anyone trying for a big fat positive in January 06?

Hmmmmm.........

Hi Coathanger! That sound promising. No more lurking now - you're one of us!

I met CH on the TTC after MC thread she normally speaks "over there" was just wondering if it had gone quiet over there thats all.

where is over here and over there?

Hi CH, What you doing here? No one talking over there? Didnt know you were trying again, good luck for this month.

Yeh it was around the 15th. I still dont think it could be pregnancy tho. When I went back the docs gave me the all clear so theres no retained stuff. I think its just too much pills in my body and has made my boobs sore. Its just a wierd feeling.

hi coathanger (strange name!)fancy you lurking! i never think of that you know, just feel like i am having private chats with my thread-friends, it doesnt occur to me that folks might just be "lurking" as you put it!
a lovely warm welcome to you anyway, and GOOD LUCK!!!!!! I hope you get the result you want.
How long hve you been trying?
just to recap, im 30, dh 34, this will be our first bambino if we get lucky
whats your situ?
wannabe - work hectic, ive only just gone back after having about 7 weeks off. long and complicated....
im in the civil service

Hi coathanger. How long have you been TTC? do you have any other children already?

Hi everyone. I hope you don't mind me joining you. I have been lurking for a while but didn't want to post incase of jinxing myself. But I have now plucked up the courage. I am really hoping for a BFP this month and as AF was due yesterday and I had some spotting around time of implantation, I am hopeful.

Nice to see you on this thread, Mumswish. Just one query, didn't you MC in December, about the 15th? Could be my hormones messing with my head but it just struck a chord. So you could still be PG as you only had about 2 days of bleeding after MC IIRC, or it could be the 6 weeks of pills that have messed with your cycle. Hope you get an answer soon.

Wishing you all that very special test result soon too!!!

aw no it's good to hear about people going through treatments and getting to the end stage just waiting to heare how things end up. I always tend to watch those test tube baby programmes on discovery health and am always so happy for the couple when things work out.

PCM what do you do for a living? sounds pretty busy there.

I wouldnt go either Northern, might make her worse.

oops i mean send not sent

ahh northy, maybe not best idea to visit elderly relative in hosp if you have a cold?? id go home and sent my apologies and go when you are feeling better yourself.

Sadly I'm at work. Though poorly blanket sounds like heaven. My brain is not functioning properly today and I'm booking 180 flights for GP's so it needs to! Am here till 6pm. Then have to visit MIL in hospital.

is your af day 24th?
just to make sure i think we should wait till 31st and have a lovely spangly new thread for feb.
btw, i do the pillow under the bum thing after bd, not silly like a headstand, i think there is some logic!

PCM - I hope everything goes good for your sis. Dont worry about going on about her its nice to hear how people are getting on whilst going through things. I hope all goes well and you can let us know how she handles pregnancy.

aahh northener sorry to hear you feeling a bit poorly....are you at home or at work? if at home id advise an hour with the "poorly blanket" on the settee

Meant to say don't move to another thread just yet! Wait for my AF day, then it's off to teh Feb thread.

there's also a thought that you should do handstands after or put a pillow underneath your bum after. lol

somethings they come up with are silly.

PCM it will be lovely if you and your sis get pregnant together. My SIL had her dd at the same time I had ds. It is nice.

Feeling not right today, bit light headed and I have a cold.

mumswish and hayles and wannabe, all good stuff, nice to see you chatting, sorry im not so good at keeping up.
anyone whos due af i really hope she does not arrive!!
bd every day or every other day, from day 7 or 8 onwards depending on your cycle.
yes lie flat for 20 mins or so, if you put a pillow under your bum , it supposedly helps (something to do with the angle of your cervix helping swimmers)
xxx

hellooooooooo!
hi all, having lovely chats without me i see, whilst ive been busy at work!
hope you all fine?
trace, your jack is a right cutiepie!!!!!! hes gorgeous!!!! how long has he been a modelling superstar?
had a busy day , work still not sorted itself out yet, not reaaly sure whether im coming or going iyswim.
When are we starting our Feb thread? We all need to move over together so to speak so nobody is left out. mind you thinking about it, we are still waiting for northener arent we, so maybe we should wait right till end of jan?
Northy i am convinced you will get a bfp just dont test too early.
Just to update, then im sorry i wont go on about her anymore, my sis is fine and recuperating, cant stop thinking about her, she so wants this...
maybe we will end up pg together? i can hope anyway. Day 9 for me, bd so far on 5,6 and 8. dh says he feels like a sperm production machine

Yeh I read somewhere as well that you should BD every other day to "maximize" the possibilities. I also read that you shouldn't get up until at least 30 minutes after, although after 30 minutes you can get up as any swimmers that are in there will be on their way by then.

Lol at smily faces on ovulation sticks.

Hayls they reckon that you need to bd every other day if you can to keep a fresh lot in there. However, I fell pg after bding only once that month, whilst on the pill so it varies I think.

Good luck with controlling your cycles. As for the ovulation sticks I think your meant to p on them in the morning and it tells you whether your ovulating. Some have smiley faces when you do.

Hiya Wannabe1974. Soryy, I don't know what to say other than it will happen when it's meant to- no idea when that will be unfortunately. As you say, you have one child already and know you CAN do it.

Hope you're ok. Definitely worth testing again in a couple of days though IMO.

Is there any reason why you shouldnt be able to get pg wannabe?

Maybe you should try getting drunk one night? Work well for teenage girls. lol

On a more serious note. If you feel you cant keep trying then dont but at the same time, i really feel that youre right when you say 8 months isnt very long. I think you need to take your mind of it. Doesnt worrying stop pgs?

I dont know what else to say other than I hope AF stays away for you.