TTC after a Miscarriage - Dear Santa, beanies for crimbo, please!!

Still remember the midwife asking why I was crying after my MC in the little room they take you in. Not a good experience.

Try and rest a bit G4

Night ladies.

xxx

G4P- Awwwww hunny.
Sounds like you'll have a fab crimbo time. You deserve it. Definitely mention the after care (or lack of it). My last m/c, the hospital were amazing. The sonographer had tears in her eyes breaking the news, we were taken to a lovely room (looked like a living room, flowers and all) and were offered councelling, leaflets, you name it. Hospitals need to be made aware of their short comings, especially when it affects feelings.
off to watch Eastenders and relax.
Night girls xxx

lol i meant

Sorry have i frightened you all of with my embarrasingly long post [gron]

Hello, everyone, sorry havent been on today. Busy again. Niki, your right i am doing a bit much and am feeling it. Dr gave me a very gentle but firm message today. Shes also signed me of from work until the 9thJan 06. I didnt realise how much im trying to hold back until she talked to me today. She is lovely and we had a sort of counselling session this am. I think i may have to send her some sort of gift as she has been very very good. Made me think though, that although the hospital were great while i was there, there was no after care, leaflets or even advice post ectopic pregnancy. I may bring it up with the ward when i go back to work in January. Well i can smugly say despite everything kicking of (healthwise)the week i was doing xmas shopping. We have managed to wrap and deliver presents to all and are going to have a relaxing weekend And to top it of i dont have to pretend to be a domestic super godess as muminlaw is cooking xmas day and mum on xmas day yipeeeee. Sorry i know im sounding smug
Anyway hope you are done with imitating headless turkeys and ready to enjoy the weekend.
ASH hope your ok and good luck with d and c. Mince pie good luck and anyoneelse testing? Muppet welcome, The ladies on here are a source of great comfort and i hope they will be to you too. They have let me rant, cry and babble without judgement and have helped me to let my feelings come out. They are also very funny and have cheered me up when i needed them.
So thankyou ladies for all your kindness and help and support, wishing you all a merry xmas

mincepee-sorry you got a BFN but was perhaps a tad early. Still keeping everything crossed for you. ((xx))

ASH-sorry the evil witch has reared her ugly head. Perhaps you won't need a D&C now. ((xx))

Off to collect DD so have a good evening all.

Lots of love.

xxx

ASH why u having the D&C? Has doc recommended it?

afternoon ladies
soory havent been on all day again am currentley runnung around like a headless chicken (or should that be turkey?! )
MYGARLAND do you have an asda near you? cos in mine they have a digital photo machine (similar to the ones in boots) and you can create your own calendar there and then for £2.88!! bargain hth x
ASH nice to see you back
Firstnikki i think i have missed you so if you do get on in the hols hope you have a brilliant xmas and new year xx
And wishing everyone else DIDDLE, HC, ASH, G4P, MINCEPEE, HELLKAT, MUMS, MYGARLAND and anyone else i might have missed (sorry if i did) a fantastic christmas a nd a happy new year xxxx

Never mind. I suppose it means the progesterone is working. Prof did say it would make it more difficult for me to conceive.
On the positive side....... I will be able to join DH in a champagne breakfast on Christmas day if I am not pregnant.

Morning.........

I have been a bad girl..
I tested this morning... A little early. Well, three days and it was -. Not supposed to test until sunday.

I am a bad person. I am expecting it to be -.

well looks like you've all gone somewhere so i'll say bye for now and speak to you again on wednesday.

Hope you all have a good xmas and get everything you want.

Good to hear your going home early,

Have a really good xmas and new year. Hope you get everything you want.

See you in 2006 if not before!

Just been told can go home 12 - 1230 yippeee! got to wait for something to finish then can go...perfect 'cos dh finished at 12 too.

I will wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happier New Year. Best wishes to all of you...and take good care of yourselves.

A BIG BIG thank you for your support through my mc you have been a huge help..xx

I may pop on over the holidays ...although not sure yet.

xxxx

ah well just enjoy it then, get absolutely blotted then you dont have to get up till xmas day! lol

yeah early tomorrow morning! night on the tiles u see

sheesh!! busy day nikki. Go to bed early then yeh?

Sounds good, we're spending xmas day at my parents to play poker and eat theyre food. lol.

the off to DF's mums to drop off presents, although we're not gonna be there long. He doesnt like seeing his family. He's the black sheep cos he doesnt have kids or live by them. His mum always has a go about where hes living/working/anything.

It should be a good time.

no time to sleep...dh birthday, friend ds wedding reception and work....busy busy busy....maybe the small glass of wine last night didn't help either...feel like I had a bottle not a glass... think may end up t-total at this rate really can't hack my beer.

dh's parents live 3 hours away from us mumsxmaswish, so we're driving there tomorrow for xmas, then back up to ours and my moms for new year. either way i'm not cooking.

poor didds DH. lol

DF went out yesterday for his xmas lunch and got abit worse for wear. He wanted to go bed at 6pm. lol I'd only just had my dinner. In the end he went at 7pm and I stayed up.

Where are you gonna be over xmas didds? Staying at hom or going visiting?

i love my bed too much to wake early any day. bet dh is up early xmas though, unless he drinks too much xmas eve, then he'll want sympathy

congrats on winning your prize nikki. Sounds absolutely lovely. I normally wake up dead early on xmas day, its sooooo exciting. Can never get DF to wake up tho. have to kick him outta bed its funny.

Why dont you have a little kip? or you got no time?

diddle I bet you feel great new hair doo and no children to look afer so you can rest for a while make the most of it.

mums yeah not too bad... little tired as I woke at 5am this morning excited for DH to open presents what am I going to be like xmas eve with sdd 1 & 2...

Oh forgot to say I have been trying to slim think I may of said anyway only stayed to class twice 1st wk and last night both times won a prize..only last night won a beautiful big pamper hamper with slippers, candles, hair products, smellies etc... its huge and wonderful so thats made me smile I have put it under the tree with pride...now just need the weight to come off

where you all gone? I've only got an hour left was hoping to talk to you all and wish you merry xmas before we broke up. Wont be able to get back on till Wednesday after today.

ASH - you about? were playing poker with dads xmas present on xmas day, could do with some tips if your around