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Not sure

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maybetwo · 26/11/2005 13:18

Ive changed my name and not sure why Im doing this , as not really into talking about ttc etc , as last time I did , I lost.
Im not sure of all the abreviations for everything , but Im day 22 today , we did it day 16 , but Im not sure if its day 16 or 18 , as I was several days late last month. MY cycle is normally 26 days , but last mth I was 31 I think, not sure !!
I have been having increasing metal taste the last few days and its quite strong , also today Ive started getting a deep ache in the left of my tummy. I also have started feeling quite sick today.

I cant test till wednesday when Ill be day 26, using first reponse.

If I am Im very pleased as I want my dd to have a companion and she is 27mths, but my worries are trauma birth , ptsd & pnd. I had a terrrible traumatic time last time i.e all the above listed and my stomach churns at the thought of going to a certain hospital near me. IM not sure if a doula, private midwife or something else will help me.

I would justlike to have a thread were I feel I can talk about these things.

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Mercy · 02/12/2005 13:51

Maybetwo. With ds I had what I described as a stop/start period complete with the usual stomach cramps. Bleeding was heavy enough to use a tampon so I had no idea I was pregnant until several days later.

So, yes it is possible to have a painful implantation bleed. Fingers crossed!

munz · 02/12/2005 13:27

brown blood tends to be 'old' blood so fingers crossed for you.

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maybetwo · 02/12/2005 13:23

Is it normal to have some pain with implantation? It not nasty just a deep dull ache. It seems better when I lay down. I dont seem to have any more on the pad , just a little pinky brown line on tissue.

I just need to talk , Ive been sitting her on sofa all morning googling implantation.

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maybetwo · 02/12/2005 11:47

thanx pol, I saw your thread ,I know how you feel.

I juts keep looking at my double line and getting confused thinking may be its dodgy! It said to keep it 48hrs and if loine stays then deffo +ive. (Im learning all the abbrevs now!)

Just hoping that this bleeding doesnt increase.

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Pol25 · 02/12/2005 11:35

Oh maybtwo... I hope you're alright. Good luck and put your feet up.
Sending you big hugs.

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maybetwo · 02/12/2005 11:28

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maybetwo · 02/12/2005 11:02

This may be tmi , but some of whats coming of on tissue when I wipe is dark little lumps,which seem like old blood, I dont normally get that when having normal af?? There isnt much on the pad , but its normally like that until day tow when I FLOOD out.

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maybetwo · 02/12/2005 11:00

ty aprilirl, my dh is home soon so he can look after dd and let me lay in peace. Ty for your words.

dh made me laugh on the phone though , he said everyone will say rest , but he said its not like it will drop out like a ball rattling around! If its meant to stick it will and vica versa!

Still want to cry though

I have nasty pains too

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aprilgirl · 02/12/2005 10:55

maybetwo im sorry to hear that huni but your mum is right get plenty of rest and hopefully it will be implantaion bleedin nothing more worrying! its a hard time for you bur really try to rest and to say dont worry is silly cos its natuaral you will, take it easy and i wish you lots of love xxx

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maybetwo · 02/12/2005 10:45

Ive started bleeding , it happned last night at midnight and Im really confused now. My mum has told me to rest. I am only day 28 today , so may be this one didnt take like the last one this time 3yrs ago & my af has just started . Im going to just have to wait it out now and see if its just spotting i.e implantation or full blown af.

I supppose if I lose it , its made me realise how much I want another. Especially going in to see my dd this morning, I got upset for her as I so want to see her playing with a sibling.

Im going from ok I can dela with this its one fo those things , to crying and feeling really cut up.

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maybetwo · 01/12/2005 18:11

ty sophable

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Heathcliffscathy · 01/12/2005 18:01

many congrats maybetwo....fantastic news...

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maybetwo · 01/12/2005 17:57

well I couldnt resist as had a test ready and waiting for Saturday , but last night I had the urge!

I have 2 lines YIPEEEEEEEE(I had a little cry also last night , not sure what that was ; a realisation a shock , joy???) , BUT Ive had a miscarriage before my dd so Ive got to be really careful now. I wont go official on here with my real name until 12wks ish , as I want to make sure I keep this one 1st. This feels really weird though !!!

I do feel VERY sick and havent been able to eat properly today . I didnt really suffer to bad last time just nauseous , but a few times to today Ive had to breathe deeply to make it pass. UH OH , im only 4weeks , whats it going to be like when the hgc levels are full tilt OOHH NOOOOOOO !!!!

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HumphreysCorner · 27/11/2005 10:42

Good luck to both of you.

(((xx)))

Pol25 · 26/11/2005 22:54

Good luck! Thinking of you heaps. My friend is also trying, my daughter is 14 months and her little boy is 19 months. She has had one month trying and opne period and i've had one month trying and no period- as yet! Fingers crossed...
Not sure how i'll feel if i'm not preg, either way i'm sure that i'll cry! I'm just that type of person.
I was lucky I guess last time although I had pre eclapmsia and v. high blood pressure. And spent alot of time being monitored for reduced/no movements and my bubba had her cord round her neck and was purple. My only trauma- if you can call it that was that my epidural didn't really work- didn't help the anethesitist did it mid contraction tho! But all in all went into labour on Fri at 2pm and had my bubba on Saturday at 5:31am... I didn't go to hospital until midnight either. The midwife who delivered my D was lovely and the most amazing support I could of wished for and the majority of the hospital staff were lovely too. Not so sure how i'd feel if I had lots of probs last time but I know I loved being preg and love my D soooooo much- wet I know but true. Cannot wait until I am preg and have number two!
Good luck Maybetwo!

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