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Let's make some May babies

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louloubellamozzarella · 23/07/2011 21:12

The end of July is drawing near; SWI with DP hasn't been as frequent as hoped; and I've decided to err on the side of caution.

So. Here's a thread for anyone else hoping to make a beautiful May 2012 baby.

I am 27 and TTC #1. Been on pill for an age so unsure of cycles. Only been trying for a couple of weeks - the more I type the more I note my wild optimism!!

Anyone else who knows more about this business than I do? Please come and give me some hope that a May baby might be at all possible :)

OP posts:
festiemum · 05/08/2011 07:52

Gah, I'm overweight too... Think my BMI's in the early 30s too - it is, as missuswife says, just about making sensible food choices when ttc and not going mad 'eating for two' when pg! (Something I've always failed at, natch!)

As for passive-aggressive shit from others. Well, fuck 'em; that kind of comment's always more about their hang ups than you! It's not as if you're in the 'needs a mobility scooter to get about' category!! :) :) :)

missuswife · 05/08/2011 06:59

I'm overweight too but the practice nurse at my new GP surgery was way less stressed about it than I expected. I just found out I'm hypothyroid, after trying to slim for a year and only getting bigger and bigger. I've decided to just eat small portions of healthy foods and not worry too much. I also read a quote that's been inspiring me, "eat for the body you want, not the body you have." That has helped a lot when making choices. But mostly I'm just trying to eat nutritiously and not get any bigger.

Haters just wanna hate, don't waste your energy on them.

Tibbycat · 05/08/2011 06:48

Anyone here overweight and ttc? Had s real meany on another thread who kindly pointed I wasn't just overweight...I'm obese with a bmi of 33....thanks to them for pointing that out and then 'wishing me luck'! Sad !

The1andOnly · 05/08/2011 02:07

Sorry guys! My AF is due 25th august. Smile

missuswife · 05/08/2011 01:01

Hi ladies,

I posted elsewhere on MN but just thought I'd join the May Baby Zeppelin (buses are so dreary). I'm 31, and we're TTC our first child. I just stopped taking the pill two weeks ago after thirteen years. I got a twinge on Tuesday this week so I checked the ovulation chart thingy and it said I am indeed supposed to be ovulating right now. I had very regular 28 cycles before going on the pill so hopefully that is still the case.

We're being pretty relaxed about TTC, but it would be exciting if it happened soon.

pillowupmyjumper · 04/08/2011 23:58

Astroness......Can we be a spaceship?

Rusulka · 04/08/2011 23:05

I have spent the day on google again instead of unpacking boxes. Dush.

However I have found out that I most likely keep getting BFNs because despite was it says on the tin, at AF-5 hCG would still only be visible in a blood test. For POAS I'll have to wait until at least Sunday (AF-2) and even then, only 25% will get a positive.

What was the point of getting 10mIU/ml tests? Dammit, I want to know NOW but at least there's still hope for a potential bun.

I would also like to state that I am categorically against baby dust or any form of sparkly ickle (ugh) wishes of whatever. Makes me want to vom.

Re: baby dust being crusty spunk- LMAOYSST. :o

mskatemc · 04/08/2011 22:13

By the way, I've got terrible heartburn this evening...

mskatemc · 04/08/2011 22:02

NotNowImReading (34) TTC1, AF due 1st Sept
MammaInTheMaking(26) TTC? AF due (but very much not welcome) 4th August
Rusulka (31) TTC #1 AF due 9th Aug
Catsycat 38 (Joining Quenelle in an eek!) ttc #3 AF due 13th August (ish??)
Threecurranntbuns TTC#4 AF due 14th August ish
AstroNess 28 TTC #1 AF due 19th Aug ish
Festiemum 37 TTC #4 AF due 18th August
Mildertduck 28 TTC #1 AF due 20th August (ish)
Orangehead (33) TTC #3 AF due 24th Aug
Pillow (28) TTC #1 AF due 24th Aug
Buggerlugs82 (28) TTC#1 AF due 26th Aug (ish)
Cosmic Mouse (28) TTC#2 AF due 26th Aug ish
Kveta 29 TTC #2 (DC1 Sep 09) AF due around end of aug, depending on what cycle is up to grin
Lindsell29 ttc#2 no idea on AF as never have it when on pill! grin
Louloubella 27 TTC #1 AF due ?? (soon pleeease
JoInScotland 38 TTC #2 (DS Jan 10) AF due ??
Quenelle 42 (eek!) TTC #2 (DS Jun 09) AF due 29 Aug
MuckyHighChair (24) TTC #2 AF due 31 Aug
Puzzletree ??
Harryan (30) TCC #3 AF due?
Clandy (23) TTC #2 AF due ?
Tibbycat ??
Mama5isalive ??
mskatemc (35) ttc1, AF due 14th August (ish)

puzzletree · 04/08/2011 21:38

Sorry AF arrived notnowimreading, really hope this is your month.

puzzletree (34) TTC3 (where's the hash key on a macbook???) AF due some time near end of august

notnowImreading · 04/08/2011 20:46

MammaInTheMaking- did yours arrive today?

notnowImreading · 04/08/2011 20:45

Updating again - notnowimreading ttc 1, AF due 1st Sept. AF due yesterday arrived today. Grrr.

AstroNess · 04/08/2011 20:28

Hi lovely ladies

Here's an update on the stats (a few bits missing):

NotNowImReading (34) TTC?, AF due 3rd Aug
MammaInTheMaking(26) TTC? AF due (but very much not welcome) 4th August
Rusulka (31) TTC #1 AF due 9th Aug
Catsycat 38 (Joining Quenelle in an eek!) ttc #3 AF due 13th August (ish??)
Threecurranntbuns TTC#4 AF due 14th August ish
AstroNess 28 TTC #1 AF due 19th Aug ish
Festiemum 37 TTC #4 AF due 18th August
Mildertduck 28 TTC #1 AF due 20th August (ish)
Orangehead (33) TTC #3 AF due 24th Aug
Pillow (28) TTC #1 AF due 24th Aug
Buggerlugs82 (28) TTC#1 AF due 26th Aug (ish)
Cosmic Mouse (28) TTC#2 AF due 26th Aug ish
Kveta 29 TTC #2 (DC1 Sep 09) AF due around end of aug, depending on what cycle is up to grin
Lindsell29 ttc#2 no idea on AF as never have it when on pill! grin
Louloubella 27 TTC #1 AF due ?? (soon pleeease
JoInScotland 38 TTC #2 (DS Jan 10) AF due ??
Quenelle 42 (eek!) TTC #2 (DS Jun 09) AF due 29 Aug
MuckyHighChair (24) TTC #2 AF due 31 Aug
Puzzletree ??
Harryan (30) TCC #3 AF due?
Clandy (23) TTC #2 AF due ?
Tibbycat ??
Mama5isalive ??

PS. Are we a bus? Or shall we pick a more interesting mode of transport? Never did like buses much...

CosmicMouse · 04/08/2011 19:40

I'm still here and SWI. My body is playing tricks on me and suggesting I might be ovulating sooner than normal. So we've started the SWI early just in case. The things we have to do eh! Grin

I'm all pre-seeded up, and it was our first cycle using pre-seed that we fell pregnant with DD...so I'm feeling hopeful!

Feels like ages since I began this cycle but I'm only on CD12 or so Envy Aaages til testing.

puzzletree · 04/08/2011 19:05

hello mama5!
there's a little ovulation calculator thing over there ---> which you can use to predict when you'll be most fertile.

Catsycat · 04/08/2011 18:50

Hi mama5 nice to see you! You're most fertile round the time you ovulate, so if you don't want to chart, it is round when you have the EWCM appear, or when your cervix feels soft (I have NEVER managed to find my cervix - I keep it up near my tonsils somewhere)! Lovely!! The average is 14 days after AF starts, on a 28 day cycle, but can vary from person to person.

Quenelle as long as it doesn't go pinging across the room.... Grin

HeidiHole · 04/08/2011 18:47

Mama5 I believe it depends on your cycle length but your most fertile days are normally somewhere roughly about CD 12-15 if CD1 is the first day of bleeding.

Someone may correct me though. Different for everyone anyway...

HeidiHole · 04/08/2011 18:45

haha this thread is so funny! I've had my legs up and DH laughed like a drain until I showed him that the NHS or BBC or some other gov't site actually RECOMMENDED it for TTC

got bored after a bit tho and went to sleep. It didn't work anyway :D

I agree with whoever said about the not realising how 'hard' it was to conceive. I was taught I swear that if a Manjo even comes close to you, that's it - there'll be twins growing inside you before you can blink.

Now I discover its only a few days a month and you've got to obsess work out which days they are!

At the moment i'm just waiting... waiting.. waiting for my period to arrive after implant removal 4 weeks ago so I can get started properly. Not that we haven't been practicing the last 4 weeks just in case

Mama5isalive · 04/08/2011 18:09

hello - im getting on this bus - (my DH dropped me at the busvstop so jumping on the first bus that came along!
Waving to faces i know!!!!!!!! puzzletree & Catsycat!!!!!)

ok before i go mad how long after your af has gone are you most fertile!!!!Blush!!!
im so confused never watched it like this before but now my DH has given me the go get pregnant look, i really want it to happen now had a MMC in June and my af came on the 27th July 5 days!!!!
what to do now!!!!!!!

Quenelle · 04/08/2011 17:22

Catsycat I have this nightmare vision of residual Preseed causing the Softcup to slide out of its own accord at an inopportune moment. (As if there is an opportune moment Grin)

Hi Harryan Sorry about your MC. Good luck with #3.

Catsycat · 04/08/2011 16:37

Rusulka Enjoying "Manjo". Will definitely be adopting that one...

Quenelle I stand corrected on the idea of the cup to keep the product in. You learn something new every day. But I still don't think it would work.

Am now thinking of starting the Dukan Diet as I just weighed myself and I am far fatter than I thought.

Sooo pleased we're not wishing baby dust on each other on here. It freaks me out, though I suppose it's well meant! (Still laugh at it though).

Harryan · 04/08/2011 15:03

Hello! :) Am I too late to join?? Blush
Am 30 and started ttc#3 beginning of this month! :)
Had a miscarraige last year after a surprise pg....Since realised We really want a 3rd and final babby :)

puzzletree · 04/08/2011 14:55

Haha, this thread is so funny. Glad you've all got a sense of humour!
Really looking forward for this period to be over so I can get on with sign-spotting, and calculating the best opportunities to jump on DP. In the past we've been able to conceive quite easily by just having sex a lot when I felt up for it- guess this co-incided with fertile time. So will probably go with that approach again, but with a bit of added knowledge :)

I also agree with you all that it's unfortunate that we are so fertile when we're young, but i suppose that's just nature's way of propagating the human race. Shame humans mentally tend to grow up so slowly!

Quenelle · 04/08/2011 14:47

Manjo! Grin

Hi and welcome HeidiHole, Clandy, LadyGrace and Tibbycat. Cor, there's quite a crowd of us in this bus shelter now isn't there? We'll all have to schooch up to stay dry in this weather.

Sorry Tibby, no experience re coil removal or weight gain, although isn't weight loss more likely to result in periods stopping?

I confess I stuck a pillow under my bum for 5 minutes after SWI last time I was TTC. I also didn't go for a run the day after, in case stuff got jiggled out quicker (that was DH's idea so I wasn't the only one making daft suggestions).

Right, so no wishing each other babydust on here then. May I just say to you all then that I hope all your spunk is wet and not crusty for as long as you all need it.

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