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Freak out room for those newly updiffed after mc - Part VI

2383 replies

CollieandPup · 15/05/2011 10:32

Just found out you are pregnant after a previous miscarriage and too nervous to move over the to pregnancy boards? Freaking out about spotting, cramping, symptoms (or lack there of) and nervously awaiting your first scan? Here is a lovely place for lot's of support, hand holding and problem sharing.

Courtesy of owlbooty here are the Ten Commandments of the Freak Out Room.

  1. Thou shalt check thy knickers to the point of insanity until the baby actually arrives.
  2. Thou shalt also check the loo roll post-wipeage (sorry, gross, I know)
  3. Thou shalt bore thy physician and midwife to tears with the mentalling.
  4. And thy husband/boyfriend/family/neighbour's cat.
  5. Thou shalt obsess over the absence of symptoms.
  6. And the presence of symptoms.
  7. And the fluctuation of symptoms.
  8. Thou shalt pee on a vast number of sticks and keep ClearBlue and First Response in business.
  9. The day before any scan extreme mentalling is permitted without recourse to the Haddock.
10. Self-diagnosis with Dr Google is Forbidden.

The Haddock will be applied liberally to all transgressors.

See here for the old thread.

OP posts:
Velvetcu · 20/05/2011 18:37

dachs im sorry :( still hoping that things are ok and thinking of you and your pups this evening xxx

CollieandPup · 20/05/2011 18:17

oh dachs i am so sorry. Really don't know what to say. Hoping for a miracle for you. My thoughts are with you and your DH. xx

OP posts:
Magic8ballhastheanswers · 20/05/2011 18:04

dachs I am thinking of you all right now a hoping for a miracle xxx

katherine2008 · 20/05/2011 17:58

Dachs my heart is breaking for you but am hoping with every wish I'm allowed that things turn out ok x

clareanna · 20/05/2011 17:52

Oh dachs I'm so sorry, thinking of you and your little babies xx

Wombat33 · 20/05/2011 17:46

Oh Dachs my thoughts are with the four of you tonight xxx

mattsmama · 20/05/2011 17:44

DACHS Can't think of anything to say except how so very sorry I am you are going through this. Thinking of you, your husband and your precious little darlings xx

getawiggleon · 20/05/2011 17:30

Oh Dachs, I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. I can't find the the right words to say but I'm thinking of you and sending you, DH and the twins lots of love and strength.

Silver I'm sorry to hear you're having a stressful time too. It sounds like you are under the best possible care though. I really hope things work out for you.

Coconuts Congrats on the scan Smile

ALovelyBunchOfCoconuts · 20/05/2011 17:13

Dachs - so sorry this is happening. Thinking of you DH and the twins.

Silver - I realised I suggested the procedure you had already said you'd had. I'm so stupid and didn't read properly. Blush Glad it went well and hope things stay positive til Tuesday.

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 20/05/2011 17:10

dachs I'm so sorry. Praying for a miracle for you tonight xxx

StillJustAboutDiffedDachs · 20/05/2011 17:08

silver someone else on the twins thread had that and their twins are now fine. Fx it's the same for you (hugs)

tiggersreturn · 20/05/2011 17:07

Dachs - I'm so so sorry. I really hope some miracle occurs to stop this.

StillJustAboutDiffedDachs · 20/05/2011 17:06

The waters have completely gone around Alexander and I'm having contractions. Still in there for now but expecting them to go overnight at some point. DH staying tonight.

Minnie74 · 20/05/2011 16:50

Dachs hoping everything is still ok, fingers tightly crossed x

silver sorry to hear about your stresses. Fx for you too-sounds like you're in the right place for all the help you need x

coconuts fab news on the scan Smile

blackkat hope the painful stomach has gone. Every twinge is a worry isn't it? I sneezed the other day and got a stabbing pain in my side so obviously spent ages silently freaking out Blush

Ninu great nt results, what a relief. That's the next thing on my start worrying about list!

Collie I'm really missing goats cheese too (although i did have a small bit in a tart the other day - burnt almost to a crisp but there was a faint taste of it! Did have a minor panic afterwards in case I'd caused another mc!)

wiw thanks for the cheese tip- I'm going to hunt some down at the weekend!

IreneHeron · 20/05/2011 16:47

Silver and Dachs, thinking of you both.

Coconuts, glad there's good news for you.

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cep · 20/05/2011 16:08

dach keeping fx that you're all ok.

silver sorry to hear your news, fx they the op was completely successful and twins are ok now.

Wombat33 · 20/05/2011 15:49

coconuts so glad the scan was good! A little boy Grin

Silver soorry to hear you are going through such stressful stuff too. Thanks goodness they found it when they did and you had an export on hand to do the procedure. At least you know the twins have been given the best possible chance.

Dachs any news?? I'm keeping everything crossed and knotted that this morning's bleed didn't indicate deterioration and was just another scare... Huge hugs xxx

Hello to everyone else - sheepish sorry for not keeping up very well xxx

Velvetcu · 20/05/2011 15:48

coconuts glad you had a good scan

silver sorry you got bad news but fx it all works out for you

dachs I hope you are ok xx

ALovelyBunchOfCoconuts · 20/05/2011 15:32

Yes a big relief, I was nearly having a panic attack in the hot, overcrowded waiting room. They were running an hour late which didn't help. Feel happier now but how long until I panic about something else!?

Silver, I watched a program a while ago on TTTS and they were able to perform a procedure severing the blood vessels, is this a possibility for you? In the program, the procedure was done successfully and both twins survived :) Fingers crossed for you and the little ones xx

owlbooty · 20/05/2011 15:14

Silver how frightening - thank goodness you had the scan when you did. I hope both the little ones are okay and remain that way and that you manage to remain sane for the next 4 days - are they keeping you in hospital or have they let you out?

Coconuts hoorah for the good scan - a big relief, yes?

harassedinherpants · 20/05/2011 14:05

Coconuts I'm delighted you had a good scan, how are you feeling now??

I'm so sorry Silver to hear your news. Sounds like you're in a great place, and fingers are firmly crossed for you and your little ones x

Dachs thinking of you x

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 20/05/2011 13:29

Congrats on the good scan coconuts

silver I'm so sorry to hear you're going through such a tough time, will be keeping my fingers crossed for you and your babies x

Still thinking of you dachs hope things are looking better x

ALovelyBunchOfCoconuts · 20/05/2011 13:24

Tiggersreturn (TTT) 21+3 EDD 26/09/11
mamapower 21+2 EDD 28/9/11
ALovelyBunchOfCoconuts 20+6 EDD 01/10/11
Lovemysleep 19+3 EDD 11/10/11
Tunnocksteacake 17+5 EDD 24/10/11
IreneHeron 17+3 EDD 23/10/11 next scan 3/6/11
CEP 15+6 EDD 5/11/11 - 20 wk scan 22/6/11
Hils74 15+2 EDD 8/11/11
Katherine2008 15+1 EDD 10/11/11 next scan 23/6/11
Haffertee 14+6 EDD 14/11/11
Ninunina: 14+3 EDD 15/11/11
delilahbelle 14+1 EDD 22/11/11
Mattsmama 14+1 EDD 17/11/11
Collie 13+5 EDD 20/11/11
wombatinwaiting: 13+1 EDD 24/11/11 next scan 8/6/11
Banana87: 13+1 EDD 24/11/11 NT
LaraMi 13+0 EDD 25/11/11 Next scan 20/07/11
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy 12+4 EDD 26/11/11
Blackkat 11+4 EDD 5/12/11
Jigglebum 11+1 EDD 8/12/11
Lucky 9+3 Next scan - 19/5/11
Harassed 8+4 EDD 26/12/11
Hadrian 8+1 Next scan - 13/06/11
Updiffed 6+6
Hairylights 5+4
Lily06 5+1 Next scan - 02/06/11
Pigletmania 4+5

On the grads thread too:
Nickster 28+6 EDD 7/8/11
Orange 24+6 EDD 4/9/11
Wombat33 23+6 EDD 10/09/11 next scan 25/5/11
Daisybell 23+1 EDD 14/09/11
Pinkfondantfancy 21+5 EDD 25/09/11
DoubleDiffedDachs 20+2 EDD 5/10/11
Emoo 20+0 EDD 7/10/11
Onions 17+4 EDD 24/10/11 Next Scan 07/06/11
Velvetcu 17+3 EDD 25/10/11 next scan 22/06/11
MummyAbroad 16+0 EDD 4/11/11

Thinking of.... ladybee; digi; A&R; barbie; MumTum; Knitter, Kat2504

ALovelyBunchOfCoconuts · 20/05/2011 13:23

Am back :) All good, having a boy, due date is apparently 01/10/11 so will update the list shortly.

Emoo - I think I remember you from the October bus but I don't post on there as found it too hard to keep up with everyone.

Dachs - Still hoping for some positive news for you.

Silver - sorry to hear your news also xx

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