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Freak out room for those newly updiffed after mc - Part VI

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CollieandPup · 15/05/2011 10:32

Just found out you are pregnant after a previous miscarriage and too nervous to move over the to pregnancy boards? Freaking out about spotting, cramping, symptoms (or lack there of) and nervously awaiting your first scan? Here is a lovely place for lot's of support, hand holding and problem sharing.

Courtesy of owlbooty here are the Ten Commandments of the Freak Out Room.

  1. Thou shalt check thy knickers to the point of insanity until the baby actually arrives.
  2. Thou shalt also check the loo roll post-wipeage (sorry, gross, I know)
  3. Thou shalt bore thy physician and midwife to tears with the mentalling.
  4. And thy husband/boyfriend/family/neighbour's cat.
  5. Thou shalt obsess over the absence of symptoms.
  6. And the presence of symptoms.
  7. And the fluctuation of symptoms.
  8. Thou shalt pee on a vast number of sticks and keep ClearBlue and First Response in business.
  9. The day before any scan extreme mentalling is permitted without recourse to the Haddock.
10. Self-diagnosis with Dr Google is Forbidden.

The Haddock will be applied liberally to all transgressors.

See here for the old thread.

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updiffed · 16/05/2011 21:51

I hope you are managing to get some rest tonight Dachs Still thinking of you here xx

mousebaconmakestinysandwiches · 16/05/2011 21:47

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DoubleDiffedDachs · 16/05/2011 21:41

Bookcases said bookfaced until my iPhone changed it on me...

DoubleDiffedDachs · 16/05/2011 21:38

Thanks for all the good wishes everyone. Much appreciated. Also, those of you who have bookcases me I will be responding but I don't have the energy today. Sorry for hijacking the thread today. Will keep you all posted. I just want to say how fab you all are. I have had a shitty day and you guys being there has really helped.

But I also want to say to you all that my issues don't mean you can't post your good news or own freakouts on here, so I expect some non- Dachs posts tomorrow! Grin. And I expect some positive scan news from you all

Emoo · 16/05/2011 21:28

Dachs I'm so so sorry to hear about what you are going through at the moment. Here's another person contributing to the collective effort of willpower and positive thoughts. xx
Remember also that doctors spend a lot of their time dealing with the bad outcomes (and therefore tend towards inappropriately terrifying people), in contrast to midwives who spend their time dealing largely with the uncomplicated (so tend more towards being inappropriately reassuring). The truth may be somewhere in between.
Keeping fingers very very crossed for the pups tonight.

lily06 · 16/05/2011 21:07

Dachs I am so very sorry to read your news. Keeping everything crossed that your miracle comes along and everything turns out ok. Thinking of you x

Daisybell1 · 16/05/2011 20:54

Dachs have only just seen your news. I'm so sorry for you sweetheart and have everything crossed for you.

You are in my prayers tonight

xx

mamarara · 16/05/2011 20:48

dachs thinking of you with fingers and toes crossed.

toomuchteaching · 16/05/2011 20:18

Dachs just popping over to say I'm thinking of you and hope hope hope all is ok.

UrbanLolly · 16/05/2011 20:04

dachs you are all in my thoughts and prayers XXXX

lia66 · 16/05/2011 19:50

oh Jesus dachs have just seen this. Am so very sorry for you and your family. I so hope waters replenish and it was just a leak. If only they get to 24 wks, theyt will have a chance.

Don't know what to say, thinking of you. xx

Velvetcu · 16/05/2011 19:39

Dachs and DHDachs I'm hoping for your miracle too. I'm so gutted for you, I've been checking my phone (in lessons) all day to hear your news and I'm so sorry they arent hopeful for you. I can't imagine how you are feeling and I wish I could do something to help :(.

Ninunina · 16/05/2011 19:38

Oh goodness....I'm so sorry you have to go through this Dachs. I'm praying for a miracle for you.

CollieandPup · 16/05/2011 18:41

dachs I hope you get the miracle you deserve. Like everyone one on here I?ve been thinking about you, DH and your little pups all day. When will they check on you again?

izzy did you have a scan today? If so, I?m sure we?d all love to hear some good scans news, I know I would. x

Isn't someone being scanned tomorrow? I am sure i remember someone is but its not on the list. fx for whoever its is xxxx

I just feel shocked to the core about poor Dachs I got all teary on the way home in the car and I just have such a low mood. Just really upset by it all, I can?t imagine how they are feeling as i'm truley gutted for them. Just a very rude awakening to how fragile it all is ? have spent the whole day incessantly knicker checking. Why does it have to be so hard.?? Its so cruel and unfair. Sad

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Bumpwanted · 16/05/2011 18:00

Dachs and DHDachs I am so so sorry hun to read your news. Sending you all our love and thinking of you. Will keep my fingers crossed the hole closes up, infection stays away and those two little beans are ok. Sending you a huge hug xxx

katherine2008 · 16/05/2011 17:53

Dachs and MrDachs I am so angry at the unfairness of it all, but am praying for that "miracle" for you. They DO happen and every part of me wishes that it will happen for you. Look after yourselves. xxx

KnitterNotTwitter · 16/05/2011 17:20

Dachs and MrDachs and the pups.... I can't believe this is happening, you're the last people in the world who deserve it. Sending you both hugs and keeping my fingers REALLY crossed...

hotnspicyonions · 16/05/2011 17:16

Fuck fuck fuckity fuck Dach and DHDach can't believe what I'm reading and am in tears so goodness knows what you're going through. Sorry for the rage outburst of swearing. Some things are just so unfair. I am hoping that the miracle occurs for you guys. Thinking of you and sending you lots of love n hugz xxx

OrangeGloss · 16/05/2011 17:13

Sorry I only just saw this. Dachs and MrDachs you and your pups are in my thoughts. I am hoping and praying for them both to be safe and that life can't be that cruel. I still have one exam result to get, I would gladly fail for you to have my luck xxxxxx

Magic8ballhastheanswers · 16/05/2011 17:01

Dachs I am so sorry to hear what has happened I am keeping everything crossed for a positive outcome. I know you must be terrified but try to keep strong I know of so many ladies who have PROM'd and gone on to have heathy babies/children. You may find this website helpful, they also have a support group on Facebook www.kanalen.org/prom/ xxxxxxxxxx

Minnie74 · 16/05/2011 16:56

Dachs thinking of you and keeping absolutely everything crossed that the miracle happens and it all works out ok xxx

brokenbarrenbrook · 16/05/2011 16:50

dachs my darling, you and your DH are in my thoughts, I have everything crossed that it's not as bad as they think. xxx

Wombat33 · 16/05/2011 16:44

Dachs if miracles can be conjured up by collective force of will then there is one on its way to you, Mr Dachs and your pups right now xxx

updiffed · 16/05/2011 16:40

Oh Dachs thinking of you all, sending lots of love and praying for a miracle too. xx

nickstermum · 16/05/2011 16:31

Dachs have only just seen this. I really am hoping and praying for a miracle for you my love xxx I too read mrsS twins/TTT transfusion story recently and hoping for the same miracles for you xxx

You and mr Dachs are very much in my thoughts x

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