Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 16)

Hi all, I only had a 2 and a half week cycle last month, this month I am spotting pink stuff already and its only day 11 of my cycle! whats going on? this has never happened to me before. Any words of wisdom greatly appreciated x

Morning all

Olis sorry you are feeling all unsettled, totally understand how stressful it can be with faint lines and the am I / aren't I emotions, really hoping for a very BFP for you later this week

melies you are not at all selfish, everone wants their own happy endings - I am sure you'll get yours soon. hope you are relaxing on the 2ww this month.

I go through the same emotions all the time - am constantly whinging to dh that I'm never going to have a baby, managed to dtd last night so hope that helps things along :o

Wednesdays List:

TTC

Tokyotwist ttc #2 cycle 1 cd 63 ucl unknown
Olismum23 ttc#2 cycle 3 cd 37 ucl 30-33
Loup23 ttc#1 cycle 4 cd 36 ucl 33ish
Meliesmummy ttc #2 cycle 4 cd 17 ucl 28
Stitchinline ttc#1 cycle 4 cd 7 ucl 33ish

WTTC

CuttlefishDramas

Recent BFPs

Lily06 ttc#1 BFP 13/05/11
Piglet ttc#1 6+2 weeks
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 5+2 wks

Morning ladies,

Olis that sounds very encouraging. A line is definately a line, however faint. I did a cb digi today and it says 3+, but the asda cheapie I did yesterday (slight poas obsession ) was still pretty faint and unconvincing, but after about 1/2 hour looks better. Keeping fx for your digi being a more positive result for you. Certainly sounds like you have all the symptoms. I know what you mean about ttc for so long. I stupidly kept putting it off for another year and another year etc then started 2 years ago and though it would be so easy.

Will catch up more later in the day.

Oh and sorry, so rude of me, hello to all the newbies. I'm so sorry that your losses have led you here, but I hope you find the reassurance, support and solace I did here. x

Sorry ladies not been by for a while.

Olis a line is a line, I have everything crossed that you get another BFP a bit later this week.

Mel your feelings are totally understandable, totally. Just hang in there, and maybe do step away a little like chloe has? But don't feel you have to. We're all rooting for you xxxx (((hugs)))

Bump,Lily,Laylas hoping all ok with you ladies?

wave to Collie and Cep x

Chloe hope all ok with you and holiday is booked??? Would love to hear all about it, thinking of you and hoping your enjoying just relaxing.

Hi Lilly how are you, I am fine got strong symptoms which is good, like sickness, tiredness and sore boobs. A line is a line no matter how feint it is so So big congratulations

I will hang round with you mels. I am still wttc so will give you a big head start!
You are definately not selfish. its hard trying again after a mc and it can kind of take over your life. Thats why i refuse to use opk's they just stress me out which i believe goes against all my efforts!
Chin up, its happened before and it will happen again x
(by the way I dont ever listen to my own advice :))

Olis what brand was it? Didn't someone on here recently have the same issues with an asda one? (lily?) A line is a line and most people don't get a bfp until 14dpo so no need for worrying just yet, buy some fr or cb digis (not the cross ones, I hate those since I got a false positive last year) and use fmu tomorrow and keep us posted. If af is late and you've got symptoms that all sounds positive to me x

Bump you are probably just lucky on the sickness thing, believe me it's not all it's cracked up to be! I had ms (night s really!) till 26 weeks then mildly till the end with dd, it was hideous and part of the reason I left it so long to try again [shudder emoticon]

Hi collie, I miss you too (and cep and chloe and blackkat), you all kept me sane when I was going through the mc and I will never forget that! [tears in the eyes emoticon] It's lovely when you pop back to check on us. Whilst I am so happy for all the bfps, I know more people in the freakout room now than on here, I'm feeling a bit :( about that to be honest. Practically everyone who mc around the same time as me has got a bfp now, and many that have come on since. Am I a selfish cow for feeling and and :( at the same time? I totally understand chloe's decision to step away.

Waves to everyone x

Hi Collie I am 7 +1 so within the sickness zone! I have had the odd queasy moment during the late afternoon but that's about it. I want to be sick!!!!

Olis don't panic. I reckon you are. Different testst can produce different results this early on. Were you using FMU in a pot? How long had it been sat there when you did the second test? I can't remember which thread but I def remember someone else posting that you should use fresh urine.

On the positive side...you are tearful (that's all the hormones) have sore boobs and no AF. Just hang in a bit longer and test again in a few days.

I found first response the best one to pick up a line. Go buy one of those xx

bump how far along are you? See my post yesterday to lily symptoms don't tend to kick in until about wk 6. I was 6 1/2 weeks. And 2 of my rl pg friends have had no sickness at all

lily was that your mc experince? No /empty scan or was it ectopic? (sorry I can't remember) I had lots of early pains and twinges, which seemed to ease when the ms kicked in. I understand your worry though. After all the horror stories I'd read I was pertified of an ectopic. I'm sure you'll be fine. Xx

olis you're line is a line. Ignore the shop one. It wasn't fmu either I assume? I found my lines varied A LOT early on, depending on the brand. I found my clearest line was on a FR. It was still v faint but it was clearer to see. I can't remember how many dpo I was when I got my lines, but I think it was later than you. Just hang in there a couple more days. Try not to do one tomorrow, then test again the next you'll see the difference better. Relax, a line is a line!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

mels I'm rooting for you next!!! I miss you

Hi Olismum, 11dpo is still early and you may well not show up on all tests yet. You may have implanted a few days late or something. I know its easier said than done but try and wait till 14dpo and test again. If you had a faint line on a more sensitive test then it makes sense that you may have a negative on a less positive test. The fact you have had a positive at all is very promising x

Yay Olis that's brilliant!!!!!

Lily my scan is on the wed. I am starting to freak a bit about lack of symptoms. I keep poking my boobs which are sore... but are they as sore as before??? I just ahd a sip of coffee and I quite liked it. I haven't had any morning sickness. All I have is huge sore boobs, peeing quite a lot and the on and off cramping and feeling tired come lunchtime.

Laylas very jealous you feel sick!

Melies keeping my fingers crossed for a BFP for you.

Hi to everyone else! xxx

Yay for olis so very pleased for you - everything crossed for a sticky one :o will let you move yourself when ready

waves to everyone else, will post properly later

Tuesdays List:

TTC

Tokyotwist ttc #2 cycle 1 cd 62 ucl unknown
Olismum23 ttc#2 cycle 3 cd 36 ucl 30-33
Loup23 ttc#1 cycle 4 cd 35 ucl 33ish
Meliesmummy ttc #2 cycle 4 cd 16 ucl 28
Stitchinline ttc#1 cycle 4 cd 6 ucl 33ish

WTTC

CuttlefishDramas

Recent BFPs

Lily06 ttc#1 BFP 13/05/11
Piglet ttc#1 6+2 weeks
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 5+2 wks

yay im soo pleased for you olis thats fantastic news,
im feeling a bit sick today which is a good sign but ive got loads to do im off for some decaff and a bit of breakfast, i hope everybody has a good morning x

Wooooohoooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!! Olis I am so, so happy for you. Have been keeping everything crossed just in case. I'm doing a little dance round my laptop here!

Yay olis great news!

Congratulations olis great news, fx for you