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TTC/ pregnancy on Prednisolone or similar part 2

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Arianrhod · 18/10/2011 09:55

Starting up part 2 of this thread since the old one closed at 1000 posts!

iggi lots of luck for today, hope it's nothing - I know it doesn't help but I know lots of women have spotting and/or bleeding in pregnancy and it still goes ok. Definitely call the EPU, get scanned - it's worth it, honestly, at least you will know one way or another. Virtual hugs coming your way.

free I also started AF properly this morning, so looks like we may be both importuning a friendly witch for a good fertility spell on Hallowe'en? I know exactly what you mean about the scary stuff ... a small part of me was actually sort of relieved when I didn't get a BFP purely because it means I don't have to go through the whole worrying about miscarrying all over again. Bizarre, but there it is.

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ChoccyPud · 21/10/2011 11:24

So much useful info gets shared on here. And now style advice: Crop top over Mr G belly... Classy! Wink

Stogan good on you, take those ML rights. If you think you'll go back there, maybe don't raise a formal grievance (bit heavy for you to deal with), but you may want to tell HR why you've decided to start ML as early as you can to put that marker down in case of future issues. Just a thought...

Arianrhod · 21/10/2011 11:20

Oh you can still wear crop tops free ... you just get to show off your fetching woolly vest underneath .. Grin

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freelancegirl · 21/10/2011 10:36

Lmfao at what colour is it! Kids are so multiculturally aware these days :)

Also rather disappointed that I won't be wearing any crop tops...

digitalgirl · 21/10/2011 10:01

Just a quickie while I wait at the shops for dh to pick me up - stogan good luck today with the scan and good for you on taking early ML!

coconuts I had to tell ds to stop kicking my tummy as there wasxa baby in there. He looked very confused and then asked me what colour was it. I said it was the same colour as him and left it at that. Will explain the brother/sister/baby in the house thing later.

Arianrhod · 21/10/2011 09:37

Good on you stogan ... stuff 'em all indeed, you don't need the stress. Their loss!! You enjoy your pregnancy, and bugger the lot of them!

coconut you have no idea the mental image that all of these posts are now conjuring up, and to top it all, a nice warm Damart vest to boot! Grin

I wouldn't be surprised at all if your DS already knows - it's spooky how intuitive wee ones can be. Why not broach the subject gently with him, ask him if he'd like there to be a little brother or sister in your tummy for him? I do understand what you mean about having the confidence to tell him - however, worse for him if he instinctively knows there's something there but no-one's telling him anything, maybe? My DD was really unhappy with me that I didn't tell her when I was pregnant and she only found out after the baby died - she has insisted (in the strongest possible terms) that I MUST tell her when there's a baby growing in there next time and you know, I think I will honour that (she's 4).

My DD keeps bringing home a fabulous book for explaining things to little ones about babies growing in their Mummies - it's called "There's a house inside my mummy" (www.amazon.co.uk/Theres-House-Inside-Orchard-Picturebooks/dp/1841210684 if anyone's interested) and in very simple verse it really explains the whole thing to little ones. My DD of course keeps bringing it home because she wants it to be true .. she knows about my OV testing, and keeps asking me if I've got a smilie face yet, so that I can prepare for a baby! :)

/waves good morning to everyone

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Coconutfeet · 21/10/2011 09:05

You also need to keep your midriffs warm, ttc ladies. That's what my acupuncturist used to say anyway. Maybe pop a nice warm vest over your Mr greedy tummies...

That's a bummer about work Stogan. It's good that you've made a decision about it all though.

I think ds knows something is up. He keeps rubbing my tummy and just said he's going to turn himself back into a baby and go and live in there. I really have no idea when I'm going to feel confident enough to tell him what's happening.

Stogan · 21/10/2011 06:44

Thanks coconut xx. The situation at work is weird ! The bitching has stopped to my knowledge but now my boss is being a dick which is awful as I thought she was also a friend. So much so that OH and I have decided that once I get the ok at the scan today I'm going in to work to tell them that my last day will be 23rd dec and I'm starting mat leave early. Stuff it, I've tried too hard to get this far and work will not stop me enjoying this pregnancy (and breathe lolGrin)

Sorry about that, rather tense this morning ha ha .

Hope this morning finds everyone well xx

Arianrhod · 20/10/2011 22:40

LOL!! I am SO glad I read these last few posts at home, I think the company filter would have blocked MN altogether!! :)

May I just say eeeuugghhh free .. I'm sorry, I've just discovered there IS a limit to what I'm prepared to put my body through - or to put through my body if you prefer Grin

I'm loving the topics this thread is branching out into :)

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ChoccyPud · 20/10/2011 21:23

And there we were worrying about selling ttc-performing seal sex to respective oh's: get it on lots love and you don't even need too sort us out as part of the deal. If you don't mind fighting your way past the Mr Greedy tummy so much the better Grin

freelancegirl · 20/10/2011 21:14

Socks in bed, ingesting semen, plenty of action after ovulation but no coitus-induced uterine contractions... ladies - we have a plan Grin

suemays · 20/10/2011 21:00

Free - do you think that bit of info about ingesting semen was written by a man?!!! Ha ha, the things we will try to get a baby!
Good news on all the scans girls - it gives the rest of us hope.
Looks like my husband won't be going away again for a while so I will be joining you all ttc in early november. Not sure when the date will be as the preds have mucked my cycle up now. I have just started charting for the first time too to try an pinpoint when it has happened.
Talking of TTC - I read somewhere that it helps to keep your feet warm at all times - something used in chinese medicine. Mmmm socks in bed v sexy!

Coconutfeet · 20/10/2011 20:39

I must have just missed you comedy. I got there at about ten and left at after you. The staff there are lovely but I nearly threw up when she couldn't get the canula in. Ugh.
Ari - clexane is a blood thinner. I've got a factor II gene mutation, or sticky blood.

Stogan - good luck tomorrow! Has your work situation improved at all?

Digi - yes only one more appointment with Mr s. Just as well really as it's been a bit of a wallet-buster. I'm planning a big clearout next week and sm putting loads of stuff on eBay to make a bit of cash.

I love the idea of all the fertility spells that'll be happening in a couple of weeks...

freelancegirl · 20/10/2011 20:36

Coitus-induced uterine contractions... Grin

I also read somewhere that there's a theory that ingesting semen, er, orally is likely to make your body less likely to reject a pregnancy! I realise this is way TMI here but I am thinking of giving it a go :)

Not sure what your company's google filter would think of THAT too Ari Grin

ChoccyPud · 20/10/2011 20:21

Ok, so Dr Google tells me that there's some research regarding IVF that found that exposure to semen around the time of embryo transfer might assist implantation. However, the bad news is that it also found that "uterine contractions" weren't good.

I read that as meaning, crack on but don't enjoy it too much... Pah Hmm

humrep.oxfordjournals.org/content/15/12/2653.long
www.bwhct.nhs.uk/ur/print/bwq02001.htm

www.actionlove.com/cases/case9114.htm

Comedyworks · 20/10/2011 18:43

Great news Coconut - congratulations! Yes I was there yesterday from about nine until half one. When I was in the waiting area first thing I did have the urge to shout out and ask whether anyone was on MN but it was all a bit too calm for that.

... so should we anticipate very little posting on this thread in early November as 'hot sex' takes over!!

Stogan · 20/10/2011 17:52

Yey coconut Congrats hunni. Grinx

Doubt I'll sleep tonight before my scan tomorrow soooooo excited but sooooo nervous, why can't I get it thru my head I AM GOING TO HAVE THIS BABY !! nope still not convinced Sad x

ChoccyPud · 20/10/2011 16:48

Thanks Ari. I shall be Dr Googling tonight. At Work on iPhone is not ideal place or tool for sperm related research. Never mind the strict web filters - We are open plan so there's no way I'd be MNing on my pc!

Arianrhod · 20/10/2011 16:17

lol Well I would ask Dr Google, but I think my company's internet filter would have a hundred fits if I search for anything with 'sperm' in it .. ! :)

Great on the sacrificing, imbibing and scattering digi, I'm sure it will help Grin

choc Beltane is an ancient (pagan) festival that celebrates the fertility (crops and the like) for the coming year, at the start of May.

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ChoccyPud · 20/10/2011 16:09

Ooh digi just saw your post. V interesting esp as that's what we did in Sept which turned out to have worked. Dh will be pleased to hear that! More big grins here!!

freelancegirl · 20/10/2011 16:07

Rather fascinated by a) the SWI around implantation and b) the oyster sacrificing, chocolate imbibing, lily of valley scattering impregnanting spell. But hey, I am willing to try it all! Am trying to work out why the added sperm might help with implanting (bringing it up the rear with an extra push for any lazy ones...?) as I don';t have time to Dr Google it.

Great news that things are progressing well for you Coconut. Gosh, it all seems to be looking quite good for all our pregnant folk on here!

Digi I am with you in thinking I would want to know the sex, BUT I know how dull it can be when your friends know what they are having and they announce the baby is born. It takes away the element of surprise. I wonder if you can find out and keep it to yourself....? Probably not, as it is a huge secret to try to keep and it might slip out or become obvious when you are at the stage of buying gender themed bits and bobs.

ChoccyPud · 20/10/2011 16:05

What's Beltane? Forgive ignorance.

Well I should be on track for ov on 3 Nov seeing as af just turned up. [hgrin]

Back in the saddle again. Again.

digitalgirl · 20/10/2011 15:58

stogan same here, I think I'm actually quite keen to know the sex, but DH doesn't want to. It really is up to me at the end of the day as I'm doing all the hard work - but I think I'd quite like to surprise everyone on the day so no-one has any preconceptions about what this baby is going to be like till it's here.

coconuts yay for good scan for you too! Mr S must have pretty much signed you off now apart from the 15/16 week check? Big congratulations and happy faces all round. And well done on getting the GP to sort out your Clexane on the NHS. Hope you get your 12 week scan soon. Will you be having any ante-natal screening?

choccypud I remember reading on here something about how if you have sex around the time of implantation (7-10 dpo) then you actually increase your chances of a bfp. There was some sort of research on it. So ever since then I've always 'allowed' DH another couple of goes during the 2ww! So it's not such a famine till AF has come and gone.

free et al Will be sacrificing an oyster, imbibing some chocolate and scattering some lily of the valley in a spell casting manner for all your eggs to pop and fertilise on Nov 1st.

Arianrhod · 20/10/2011 15:35

Yay Coconut, another good scan, I love it! And fab news your GP has come through on the Clexane, it all helps, right? What's the Clexane for, do you mind me asking? I should know, I know, but brain is blank right now.

free yup OV ETA is 1st Nov for me, hence importuning a friendly witch on Hallowe'en for a decent fertility spell Grin Yes I know that should be Beltane really, not Hallowe'en, but sssshhh if you don't tell, I won't.

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Coconutfeet · 20/10/2011 14:57

Yay I found you all! This is a quick one as I'm having a really busy day, but I just wanted to say congratulations to Iggi and Comedy for the good scans. Grin at the celebration barf afterwards Comedy. Are you feeling really rough?

Comedy - Were you at New Life yesterday? I was there too having intralipids and an appointment with Mr S. He scanned me again, and all is well so far (11+1).

I'm hugely relieved as my GP has agreed to give me Clexane on the NHS. She balked a bit at the price but came good in the end. I also discovered that they messed up sending off the paperwork for my booking in appointment and nuchal scan. I'd been chasing the hospital for ages about the appointment but no-one had bothered to call me back to say that they didn't have any paperwork for me, despite promising that they would on many occasions. So the GP has had to redo all the forms and I had to take it to the hospital myself to be sure that they had it.

Freelance - Really glad the new meds are agreeing with you.

Sorry to hear about all the BFNs too. Fingers crossed for you all for the next cycle.

freelancegirl · 20/10/2011 13:17

Hello y'all. Way too much to do again for a big post. Wanted to say welcome back to Cheerful! Of course we want you to hang around even though you're not taking the Pred. I can completely understand not taking it. Intralipids must do the same job anyway. Did you know I was on a new treatment too? Additional treatment I should say. It's my second day and so far so good - still got to take the Pred and intralipids as per usual on ovulation and then whenever I get a BFP.

So relieved to hear scans are going well. iggi I hope you're feeling a bit better. Comedy that is indeed brilliant news too.

Talking of vomiting, I am feeling a tiny bit off my food on these new drugs. Hurrah! Maybe I will lose a few pounds before I hit the Pred again imminently.

Love the idea of MASS TTC Choc, Ari Grin and all who are going to sail with us. Well, virtually not in real life of course ...

Battery, Kittens, Stogan and everyone else, glad you found us again!

Digi I am glad you are starting to, at least outwardly, have a few positive moments about the baby. Yes baby! Hopefully you will have every reason to continue doing so. Yes I think I am going to chart, just need to remember to start taking temps in a few days. I am calling today CD3 so not long till I have to start. Aghhhh!

Ovulation ETA is around the 1st Nov - anyone else...?