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isn't it annoying? vol.2

636 replies

Bexamundo · 24/05/2011 21:19

So the last thread disappeared so here's the deal: I realised it's really annoying to drive yourself mad wondering if you're pg during the 2ww. Newbies welcome!

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NinjaChipmunk · 06/06/2011 21:56

oh gosh if I could give you big hug I would, thats all so shit. Breaking it down into its individual parts, is there anything you can do to improve swimmers/ swimming quality - Either food or vitamin wise? RE your ovulating, you're seeing a gp at least, have you thought about acupncture or reflexology? I have read stories on here regarding those helping to regulate cycles. And your poor leg must just feel like the icing on the cake.
Have a large drink on me girl. I hope it looks more rosy in the morning. xx

havealittlefaithbaby · 06/06/2011 21:42

Oh dear, I think I have pulled my hamstring. Well searing pain doing a lunge at the gym. Struggling to walk. DH has gone out to buy me a leg support so I can work tomorrow. Can't have any more time of sick! Hmm. Mega push at gym appears to have backfired. My sister thinks it's soft tissue damage and I'll be out of action.for at least 3/4 weeks. Boo!!
Yes sperm numbers seem.ok but just swim in.circles! None that swim in.straight lines, small amount category b (healthy but don't swim straight). If I'm ovulating irregular and his swimmers go round in circles it's no wonder we've had no joy. Am.very tearful.due to pain and what I'm assuming is pms. Deem it rather unlikely I'm up the duff thus month based on that sperm count.
Oh yes the erectile dysfunction. Not been too bad of late bit wonder if this might tip the balance the other way again.
Oh I've tried to be brave but I'm really sad right now.

NinjaChipmunk · 06/06/2011 21:17

Evening all, if I may say so I believe that it is quite common for a sperm test to come back low and they should retest once or twice more to get a better idea. It must be true as it says it on the internet.
Your poor dh though, I hope he doesn't take it too much to heart.

Interesting to read about your appointment pg, is a laparoscopy where they put dye in your tubes? How do they actually do it?

PatientGriselda · 06/06/2011 20:23

Argh about your DP's results, faithbaby! I am in dread of the same thing happening to my DP, followed by gloom and erectile dysfunction forevermore! Sounds like you are doing all you can to keep his spirit up. (iPhone changed that to "keep his spout up", which also works surprisingly well!). How does it work? Did he have lots of sperm, just not moving much? Or were sperm numbers problematic as well?

Yes, DP has been sent off to jizz in a pot - hurrah! The consultant seemed a bit pissed off that he hadn't done so before, but the doctor never suggested it, so I sort of assumed it was something that got done at the hospital stage. Ah well. I shall know for next time (!).

havealittlefaithbaby · 06/06/2011 17:08

piglet?. Lower!!!

havealittlefaithbaby · 06/06/2011 17:08

Ps interesting info pg, good to know. Has dp been sent off to provide his sample?
Hmm if they don't actually check your weight I shall say I'm 11 stone, anything piglet might be suspicious Hmm

havealittlefaithbaby · 06/06/2011 17:06

Hello, significant update from me, hot DH's test results back, not great. Seems they weren't very mobile (no class A superswimmers, 85% immobile). So now he thinks it's all him, I still think it's both of us. Need to make double GP appt now to discuss that, my fsh/lh results and also his depression. Trying not to be all doom and gloom, saying to him sure they will retest to.get a full picture. Welcome to princessamz.
Ironically still symptom spotting this month (hey you never know, wild optimism). Been told I look "odd" and "flushed". Also told a colleague about crazy dreams (not the bfp one!) and she said "that's a sign of pregnancy...crazy dreams.". Obviously upduffed!

PatientGriselda · 06/06/2011 16:49

Hi princess. Glad to have you along. An annoyance shared is an annoyance halved, and all that.

Appointment was ok, though I felt distinctly flat afterwards. I had 20mins with a senior house doctor going through my medical history, then 20mins with the consultant. She is looking at DP's semen results and assuming they don't show any probs on his side, she is booking me in for laparoscopy. Basically it was lots of talking, and looking up details of what's happened so far in my file.

The best bit was she took my word for it about my weight/BMI and didn't make me get on any scales :) Am celebrating with a cup of coffee and an ancient Cadbury's Creme Egg. Back on the dietary wagon tomorrow though.

NinjaChipmunk · 06/06/2011 11:40

Hi Princess and welcome. Good luck with ttc!

PG good luck with the hosp appt, i'd be interested to hear what they actually do at the 1st appt as mine will be coming up in july. sorry you got bfn but there is still time if af hasn't shown up?

still feeling af symptoms here and she's due to show up any day now, fingers crossed this month she won't.

princessamz · 06/06/2011 10:13

hi guys
been reading your thread and am so glad there are other people like me out there!!:)
im in my first month of ttc and am totally obsessing about being pregnant.i only stopped my pill last month so im not expecting to get pregnant right away but everytime i feel slightly ill i start obsessing.
hope you dont mind me butting in but having other people in the same situation would really help xx

PatientGriselda · 06/06/2011 09:14

Bfn for me this morning. But still two days to go to equal last cycle length. Also, off for hospital appt this morning!

PatientGriselda · 06/06/2011 08:56

Aww, sorry it was just a dream. You know when you do get your bfp you will actually have to kiss this stick now, don't you?

havealittlefaithbaby · 06/06/2011 06:30

Should say 'miss this'. Kiss just sounds weird.

havealittlefaithbaby · 06/06/2011 06:29

How about faithbaby?!
Had such a vivid dream I was pg. Did a cb digital it said 8 weeks. I was thinking 'how did I kiss this?'. Even analysed in dream "am I dreaming?" But could feel breeze on.face and saw numbers of car number plates so though it must be real! Sad to wake up.

PatientGriselda · 06/06/2011 00:27

Oops.

I am just very envious of everyone else for bloody knowing. And having symptoms and things. You are all obviously pregnant! :o

PatientGriselda · 06/06/2011 00:26

Nice name! How do you want us to shorten it? HALFB? Faith?

No idea when I ovulated, ninja. I am just very envious of every

havealittlefaithbaby · 05/06/2011 21:52

Argh accidental posting...
Being faithful about getting pg despite now success for 18 months. A reminder for myself as much as anything!

havealittlefaithbaby · 05/06/2011 21:51

Why thanks, it's got a double meaning. One being quality quote from one of ky fave films of all time, the other that I'm a Christian be

NinjaChipmunk · 05/06/2011 21:08

oh and good name by the way, I like it!

havealittlefaithbaby · 05/06/2011 21:07

Oh yes, clearly upduffed.

NinjaChipmunk · 05/06/2011 21:05

i've been having mood swings today, dp had the audacity to moan that his dinner was taking a long time as he was starving hungry so I flounced out of the room in a big mood. Could that pass as a symptom? Oh and a mouth ulcer...that could be a symptom too?

still getting random patches of backache as well.

havealittlefaithbaby · 05/06/2011 20:52

Artist formerly known as Bexamundo here, watched Kelly's heroes had a name change inspiration.
Welcome to karbea. Loopy symptom spotting essential on this thread.
I'm experiencing awful reflux/nausea. It's not that I haven't eaten for hours or that I ate crap at lunch. It's morning sickness.[at night. On cd7.] Definitely Smile

Karbea · 05/06/2011 20:49

And feeling tearful whilst watching the antiques road show...

NinjaChipmunk · 05/06/2011 20:47

hot cross buns and barbeques will do it, bit like someone wafting a bacon sarnie under your nose.
hi karbea, hope they are the proper symptoms, its a nightmare isn't it?
PG cd43? that sucks a big one, any idea what day you ov'd?
I don't have any tests here and af dues tues/weds and tues is my day off. So I think it should be easy enough to hold out and then see how I feel then.

Off to put ds to bed, back in a bit

PatientGriselda · 05/06/2011 19:47

Hi all. Sorry I've been away for a while, but have been lured back by the whiff of hot cross buns and barbecues! And hi especially to karbea.

Ninj, are you tempted by an early test before Tuesday? Or are you holding firm? I bought a test earlier, despite havIng distinct pre menstrual twinges as I shopped. Ah well. CD43 tomorrow.