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TTC after a Miscarriage - Dear Santa, beanies for crimbo, please!!

583 replies

Atomicstockinghanger · 13/12/2005 14:09

Well here we are! Hopefully htis one will take us up to crimbo, althoughthe way we gas, probably not!!

Hears wishing all us TTcers all the luck in the world and all those who are PG already, lots of stretchmarks and piles!!!! hehehee!! Not really, lotso f luck to you too

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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carlychristmas · 20/12/2005 15:07

ASH huge (((((((())))))) hugs for you you know where i am anytime you need me even if its just for a good ol' moan or cry. Im sure i will be doing plenty of crying for this last year and everything that has happened
Sorry for depressing everyone hope you are all ok and looking forward to Sunday xx

xmasspub · 20/12/2005 15:00

ASH - So sorry, my love.
Hope you are bearing up ok. You are always such a smiley bedrock of support to everyone else so please know that there's TONS of love and support coming back your way.

Snowballstrike - have just caught up with this thread and reaf about your BFP. I'm truly delighted for you.

mumsXMASwish · 20/12/2005 14:06

Oh ASH. I'm sorry hunny I hope you are ok, understand if you want to dissapear again for abit.

I'm always here if you need to talk as are all of us, you're in my thoughts and I hope you get everything sorted ASAP.

Love and hugs to you darlin'

mygarland · 20/12/2005 13:47

Oh ASH how unexpected, can't believe this has happened again. how do u n dh feel? hope u r ok as can b, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

FirstSaintNikkilass · 20/12/2005 13:27

Hi Ash,
so sorry to hear your news have been wondering how you are.

I hope your appointment comes through quickly so you can get yourself sorted.

You take good care of yourself and have a nice relaxing xmas with your family. x

Lets hope 2006 brings a lot of love and luck for you and the rest of the ladies trying.

jinglediddle · 20/12/2005 13:24

oh ASH you know how i feel about this. i am always here if you need me for anything at all.
I hope you are coping ok with it, well as ok as can be expected.

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Atomicstockinghanger · 20/12/2005 13:21

Hello all.

Thought I would just pop on to let you know I saw my GP today regarding the odd bleeding I have had the last couple of months.

Unfortunately she seems to think I have had another MC We can never be 100% sure as it has been and gone, but she says what I experienced last month is consistant with the signs of an early MC. I am going to have a scan soon (waiting for an appt) and I am contemplating having a D&C in the new year. I feel okay about it, just shocked. I didn't know I was PG although i did have a bit of spotting around the CD20 mark and was suspicious that it was an implantation bleed. But like i say, I will never know for sure.

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FirstSaintNikkilass · 20/12/2005 13:18

question...CD1 ...when do you count it after natural mc? Is it from first day of bleed on mc or day passed my angel or do we just wait until first AF arrives and start again? not really sure???

mumsXMASwish · 20/12/2005 10:54

good luck mygarland.

You gonna test today or leave it a bit longer?

Hope your DD gets better soon.

Speak to you soon.

mygarland · 20/12/2005 10:45

Morning every1, well still no af or anysigns and i'm pretty sure i ov'd on 6th at latest so it's really d day 2day cd30.
Glad every1's getting on with their xmas shopping I myself have been wrapped for a while (yeah right!) can't do much as dd3 really poorly, so won't b on this afternoon as will b going dr's with her.
hope every1 is well and having good day, x

mumsXMASwish · 20/12/2005 10:03

lol!

aww bless.

What else you got planned for the day?

FirstSaintNikkilass · 20/12/2005 10:01

yes know what you mean got to go to town at lunch changed mind on a present for dsd1...thing is wrapped em all up now got to find which one! lol

mumsXMASwish · 20/12/2005 09:53

well I did most of my xmas shopping on the net but some things I had to go into town for! I've still gotta get my grandad's things but he's having a hamper so it'll have to be the last thing I get.

House is going great, went to sign the loan agreement for mortgage last night so we've def got our mortgage, now solicitor is doing the searches which takes 10 working days then we can sign and move in!! WOO HOO!!

FirstSaintNikkilass · 20/12/2005 09:48

45 mins I hate it when its manic...you can't see let alone get the things you want and then have to queue...internet ordering i found is the way...

so how are you and DP coping? all ok with the house move?

mumsXMASwish · 20/12/2005 09:38

my afternoon was manic!! I spent 45 mins queing at woolworths for 1 CD!! ah well, all done now! except xmas cards

FirstSaintNikkilass · 20/12/2005 09:30

Morning ladies how are you all?? Ready for Santa?

Mincepee - your break sounds lovely something I have always wanted to do but haven't got round to doing it.

G4P - hope you are feeling better today

MXW - how are you today? how was your afternoon off?

Any testers coming up??

AF still not arrived yet but expecting it this week even DH said last night you are due AF any day aren't you....he can tell by my dumb behaviour around AF time..seem to get my words muddled up.

Went out for first time in months at weekend...gosh can't drink much anymore.

jinglediddle · 20/12/2005 09:21

HC - Lottielou - is doing okay thank you, she has been off work for months, due to pains in her abdomen, caused by a cyst. She is back at work now and has even less time to chat so i doubt we'll hear from her much. But thank you i will pass on your concern to her.

mumsXMASwish · 20/12/2005 09:03

Morning ladies,

They had another check of HCG's and all is well, although the GP did say I would prob start bleeding again soon just to finish clearing out. We're not allowed to BD either. which is not fair cos whenever i'm not on my pill the sex-drive goes through the roof. lol

Sorry to hear about your hospital experience G4P, I hope your feeling a little better today.

5 DAYS TILL XMAS*

HumphreysCorner · 20/12/2005 08:58

Morning ladies

Me and DD still poorly so another day off work. Must be better for Christmas!

Diddle-we haven't heard from LottieLou for ages-is she OK. I'm really worried about her.

Is everyone just about sorted for the big day?

Right, better be brave and phone work to say I'm not coming in again. I only work Mondays and Tuesdays so feel bad about it.

Love and hugs to all

((xxx))

jinglediddle · 20/12/2005 07:55

mincepee - oh wow, that sounds so relaxing, really fancy a bit of that. Keep watching the health spa adds on tv for our area, hinting to Dh how lovely that would be. Bet he hasn't got the message though. really fancy a bit of pampering.

mygarland · 19/12/2005 18:27

Glad u had a good trip MP, spk l8r i'll let u rest more.
Carly - sorry for delay just replied now as dh walked in the door from overtime.

mincepee · 19/12/2005 18:09

Well, I am back from my lovely break at Champneys Henlow Grange. It was great. So relaxing and calming. Feet and eyebrows look great. Couldn't chance it with any massages etc just incase . Had reiki though. Wow. I am sure the therapist snuck out when I fell asleep she says she never.
Am home now and should spend some time with DH.
Catch up tomorrow.

carlychristmas · 19/12/2005 17:23

CorrieDale thanks for your wishes hope you and your family have a wonderful xmas
G4P you poor thing have some huge (((((((((()))))))))) off me and sod the housework you need to be resting hun
mygarland have mailed you back hun
hope everyone else is ok xx

going4potty · 19/12/2005 16:35

thanks jingle, hope ur ok 2. The gp set me of this morning, it was unexpected, as allthough the stiches were difficult 2 remove, that wasnt what was making me cry. I felt like a ninny actually. But she kept saying id been through a lot, so i think she realised it wasnt the physical pain.

jinglediddle · 19/12/2005 16:07

G4P - so sorry you've been through that today, must have been horrendous, hope you can rest now you're home.

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