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Freak out room for those newly updiffed after mc - Part VI

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CollieandPup · 15/05/2011 10:32

Just found out you are pregnant after a previous miscarriage and too nervous to move over the to pregnancy boards? Freaking out about spotting, cramping, symptoms (or lack there of) and nervously awaiting your first scan? Here is a lovely place for lot's of support, hand holding and problem sharing.

Courtesy of owlbooty here are the Ten Commandments of the Freak Out Room.

  1. Thou shalt check thy knickers to the point of insanity until the baby actually arrives.
  2. Thou shalt also check the loo roll post-wipeage (sorry, gross, I know)
  3. Thou shalt bore thy physician and midwife to tears with the mentalling.
  4. And thy husband/boyfriend/family/neighbour's cat.
  5. Thou shalt obsess over the absence of symptoms.
  6. And the presence of symptoms.
  7. And the fluctuation of symptoms.
  8. Thou shalt pee on a vast number of sticks and keep ClearBlue and First Response in business.
  9. The day before any scan extreme mentalling is permitted without recourse to the Haddock.
10. Self-diagnosis with Dr Google is Forbidden.

The Haddock will be applied liberally to all transgressors.

See here for the old thread.

OP posts:
Bumpwanted · 18/05/2011 10:42

Awh good news Harassed I'm really pleased for you. Let's hope its the first of many today. We need some good news to lift our spirits after poor Dachs xx

CollieandPup · 18/05/2011 10:35

Don't feel bad harassed I'm so relieved it's good news. How far are you? Did you see hb and get pics? Are you going to join the list? X

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Velvetcu · 18/05/2011 10:35

dachs I'm so sorry :( :( :(

harassed I'm glad your scan was good.

harassedinherpants · 18/05/2011 10:20

Stupid phone.

Good luck to all other scanees!

harassedinherpants · 18/05/2011 10:18

On my phone so apologies for dodgy typing.

Dachs I'm so very sorry, I pray that you're wrong x

Feel bad now, but just had scan and all was well.

updiffed · 18/05/2011 10:17

Oh Dachs I am so so sorry too :( Thinking of you a ton.. Lots of love and hugs xxx

hotnspicyonions · 18/05/2011 10:14

I've braved it and gone on the Grads thread. Does that mean I should be removed from our list on here?? And I seem to have gained a day on here, should be 17+2 (can't believe how quick it's going now!!).

Bumpwanted · 18/05/2011 10:13

oh Dachs hun I am so so sorry Sad Sad I'm thinking of you and the pups and hoping for a miracle. Sending you a huge hug and lots of love.

For those ladies having a scan today, I hope they all go well. Thinking of you all

xxxx

wombatinwaiting · 18/05/2011 10:08

Thanks for your concern pink but I'm not that hardcore! Have to traipse between portacabins on site which is bad enough and generally portacabin air con is next to useless so while I enjoy getting out and seeing people, it is nice to be back at plush head office.... Good thinking on the trousers and bump band.

banana87 · 18/05/2011 10:08

Dachs I am so sorry. I am still hoping for the best for you. Lots of love.

Bricking it. Scan at 12:30.

wombatinwaiting · 18/05/2011 10:05

Oh dachs - I'm so sorry to read that. Will keep hoping for you x

owlbooty · 18/05/2011 10:03

Oh Dachs :(

hotnspicyonions · 18/05/2011 09:56

Instant tears Dach so gawd only knows what you're going through. Will keep praying for that miracle...... :( :( :(

Good luck scanners today. Hope the mentalling will subside once you see the littleuns xx

And welcome to all the newbies. Good luck with this mental process called pregancy!

UrbanLolly · 18/05/2011 09:54

dachs so sorry but still praying for a miracle xxxxxxx
Much love

Daisybell1 · 18/05/2011 09:49

Oh Dachs I am so, so, so sorry. Have everything crossed and am praying for a miracle for you.

appleblossoms · 18/05/2011 09:48

Oh dachs just seen your update. There are no words... am thinking of you and praying for you all.

PinkFondantFancy · 18/05/2011 09:41

dachas sorry just cross posted. Like jolls I'm so sorry that I have nothing to say to make it better. Am thinking about you and sending you all the good luck vibes in the world..... Xx

PinkFondantFancy · 18/05/2011 09:38

wiw are you standing out in building sites in that weather???? You are hardcore!! On clothing, tops have been way too big until recently. Trousers are hit and miss but velvet is right, over bump is good as can make them a bit tighter. Also wearing a bump band over the top of trousers helps to hold them up!!

randomimposter · 18/05/2011 09:31

can't really think of the right words so will just say :( :(

CollieandPup · 18/05/2011 09:29

Oh god dachs I'm so so sorry. Thinking of you all and so desperately wishing for a miracle. Sad

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YouremindmeoftheBFP · 18/05/2011 09:16

Oh dachs. I'm so very sorry to hear thatSadSad Love and hugs for you xx

CollieandPup · 18/05/2011 09:12

dachs that's such good news, they're are tough little pups hanging in there. I hope you're doing 'ok' just can't imagine what worry you are going through. Hoping for more good news at 10.

wiw I was thinking the same thing about mat clothes. I've tried a few things on. Some just about fit already, some too big. But then on the other hand they just don't look big enough to get me through till 9 months, so have been reluctant to buy things, fearing they won't last and I'll need a bigger size up. Seriously need to buy something soon though. None of my work trousers fit, and only some of my skirts and dresses fit. And the ones that do fit make hiding my bump almost impossible! Thankfully I'm not in now till Monday and scan going well, I'll be telling people.

Oh, and I told my new boss yesterday that I was pg in my first 1:1. Was v nervous about it, but he's really hard to get hold of and didn't want him finding out on the grapevine next week. He was very nice about it, but didn't really say much else.

Good luck minnie harassed banana and lara for scans today. lara try not to worry too much. Insomnia, feeling sick and starving all sound like symptoms to me. Keep positive, the odds are totally on your side. What time is your scan? Mines 11.40 but there's usually a 10 hr wait!!!!!

Back from my swim feeling great for it. First bit of exercise since the sickness kicked in.

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luckyfor2 · 18/05/2011 09:10

Dachs I am so desperately sorry to hear your news.Sad

luckyfor2 · 18/05/2011 09:08

I hope you don't mind me adding myself on - obviously scared of jinxing but think I'd rater do it now and get it over with! Plus it fills in a gab at the bottom. Hadrian I hope I've added you on okay.

Tiggersreturn (TTT) 21+1 EDD 26/09/11
mamapower 21+0 EDD 28/9/11
Emoo 19+5 EDD 7/10/11 next scan 19/5/11
Lovemysleep 19+1 EDD 11/10/11
Tunnocksteacake 17+3 EDD 24/10/11
Onions 17+3 EDD 24/10/11 Next Scan 07/06/11
IreneHeron 17+1 EDD 23/10/11 next scan 3/6/11
CEP 15+4 EDD 5/11/11 - 20 wk scan 22/6/11
Hils74 15+0 EDD 8/11/11
Katherine2008 14+6 EDD 10/11/11 next scan 23/6/11
Haffertee 14+4 EDD 14/11/11
Ninunina: 14+1 EDD 15/11/11
delilahbelle 13+6 EDD 22/11/11
Mattsmama 13+6 EDD 17/11/11
Collie 13+3 EDD 20/11/11 next scan 18/05/11
wombatinwaiting: 12+6 EDD 24/11/11 next scan 8/6/11
Banana87: 12+6 EDD 24/11/11 NT scan 19/5/11
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy 12+2 EDD 26/11/11
LaraMi 11+5 EDD 2/12/11 Next scan - 18/05/11
Blackkat 11+2 EDD 5/12/11
Jigglebum 10+6 EDD 8/12/11
Lucky 9+1 Next scan - 19/5/11
Hadrian 7+6 Next scan - 13/06/11
Updiffed 6+4
Hairylights 5+2
Pigletmania 4+3

On the grads thread too:
Nickster 28+4 EDD 7/8/11
Orange 24+4 EDD 4/9/11
Wombat33 23+4 EDD 10/09/11 next scan 25/5/11
Daisybell 22+6 EDD 14/09/11
Pinkfondantfancy 21+3 EDD 25/09/11
DoubleDiffedDachs 20+0 EDD 5/10/11 next scan 18/5/11
Velvetcu 17+1 EDD 25/10/11 next scan 22/06/11
MummyAbroad 15+5 EDD 4/11/11

Thinking of.... ladybee; digi; A&R; barbie; harassed; MumTum; Knitter, Kat2504

DoubleDiffedDachs · 18/05/2011 09:05

Looks like it's all over. One of the babies is coming

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