TTC after a miscarriage - Jingle Beans, Jingle Beans, Beanies all the way!!

Oh potty, bless u honey, again no ectopic/shere so can't advise not even had laprosacpies so can't even advise there. just hope u r comfortable, (((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))

I never got any with ds2, think they thought as I'd got so many with ds1, no one would notice if I had anymore anyway

If in doubt, trackies!!!

God stretch marks.!!!!! they arenow good friends that never went back home.

rigid jeans even.

Thats ok, i needed it . Desperate to have a number 2! I only have fitted trousers and rigig jeans in the wardrobe. I may need to wear my work out gear, eeek

Lol ohhhh so true. Even after vaginal births, your tummy still looks like an empty cows' udder (mine still does anyway). I've got very funky cross scars on my tum from the laps and pretty stitching through my belly button. Ohhhh and don't get me started on the road map of Great britain (stretchmarks on my tum).

It must be awful for you .
I've never had an ectopic but had 4 previous m/c. You've been through a truly crappy time and need to let yourself grieve.
(and break wind too) sorry hunny could'nt resist

On a more selfish note. i have a c section scar and three holes from the laproscopy and my tummy doesnt look like it belongs to me.

Im so bunged up eating veg and drinking water just is not helping. Burping too! I just feel so cheated, cause now, not only have we lost our baby, i have less chance of getting pregnant and if i do i have a greater risk of having an ectopic again.

I've had 2 laproscopies and yes you fart like a trooper after! they put Co2 in there to expand everything so they can see but leaves you totally bloated and huge after!!!!

awwww hunny {{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}} you poor thing!!!!
if you need a chat, support or anything, my addy is jjhellkat at aol.com

morning. Glad your ok crimbo. Not so good here. The Hcg results came back wed pm and had gone up a bit, but still no pregnancy seen in uterus. I was admited on thursday am for emergency laproscopy and ended up having a salpingectomy for an ectopic. Back home fri pm. really sore, upset etc. not sure what to do with myself. Cant even hug hubby and ds properly as full of air. Ironic, as i now look pregnant! Apparently they put lots of air in you, now i cannot wear any of my clothes. Cant go to sleep comfortably and also embarrasing wind . When i asked wether iwas a high risk, was told not at all, actually verylow. just unlucky! I just cant believe ive lost a tube, its so unfair, especially as i was looking out the hospital window seeing all the pregnant women outside smoking. it even got dh riled. Sorry to go on, but i just feel sad and angry, ive tried to be healthy, i exercise, no smoking , no drinking! i hate this.

Morning all.
Awww Going4Potty, so sorry to keep missing you. How are you? Are you ok?

Tad relieved here (never thought I'd say that) because it was a BFN. I've got so much going on atm health wise that now is'nt really a great time to be pg. But as soon as I'm sorted out, I'd better get a huge, clear BFP! .

How's everyone this morning?

Carly- good luck hun!!!!

Hi anyone there?

Anyone there?

Is Mincepee about??? Haven't spoken to you for ages!

xack it'll come round again soon enough!

see you girls on monday. its bloody 4.05 and i'm still here meant to finish at 4! stupid boss!

Mygar- I can't wait for all that nativity stuff to start back up again. i loved it with ds1 (he's 13 now) so need ds2 to be doing it!!

Where's carly and the rest of my rock cake recipe?
Just been to watch the little stars at their nativity they were blessable.
done a daft thing bought me mam a posture pillow for her birthday 2moro but how am i going to get it to her (live 200 milse away)? d'oh
ash - c u explained trolls much better than i

Hi again all.
Dids- Glad you're feeling better hun. All this chat of food helps too
Good point. Wonder how poor G4P is. Hunny if you're lurking {{{{{{{hugs}}}}} we're thinking of you.
Cooking one of my favs here, Beef strogganof from scratch! MMMM smell's making me hungry again! Funny thing is I was healthy for a good few days (no choc etc) and swore I put on weight, after this morning's escapade I feel lighter so that's it, every day I'm having choc! I think I'm going nuts for it because af's due tomorrow and I always crave sugar and salt.

oh dear responsiblity for food...hmmm I would have to eat a nice meal before I go so I wouldn't nibble so much