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TTC after a Miscarriage - Dear Santa, beanies for crimbo, please!!

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Atomicstockinghanger · 13/12/2005 14:09

Well here we are! Hopefully htis one will take us up to crimbo, althoughthe way we gas, probably not!!

Hears wishing all us TTcers all the luck in the world and all those who are PG already, lots of stretchmarks and piles!!!! hehehee!! Not really, lotso f luck to you too

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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FirstSaintNikkilass · 15/12/2005 17:21

bless you G4P..ignore dh and take some pain relief and take care of yourself.

Bye all have a good evening and those who are not well etc. hope you are better soon.

going4potty · 15/12/2005 16:57

having a bad day. Ds is being really difficult and i am in loads of pain and really tired today. Feeling a bit sorry for myself.

going4potty · 15/12/2005 16:45

bye mums, take it easy .

mumsXMASwish · 15/12/2005 16:38

see you tomorrow

mumsXMASwish · 15/12/2005 16:02

I know its with good intentions ASH i really do.

Here's my prob.

If I go and it is a mc then I will know for definate. At least at the mo there is a little hope that I'm not MCing.

I know its stupid and conflicts with what I'm said about quick and done but I dunno..... O i dunno.

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Atomicstockinghanger · 15/12/2005 16:00

But Mums if you go tomorrow to EPU, they will probably say they won't seee you til after the weekend. Can you wait like that. Ring today, tell them whats happening and explain what happened at your scan. By all means, wait, but as long as you understand that its your health as well. I know I sound like a nagging old woman, but its all with good intentions.

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mumsXMASwish · 15/12/2005 15:38

ASH - Promise if not stopped bleeding by tomorrow after work I will get emergency app. I PROMISE.

Just want it to get on with whatever its gonna for a while, Too much Doc butting in might make it worse.

BUT I PROMISE I WILL GET APP TOMORROW IF NOT STOPPED

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Atomicstockinghanger · 15/12/2005 15:35

Mums - please please go to see a doctor of some description. MC (if thats what this is) is a huge trauma on your body, especially if you are as far as 17 weeks gone. You ned to speak to s doctor for your health. You don't have to have a D&C, you can do it naturally, I did and many others did. You must see someone.

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going4potty · 15/12/2005 15:32

Mums, am thinking about you.

FirstSaintNikkilass · 15/12/2005 15:31

well..only you can decide whats best for you whatever you decide look after yourself.x

carlychristmas · 15/12/2005 15:30

they were prob just telling you worst case scenario to cover their backs. Please try not to worry im sure all will fine hun xx

mumsXMASwish · 15/12/2005 15:26

When I was at the scan I was told that feotus (sp?) was about 8wks old, when I told them about the af's (Nearly 3 months without an AF) I had after came off the pill they said that it could be upto 17wks old and not growing properly and the HCG readings I had were that of a slow MC and the HCG readings were on they're way back down. If that makes sense.

Dont need to go home sick, there's no one here so I'm resting as much as I would at home, just sitting instead of lying, although if not fixed I will speak to doc in the morning and see about getting an app tomorrow and maybe not come in. I dunno yet,

going4potty · 15/12/2005 15:17

know exactly what your saying mums, if it is bad news, you want it over with. im the same. Just waiting for this infection to go and first af, then we can think about the future again.

carlychristmas · 15/12/2005 15:15

have just come back mums huge hugs to you sweetheart(((((((()))))))) try not to get too worried tho i know its not easy. What did they say at the scan? i understand if you dont wnat to talk about it?xx
I hope everyone else is ok xx

FirstSaintNikkilass · 15/12/2005 15:14

your emotions are bound to be all over the place with your worries etc.. so please try not add to that by worrying or questioning your feelings. I would go home sick and rest. if you end up going the drs/hosp you will have your mind at rest. x

FirstSaintNikkilass · 15/12/2005 15:07

MUMS you say what you have got to and how you feel I understand what you are saying, if it is sad news you would rather it not take a long time.

thinking of you xx

mumsXMASwish · 15/12/2005 14:55

I thought me saying that might make you all run. I'm not in anyway saying that I dont want this baby cos I do SOOOO much but if its not to be, I want to get back to it now!

I dont know what I'm saying. I'll go.

mumsXMASwish · 15/12/2005 14:39

I'll give it till Friday ok?

If its not better by end of work on fri I'll ring them and get emergency app. Is that ok?

I dont know what it is but I cant feel depressed or sad anymore, I'm constantly feeling down but the slightest little things has me smiling and laughing. As tho no care in the world and to be honest (really shouldnt say this) if it is mc, wish it would just hurry up so I can have a stiff drink!

Sorry I know that doesnt sound right but I dont know why I want to say it, I just do.

HumphreysCorner · 15/12/2005 14:35

Thinking of you mums. ((xx))

xxx

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Atomicstockinghanger · 15/12/2005 14:34

have mailed you Mums

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Atomicstockinghanger · 15/12/2005 14:24

Mums - {{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}} you know where i am

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going4potty · 15/12/2005 14:05

mums, just remember the drs cannot force you to have any treatment, but having hcg test may help you. you mentioned dc,this usually requires written consent, so agin you are the one calling the shots. Listen to their advice, but do whats right for you. Sorry 4 sounding bossy, but i sometimes think hospitals dont like to be questioned etc and do try and do things to their protocol without taking individual needs into account i will get of my soap box now.

jinglediddle · 15/12/2005 14:01

fair enouhg mums - only you know how you feel, and in the meantime if you need us we're here for you.

mumsXMASwish · 15/12/2005 13:51

Thanks for the advice.

Didds, I know its not ectopic cos we had a scan on tues and the baby was found. There was some issues raised then as to survival so I was kinda expecting it but trying not to worry.

Don't worry guys as soon as anything big happens I'll go docs but until then would rather deal with it myself.

jinglediddle · 15/12/2005 13:49

mumsxmaswish - you're not depressing us, if you can't be honest and share your troubles here, then where can you.
I really think you should go and be reassured, get a scan. It will put you in a happier mood and you'll see baby bouncing around, sad moods will make baby sad.
Are you losing any clots? or just a little blood?
Please go and see the doc, stuff work and take yourself off now.
If you are losing, which i seriously hope you're not, btu fi you are and its and ectopic or something then it can be a serios danger to your health. you should get it looked at.
Please consider it.
(((((((((((huge hugs for you and baby)))))))))))))