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Conception

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TTC after a miscarriage - Jingle Beans, Jingle Beans, Beanies all the way!!

743 replies

jinglediddle · 06/12/2005 14:37

A fresh new thread.

Lets hope this one is as successful as the last and we can help as many people as we can to come to terms with what has happened to them.
Lets spread some christmas support for everyone.

xxx

OP posts:
XmasAngelCrimboKat · 08/12/2005 17:06

Conception : Pregnant!!! But not sure who the Dad is?

can't do links I'm afraid no forward space button.

mumsXMASwish · 08/12/2005 16:58

can't find it

XmasAngelCrimboKat · 08/12/2005 16:54

I can but look hun.
Everyone, check out the thread about "Pg and not sure who the father is" Stupid, attention seeking mare.
Had to post my two pence worth!

carlychristmas · 08/12/2005 16:29

ok then i will leave it till saturday too got any good wishing spells?

XmasAngelCrimboKat · 08/12/2005 16:28

I've only got one left so I'll have to leave until then lol. You should give them to your other half and get him to take them to work lol. Out of sight out of mind.

XmasAngelCrimboKat · 08/12/2005 16:27

I was thinking Saturday or Monday. I'm due Saturday but month before last i was 3 days late. If i don't come on Saturday then I will, but sure it'll be a bfn.

carlychristmas · 08/12/2005 16:24

i really need to put them under lock and key or at least not order them till one day b4 af is due that way if there not there i cant test (thats in theory - in practical i then leg it down to asda and spend 7 pound on one of theres!!! )
XACK are you still going to test saturday? If you do then lets both promise not to do one till then i will be much better if i know its not just me

XmasAngelCrimboKat · 08/12/2005 16:18

So true Nikki, must be. That's why I don't normally have them in the house lol

FirstSaintNikkilass · 08/12/2005 16:15

maybe there's something in the packet that screams ---test me test me test me... like the tango??

XmasAngelCrimboKat · 08/12/2005 16:13

Carly- {{{{{hugs}}}} It's awful having the tests because you have to use them! I know this feeling too well. Got a bfn today. Totally expected as I'm not due until Saturday but it called me!!! It made me do it (damn thing)

carlychristmas · 08/12/2005 16:12

nikki what on earth gave you the idea that i have friends in RL????? ........ seriously though i wont test until tomorrow morning and as soon as i know i will post if i expect a bfn and i get it, it wont be a shock if its a bfp it will be a pleasant surprise

XmasAngelCrimboKat · 08/12/2005 16:11

Hiya again all.
Still flagging here totally. Slept for an hour, went to town and still feel shattered. Think I'll be getting an early one tonight!
How's everyone?

FirstSaintNikkilass · 08/12/2005 16:07

carly, if you can't bear the thought of bfn then can you give tests to a friend for safe keeping until Saturday??

Atomicstockinghanger · 08/12/2005 16:07

carly, sweetness, don't apologise. You know we are here what ever your mood. look at me the other day - was a right misery guts. You must never feel you have to say sorry

mumsXMASwish · 08/12/2005 16:05

Carly, you dont need to convince us, if you want to test then test. If it makes you feel better but if getting another BFn is going to upset you don't test.

Either way goodluck

carlychristmas · 08/12/2005 16:04

God i've just re read my last few posts and feel i have to apologise for completley dragging everyone down in my mood (again ) I dont mean to be such a grump i think its just PMT and at the moment feel like everything is against me from now on there will be no more faces (well apart from that one !) just lots of these xx

carlychristmas · 08/12/2005 16:02

i'll do one first thing in the morning, im gonna be in a shitty mood anyway cos i got to take my car back for its mot and probably cost me hundreds (again!) so if it is a bfn which i expect then if any asks why im upset i can say its my car. Saying that i wont get to down until af arrives as it could still be too early (i dont know who im trying to convince here )

FirstSaintNikkilass · 08/12/2005 16:01

yes I think I may of said already somewhere I test -ve until the day AF due but I know we are all different and there's know rule of thumb..

Atomicstockinghanger · 08/12/2005 15:58

If you test carly just be aware that if you get a BFN it might be wrong. I would hate for you to be disappointed.

mumsXMASwish · 08/12/2005 15:58

it depends how vunerable you're feeling. If you can accept a BFN and know that you can still try on Saturday without getting upset then I think you can test, if you cant dont test!!!!!

carlychristmas · 08/12/2005 15:56

sorry nikki next instalment is....................100grams of butter
slink i desperately want to wait till saturday as today is cd26 but my tests arrived this morning and its really hard knowing they are there the sensible side of me is saying, im still testing too early as there are many factors to take into account like i may not have ovd on cd14 it could have been later although i had ewcm (tmi?) on cd14?? See how confused i am? but then the stupid side is saying yeah go for it and test.

Atomicstockinghanger · 08/12/2005 15:52

there is only one way to find out carly hun, but i think you should wait til you are due AF. If you get another bfn it will really upset you and i already worry about you. wait til at least tomorrow. xxx

mumsXMASwish · 08/12/2005 15:50

I'd test today (but then I'm like you, want to test loads before I should) I'ts completely upto you hun.

Exactly how do you feel? You said you got sore boobs, but crampy. Well (i'm not getting your hopes up) aparently you can feel crampy pains when you are. But you can also have sore boobs when AF is going to arrive.

FirstSaintNikkilass · 08/12/2005 15:49

ash - no need to apologise just checking you ok

xmw - lol I just read down to check who said it and was just about to post....errrrm error brain cells gone - john wayne wailing...

carly - bear with it...and wait until Saturday x take your mind off it... I have only got buy some scales and 300g of plain flour of the rock cake recipe day 2 of installments ??

slinksanta · 08/12/2005 15:46

carly test tommorrow to put your mind at rest
gonna keep everything crossed for ya hun