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Still not up the duff

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littlewater · 05/07/2011 22:02

well I'm still not up the duff. Only been 3 months. Feeling a little blue oh well of to work tomorrow.
Lw

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buggerlugs82 · 06/07/2011 21:45

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OracleInaCoracle · 06/07/2011 21:41

No, just the boy is mine, the girl is a mn friends. [Grin] at twins, although my first cycle I got 16 (iirc) follies. Was advised to not ttc, totally ignored of course Grin poor dh thought his willy would drop off

buggerlugs82 · 06/07/2011 21:34

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OracleInaCoracle · 06/07/2011 21:21

Lol buggerlugs, my cons looks like mr toad. He is vile. But now I'm used to the dildocam. They may try clomid on you, which is a bugger. I became the antichrist

OracleInaCoracle · 06/07/2011 21:18

I'm being tested for it myself (I have joint issues too) I tell dh, it'll be worth it in the end.

buggerlugs82 · 06/07/2011 21:17

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itsohsoquiet · 06/07/2011 21:16

Yes lissielou. Hopefully I don't have it but if I do it can be successfully treated so it's not the end of the world. Just another hurdle. My mum wasn't diagnosed until very recently and had lots of miscarriages because of it. Although she did have two healthy children eventually. If I end up with two healthy children it will all be worth it, no matter how long it takes.

OracleInaCoracle · 06/07/2011 21:16

I will find a link to it when dh gets off the laptop (am on phone). Agnus castus is a herb which lengthens your leutal phase, you get it from health food shops but its very, very powerful. It basically postpones your period, but people have recommended it on here without consulting an expert or seeing whether it is needed. It doesn't get you pregnant and it can mess you up pretty badly. And the damage can be pretty long term.

Lw, thank you x

OracleInaCoracle · 06/07/2011 21:10

Buggerlugs, hopefully it will work. What is the next plan?

Ariesgirl · 06/07/2011 21:09

Forgive my ignorance, but what is lupus please? And what's the deal on Agnus castus, lissie? I thought I would give it a go for some unknown reason a few months ago and then stopped when I heard about it being pretty powerful stuff and not to be underestimated.

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littlewater · 06/07/2011 21:09

Lissie, good luck.
Lw

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OracleInaCoracle · 06/07/2011 21:07

Ah, so a form of lupus? The drug treatment is vv good (and reduces the risk of mc) I genuinely hope you don't have to wait much longer, and thank you. The only good things are that its made dh and I closer, and I am 100% sure that I am ready.

buggerlugs82 · 06/07/2011 21:06

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itsohsoquiet · 06/07/2011 21:03

APS (Antiphospholipid syndrome)
I can't imagine having to wait as long as some of you for a baby and I really do feel for you. Sorry for posting without taking the time to think about what I was saying first!

OracleInaCoracle · 06/07/2011 21:01

Buggerlugs, I am I'm afraid and I really wish I'd been wrong. I spout about agnus castus and other fertilty drugs taken without prescription along with early testing and opks frequently. There is so little info out there and desperation makes you do things you wouldn't normally. Have you seen a gp? Feb is too lkong, they need to start your period asap.

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littlewater · 06/07/2011 20:57

Yeah your right bugger,
Maybe because I've got family stuff to do, that will teach me to become a good parent.

Lw

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littlewater · 06/07/2011 20:52

Lissie,
Thanks I'm glad I havnt offended anyone. I just needed to vent. It must be awful to wait years! All I know is that when that babe arrives it will worth the wait.

Aries, I think that's what set me off, I worked with the two girls that are pg.

Lw

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OracleInaCoracle · 06/07/2011 20:52

Itsohsoquiet, sorry if I was a bit harsh. I know its shit and I wish you luck, I am v disheartened myself at the moment thanks to everyone having babies, including my junkie abusive cousin, and just hitting the 6 year mark. I am truly sorry. What is the blkood thing?

itsohsoquiet · 06/07/2011 20:47

I guess some of my comments were a bit thoughtless. I didn't mean to upset anyone. just very emotional right now Sad

Ariesgirl · 06/07/2011 20:44

See, littlewater! I told you TTC makes you mental! And no, Katie, it's not a competition, you're right. But it's very hard not to feel like a loser when people all around you keep getting pregnant.

I hope you get your BFP soon x

OracleInaCoracle · 06/07/2011 20:44

Noone is saying you should apologise for being upset ffs, I took exception to you saying that ttc for 3m is just as bad as ttc for years. It isn'tm its not even in the same league. I've had 13 mcs in the 6y I've been ttc. I refuse to accept that being disappointed after 3 months is the same, because I've been there and know it isn't. It wasn't my or anyones intention to upset you, just to say "come on, its nothing" there's nothing wrong with a reality check

Katielou, no its not a competition, but some empathy (as aries said) goes a long way.

Littlewater, seriously, don't worry. You haven't offended and I hope you get your bfp soon

InTheSunshine · 06/07/2011 20:40

X posts LW Smile