileys ice cream and bag of M&Ms.
take care....

everyone else: I also read about that baby rape last night. It just beyond my comprehension that anyone can do that. Makes me feel sick and so so angry.

mygirllolipop · 11/01/2006 10:25

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going4potty · 11/01/2006 10:24

Morninghell kat sorry your in pain, i hope everything is ok and praying for you that it is.

Coathanger · 11/01/2006 10:09

HK - pmsl @ you and your ice cream! Hope you do as I advised and get some rest today - chill out and relax!

HellKat · 11/01/2006 10:08

Ohh yes please. Either Haagen Das Pralines & Cream or Ben & Jerry's Vermonster. MMMMMM

mygirllolipop · 11/01/2006 09:58

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HellKat · 11/01/2006 09:56

Thanks all for your support xxxxx
Taking Dr CH's advice and retiring to the couch with a HUGE bag of M&M's (diet can start again tomorrow ).

FirstNikki · 11/01/2006 09:52

Morning ladies...

HK - So sorry to hear you are in pain and bleeding, hoping that you will be ok. Will be thinking of you lots of ((((((hugs)))))) Make sure you rest xx

p.s that story of the baby is truely disgusting and capital punishment should be in.do not understand what makes some people tick.

carly82 · 11/01/2006 09:22

HK i am praying for you sweetheart don't give up hope just yet xx

diddle · 11/01/2006 09:21

Hk - everything does happen for a reason, but that doesn't mean you're right about your suspicions. My bleed in this pg started just the same as my miscarriages did, and i'm ok. Please look after yourself.

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