TTC after a Miscarriage - Dear Santa, beanies for crimbo, please!!

if i can hold out that long ill try promise

Go on you 2 TEST!!!

DF is upset like last time but like me he's calm too, I think we its cos this time we were prepared that something might happen. We didnt tell family, if I get upset or something then I'll tel my lot, but we hardly see his lot so not gonna say anything.

wanna wait and do a test first thing 2moro with me carly?

i think there might be one somewhere but i dont need to pee just yet.............think waterfalls, and running water

Thanks mxw will def be testing over wkend but hink u should rest up instead of thinking bout us lot, we're big enough and ugly enough to take bfn's whereas u've had worse news this wk. How's your dh? and have u told any family mxw?

I'm not sure of cycles either as this is 2nd one since coming off pill and last one was 6 weeks so i woudn't be (too) disappointed either! i've got one test in the house how bout u carly?

tbh i dont think my cyle has settled down since the last m/c so i am kind of expecting a bfn at least that way i wont be disappointed (well only a little) and a bfp would be a pleasant surprise MYGARLAND do you have tests there now or are you having to buy some?

Yeah carly said i was testing 2moro but just realised it's cd 27 2moro so dunno if i will, we can do one 2getha if u want cos i'm very hopeful 4u! x

oh carly I'll keep my fingers crossed for you girlie.

Mygarland - if you're testing i'll keep my toes crossed for you

oh mums am so hun, take it easy xx
Morning everyone else am now on cd33 today and still not sign of af / (not sure which one yet!) im debating whether to do another test, its been 48 hours since the last one so......... if i decide to do another i will let you all know
MYGARLAND did you say you were testing tmorrow? is there anyone else?

mind if I hijack for a minute girls to say mums ((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))) i'm so sorry honney.

good luck to the rest of u girls thou.

Dont think so, docs did say if I went for the op they may be able to look into why baby died but to me that seems like cold table being cut up which I dont like the idea of. Its only 2 mc's so I'm sure everything will be fine.

Oh mums what a week you've had, hope u stay strong - in fact no cos it's ok not to be, just hope u r ok (not just at this minute) lots of cyber ((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))) an (((((((((((((((((XxXxX)))))))))))))))))))

Hi everyone, been offline for a few days because of my stupid laptop dying.
just read the news and im so sorry mums will you beable to see someone to find out why like a mc clinic? {{{hugs}}}

i meant easy

Im really sorry mums , hope you ok and taking it as rasy as you can at work.

Sorry to hear your news mums My thoughts are with you and take it easy. If I had a choice I don't suppose I would want the procedure either. Know what you are going through with the natural way, please take care at work lots of hugs.

ASH - hope what you are going through doesn't last long (iykwim)and if you need us...well you know we are here.

G4P hope the antiobiotics are starting to kick in

love to all and take good care of yourselves. New Year new start for us all who are ttc

I'm ok ASH honestly, I didnt cry or nothing when they told me this time, prob cos I was expecting it.

I think I've not realised yet or something but I'm fine.

How are you?

ok, DF MADE me go hosp last night cos it got very heavy and clotty. They done a scan and couldnt find anything. Not even the sac. Although aparently I have enough HCG to still produce a +ive test.

They've said they're not too worried but expressed they thought I should have op. When I asked whether not having the op would do anything bad they said no so I chose not to. Don't know if that was a good idea but don't care.

I'm feeling relieved today. Dont know why at all. I'm a little upset but mostly relieved.

We both have decided were trying again straight away because the house is sorted. Plus I'll be moving in next month which means that by the time I've finished bleeding this time and then had an AF i'll be in house and hopefully new job too.

I was going to have time off work last night but when I woke up I decided I wanted to go to work, dunno why. Probably so I've someone to talk to - you girls.

ASH - I dont know whats wrong if you want to say, email me if not then I hope its something you're ok with dealing on you own. Also dont be sorry, I completely understand why you wanted me to go and I dont feel you were pushy at all. Motherly if anything.

Hope the rest of you are ok and thanks for all your kind words. Your all stars. Looks like I'm staying on the TTC thread tho.

Morning all.

Still feeling rough so excuse me if i dont get here much. Hate not having control over my body.
Mums hope you ok sweet.

Well signing of now, feel thoroughly disgusting as have leaky stich eeewww sorry if tmi. Hope those antibiotics get working fast!!!
Hope you all have a restful night see you in the morning.

mums just read thru your posts.....

I have felt just like you. Don't feel bad about it, if it helps you to think and feel like that then do. It's a way of protecting yourself and keeping yourself sane.
Do what you want to do. Say what you want to on here. No-one will judge you.
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(((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))) to mxw and g4p. dh dying of cold obv cos it's a man flu! he'll be back at work 2moro with any luck cos I'm sick of him moaning and having to clear up after him! I love him really. So hopefully I can talk more 2moro. Got a bit wrapping done 2day and hopefully the rest 2moro. Last day of school 2moro too then I've got kids all day (hello cbeebies!)
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