Far sorry to hear about your problems with DH. Thankfully my DP has always been cooperative - and sometimes even makes me to make an effort when I'm too tired. If we do have problems, then I try and talk with him about how I feel. I say things like "I feel like you don't want this as much as me, can we talk about why I maybe feel like this, and how we can change it?". I find it works a lot better than accusing him of not wanting to TTC, or not caring. It might also get him to let you know how he feels. Just make sure you both understand there's no accusations, and you're not declaring you're right and he's wrong.
Bean Happy birthday, hope you've had a good day so far, and that it continues to get better.
As for baby names, I've had a list since I was in school. I got really annoyed with my Mum when she named my brother James, I felt like she'd stolen my favourite boys name on purpose. I've got lots of girls names I like, but only one boys name... and it's a little too close to the cats' name!
Cupcakes glad your ultrasound went well.
There's been so much chat today I can't remember everything to comment on. I've been lurking and reading, but desperately trying to get all my work done before leaving tonight. The wedding is getting very close indeed, just two days of manic planning and chocolate making to go!