TTC after a miscarriage - Jingle Beans, Jingle Beans, Beanies all the way!!

Yoo-Hooo! its gone awful quiet.....

Was that a tumble weed I just spotted......

I don't think the Rh neg had anything to do with this MC as of my 3 boys only one is Rh pos and I had Anti- D after having him. BUT I am concerned about nay further PGs coz the EPU i went to for my MC failed to ask if I knew my blood group and I missed my window for having anti-D. It was too late when I thought of it (not exactly the first thing i thought of when I was told I had lost my baby!!) So, as well as the hospital verging on neglegence, I might also have jeopardised any future PGs

Rh neg here too. Lots of interesting facts about it on the net. Especially from the American hospitals and their policies. They're alot more on the ball so to speak.

Oh goodness yes, Aprilgirl....

ARE YOU THERE APRILGIRL?????

Let us know ASAP

ASH - I am also Rh neg and wondered if that played a part in my m/c too?

Morning All - Just caught up.

ASH - john wayne wailing was funny I was trying think how that would sound and came up with tarzan?? Happy BD'ing and so pleased you stopped AF.

MUMS - take it easy now and you have a great Df.

HC - good luck with your scan

Carly - Rock Cakes.... funny you say that my DH loves them he had some at school fete last week and is now craving for them - I must get recipe and try to do some myself.

I wonder how Aprilgirl got on testing this morning..

i need a degree in common sence tho ash - u'll find out in about 6wks!

Hah!! I doubt it Mygarland!! You are educated after all!! Its just I am a motor mouth and talk all th time!! hehheee!!!

ash u r much more articulate than me!

me and ash (& every1 here) would love to have the chance to be pg

I meant Mums that I would be grateful for a few needles if it meant I was PG. I am Rh neg and I am a pin cushion whist PG but I wouldn't care - coz I would BE PG!!!!!!!

Mums- I'm over the moon that you're finally pg and send you loads of beanie glue but could I ask a favour that you could save alot of the pg chat for your Due in August thread. Alot of us still here find it incredibly hard to deal with not being able to conceive. People like poor G4P are going through a horrid, awful time at the mo and really could do without this. Please don't take offence at this, it's not meant like that. I'm so genuinely pleased for you but would prefer that you saved the baby chat for the Due in August thread and saved normal witty, fun banter for here. Sorry if this sounds a bit harsh, it's not meant to.

what do you mean chance would be a fine thing? I'm confused. They won't give me one you mean? I'm hoping they just want me to p in a cup. I dont want needles

yeah when i was in labour i dreaded a c-secion or intervention, but i really dreaded having a line put in me and guess what they put one in and didn't need it - that was bloody awful

and def agree with ash

lol....

When I had the D&C. I was a pin-cushion literally. They took blood from both of my arms. when I went in to be put to sleep they tried in both my hands, then went back to the original. Then I had to have an injection for something in my arse!! no fun!

Chance would be a fine thing, having a PG related blood test

i ended up crying like a baby once at abte-natal clinic they made such a fuss and got baby needles for me instead then they had to take 3 samples cos they messed up and bruised me (sorry not helping am i?) advice is don't let them no how scared u r of them!

oh I don't like them at all, whether they're giving or taking. NO LIKE

u'll have to ask them to do that test tho, and can understand hatred of needles i only dislike the ones that take blood (not ones that give injections)

oh right!

cool, I like that idea, I can get an exact time I got pg then. near enough.

hcg levels double every day (i think) so can tell by level if u r 5 wks 1 day or 4 weeks 6 days type of thing - good luck!

yeh I know, and I'll get used to it but still ARGH!! NEEDLES!!! ARGH!!! lol

How can they tel how pg I am from HCG? Surely you're either pg or not, can't be "well, you're not quite enough pg for our liking Miss Wish" I'm in a really good mood today.

mums- blood taken not nice but as least they can satisfy themselves and maybe u'll get other info (eg hcg so u know how pg u r), really happy for u babes, x

LOL @ John wayne,

Got visions of it now! lol

Well you enjoy yourself. Going to docs today in about an hour, blood to be taken (ARGH NO!!!) They don't believe my test so they said they'll do a blood test instead of a p test. Don't know why, they didnt last time.

morning, thank u carly, ash and nikki, had to dash off so couldn't say it yesterday. dh got us a babysitter so we could go out for an hour! and good news is i think i ov'ed yesterday so that'd be a nice pressie if the dancing worked!
potty - how r u 2day (and sorry dont think I welcomed u, welcome)
carly - save me some rock cakes! our babysitter actualy brought a homemade cake round for dd1&2 to decorate which i thought was triple lovely, bless her.
mums - u have lovely df, oh and i wouldn't change jobs cos the timings work out as u have to be in present job before getting pg to get maternity pay. plus make those b@stards pay it after how horrible they are!
ash - glad af sorted herself out! hope she stays sorted out!
hc - good luck for scan I'm sure it's a good omen