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Emmsys weebling onwards and upwards into summer.

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VJay · 06/06/2011 16:52

Here we are a new spruced up greenhouse Smile

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CurlyLikesShortShorts · 26/07/2011 23:36

4ever honey I've been thinking of you all day since your text. I am so heartbroken for you Sad you so don't deserve this. I hope that you are getting some lovely snuggles fromyour gorgeous girl xxxx

littlebellsmum · 26/07/2011 22:05

4ever So sorry to hear this, so sorry for the three of you. Hope Summer is keeping you strong xxxx

MummysLittleSunbeams · 26/07/2011 21:34

Oh 4ever I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. I was told by Neeko today & I just had to end my self-imposed exile to come back & give you a hug. I'm sure you are holding that little girl of yours very tightly tonight.

I've had some major stresses of my own recently & my little Kitty is facing an mri scan under general anesthetic as they have found a birth defect nine months on from being born. Anyway I'm not going to go on about that tonight. I'll be back tomorrow. xxx

BlueMoon1981 · 26/07/2011 20:44

oh 4ever I am so so sorry :( sending you the hugest squishy hug, come and talk when you are ready, go easy on yourself... xxxxxxx

QuestionableAntics · 26/07/2011 19:06

4ever So Sad for you and your DH. Agree with louey that life can be too cruel. Sad xx

bakingqueen · 26/07/2011 15:00

4ever just seen your news so so sorry to hear what's happened thinking of you and ypur dh x

BuddhaBelly · 26/07/2011 14:35

Sad 4ever Sad Sad words fail me Sad

loueytb3 · 26/07/2011 13:41

Oh 4ever I'm so so sorry Sad. Life is too cruel

bluesatinsash · 26/07/2011 13:25

Sad 4ever xxx

VJay · 26/07/2011 13:23

Oh 4ever I am so so sorry SadSad you poor love and poor dh too. I'm thinking of you both xxxxxxxxx

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4everhopeful · 26/07/2011 13:08

Sad news... Our little babies heart has stopped beating.. Sad RIP my little angel xxxxxx

VJay · 26/07/2011 12:36

Thanks Buddha and I am over sensitive I hold my hands up to that, you see I had no idea with cjay, missed it completely so now I am probably over compensating.

4ever thinking of you, hope your little bean is waving at you right now Smile xx

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BuddhaBelly · 26/07/2011 11:38

Vjay I'm glad I made you cry (in the nicest possible way) if it helped you to feel a little less like a crappy mum which you are so not! Even if Ajay develops sn in the same way as Cjay it is not down to anything you have or haven't done, your children are still as gorgeous and well loved as any child could be, it just might be that they are wired up a little differently. You may well just be over sensitive but if you are right what better Mummy could Cjay ask for as you've been there done that already so you know exactly what to expect and how to deal with it! Keep smiling Smile

VJay · 26/07/2011 11:20

Buddha your post has just made me cry, I feel like the crappiest mum at the mo. We've not said anything to cjay yet as he hasnt asked anymore, but I'm worried about ajay too he's not saying much at all maybe 3 or 4 words if that and gabbles away in his own language just like cjay did.
I will pull myself together, just feeling crap today.

4ever it's your job to cheer me up with some fab news Smile good luck sweetie.

Buddha have now just finished reading your post and did laugh at him calling his daddy dick Grin you are a wonderful brave mum Smile parenting is the biggest emotional ride ever!!!!

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BuddhaBelly · 26/07/2011 10:54

4ever Will look forward to your good news later (positive thoughts see! Smile)
Barbie Gorgeous photo on FB of DH and Dolly Smile
Louey Thank goodness you didn't get stuck in a traffic jam expressing Wink glad you finally came to a decision that's right for you. Been laughing at your status updates on FB re the shred Grin Sounds as if you having a day from hell today, poor little Oscar I'm sure he's fine after his little incident, but sounds like Isaac is pushing his boundaries somewhat!
Mermaid Hope you are having a wonderful time camping
Cupcake Anything you want to tell us?? Grin Priceless finding that quote from Louey Smile
Vjay Good luck with telling Cjay, you are so well informed and such a good Mum that I'm sure he'll feel very supported and loved and not have any doubts etc.
LBM Enjoy your holiday and fantastic news on the walking - they're all at it now Smile

Ewan has been in his big boys bed for a week now, to be fair the transition has been easy, he's been going down well, just not staying asleep but he did that in his cot anyway so no change there! Took him to doctors this morning as this last ear infection has been hanging around for a while, they have said not to take him unless he has a temperature, which he has this morning, doctor did say she's never seen such an angry red little ear before, poor little sausage, got a delayed prescription for anti-b's will see how he is tomorrow, but he's currently lying on the sofa watching Nemo (for the 100th time) which is not like him at all Sad Got hold of Birmingham childrens hospital this morning when we got back and spoke to two lovely ladies who have got him booked in for 17th August to see a consultant. At last! Just hope the waiting list for the op isn't too long Hmm as he seems to be in constant pain Sad
At the weekend DH and I were teaching him to say new words, so we asked him to say my name which was fine, then we asked him to say DH's name (Chris) it kept coming out as "dick" which I thought was hysterically funny Grin not sure DH thought the same though Wink

bakingqueen · 26/07/2011 10:15

Just a quick post to say thinking of you 4ever virtual hand holds to you x x

Love to the rest of you luca calling so have to go one day will get chance to do proper post!!!

4everhopeful · 26/07/2011 08:56

Oh louey what a night of it Confused not surprised you ended up in tears!

lbm huge yay to babybelle for walking Grin

cupcake poor Jude, Summers molars have been threatening to come through for weeks, wish they would just break through, she was poorly yesterday with a temperature so that added to my anxiety greatly, little sausage seems better today thank god!

Blue sympathies for your poor wee boy with croup too...

That's just taken me forever to type on this new phone Hmm all that I've got time left to say now is thanks fof the hands lovely thoughtful ladies, i need them, the inevitable wobbles are here... scan is at 12pm. Confused Will try and get out to tx some of you asap xxxxxx

loueytb3 · 26/07/2011 06:19

And meant to say cupcake molars are just horrible - poor J. Hope you managed to get the shopping done in the end.

loueytb3 · 26/07/2011 06:17

Morning!

blue poor Isaac Sad, hope he gets better soon. Luke doesn't seem too bad and didn't wake up with the cough last night so hopefully he's on the mend.

4ever what time is your scan? Am around this morning for hand holding.

lbm I'm so pleased you are having such nice weather and well done to BB for graduating to todderhood. All these little babies are now walking - eek!

vjay better to be prepared for the conversation when it comes. I guess it's something that will evolve over time as cjay has more questions.

cupcake you are right of course and I did read your post and go off and eat a large piece of cake Blush. The exercise is not just about losing the baby blubber but also about making me feel better, which it did until yesterday evening....

Had a fairly disastrous evening. In the space of 15 minutes from getting home from the childminders, Isaac managed to drop my iPhone and smash the screen, wee all over the bedroom carpet while I was doing his therapy and then while I was cleaning that up, escaped downstairs and took Oscar out his car seat and dropped him on the floor. I think he dropped him because he heard me coming and he knows he's not supposed to pick him up. It was only from a small height and O seemed fine but it gave me such a fright. DH came home in the middle of all this with me in tears. And then to top it all, I put some grated cheese on my beans for dinner and only after eating it did I realise it was mouldy despite it coming from an unopened packet which was still in date. Yuck!

bluesatinsash · 25/07/2011 22:06

Quick post from phone, work v busy no time for posting but wanted to send support through the ether to 4ever for tomorrow x

Promise catch up before Friday, my pfb has croup at the grand old age of five so is tucked up in bed beside me as I type, his breathing sounds so sore.. Louey sorry to hear croup has hit loueyville it's made how these viruses sweep the country

littlebellsmum · 25/07/2011 21:29

V irritated - I posted last night and the 'puter ate it.
On holiday in the very lovely and very sunny Lake district - this will be the first time ever that I have come back from here with a tan. Hurrah!

No time for personals as my dh will not be happy if I spend all night on here as they have free wi fi!!

But having a lovely time - DH and older DC's were canoeing on windermere earlier today . I was on the shore with a stroppy BB and a bit jealous as the boats looked more fun. BB was stroppy as she wanted to walk and the grass was damp - she started walking yesterday and now doesn't want to do anything else!

Enjoy the sun everyone

VJay · 25/07/2011 16:19

Happy birthday babyiggy Smile Smile

louey the nas does have leaflets and books that guide you on how to tell them. he hasn't mentioned anything today but I know we will be telling him soon whether it's next week of a few months from now, but the thoughts are in place.

Had such a busy day so I'm ready for the boys to go to bed, better feed them first Grin

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cupcakefairy · 25/07/2011 15:57

Was just reading one of our old threads (as you do) and saw this you posted louey!
"cupcake I agree with neeko I really wouldn't worry about the weight yet. Whoever said that bf'ing makes you lose weight is talking rubbish - it had the opposite effect on me and talking to most of my NCT group - they were the same. I think in part because I was eating more because I was so hungry. My weight only started to come down once I stopped bf'ing. It is obviously coming off if you are able to fit into smaller clothes so you will get there. I reckon 9 months on and 9 months off is a good saying to have in mind. We are not all supermodels."
So listen to that wise lady Grin

cupcakefairy · 25/07/2011 15:13

Oh and hi qa

Click 'watch this thread' and it never falls off your 'I'm watching' list even if you don't post :)

cupcakefairy · 25/07/2011 15:12

louey you have every right to eat crap with such a young baby!! Grin I did for about 4 months after Jude- cake just non stop!! Don't feel guilty just yet! Well done still carrying on expressing that's ace but sorry he never took to feeding :( You are so good remembering iggypiglet's birthday; was just thinking of iggy yesterday I'll send her a text.
As for broody

4ever thinking of you loads for tomorrow and here's my other hand for sympathy about your nan too :( you will deffo make the booking-in appointment cos I say so Grin
Yep we're off to France end of Aug with all my family. Ds was 4 months last time we went and just on breastmilk- so weird!

Vjay sorry you have such a tough call to make :( hope the sn boards are helping. Countdown 9 days til I see HP Grin

moon hope you're not wobbling too much about tomorrow, hairstrokes for you (Cos I'm out of hands I think Confused)

welcome back barbie :)

I have a very grumpy ds who has molars coming through...he had a total meltdown in asda this morning so I had to leave before finishing...still need loads of stuff so will have to go back tonight wearing sunglasses and a hoody so no one recognises me GrinGrin

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