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Freak out room for those newly updiffed after mc - Part VI

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CollieandPup · 15/05/2011 10:32

Just found out you are pregnant after a previous miscarriage and too nervous to move over the to pregnancy boards? Freaking out about spotting, cramping, symptoms (or lack there of) and nervously awaiting your first scan? Here is a lovely place for lot's of support, hand holding and problem sharing.

Courtesy of owlbooty here are the Ten Commandments of the Freak Out Room.

  1. Thou shalt check thy knickers to the point of insanity until the baby actually arrives.
  2. Thou shalt also check the loo roll post-wipeage (sorry, gross, I know)
  3. Thou shalt bore thy physician and midwife to tears with the mentalling.
  4. And thy husband/boyfriend/family/neighbour's cat.
  5. Thou shalt obsess over the absence of symptoms.
  6. And the presence of symptoms.
  7. And the fluctuation of symptoms.
  8. Thou shalt pee on a vast number of sticks and keep ClearBlue and First Response in business.
  9. The day before any scan extreme mentalling is permitted without recourse to the Haddock.
10. Self-diagnosis with Dr Google is Forbidden.

The Haddock will be applied liberally to all transgressors.

See here for the old thread.

OP posts:
cep · 21/05/2011 16:56

dach i'm so so sorry. such sad news. You'll all be in my prayers tonight.

hairy i hope the pains have settled now.

LaraMi · 21/05/2011 16:54

In buckets of tears here Dachs - heartbreaking to hear. Praying for your you, MrDachs, Alexander and Felicia. Life can be so cruel. x

CaribouMoo · 21/05/2011 16:50

Oh Dachs my love, I am so, so sorry - this is absolutely heartbreaking. I am devastated for you, can't believe this has happened to you and your DH. You are in my thoughts and prayers, as are your wee angels Alexander and Felicia x

randomimposter · 21/05/2011 16:49

So very sorry dachs. Thinking of you, MrDachs, Alexander and Felicia.- - will light my candle for you tonight. Can't imagine what a difficult time this must be. Wishing you much strength. x

harassedinherpants · 21/05/2011 16:49

Dachs I'm so very sorry. Seems such an inadequate thing to say. You're all very much in my thoughts x

Hairy I've had some really awful pains, and what felt like contractions one night. I lay there in tears waiting for the bleeding. But I'm still here at 8+5 and two great scans later. Fingers x'd.

OrangeGloss · 21/05/2011 16:45

Dachs I am so so sorry to hear that, I am devastated for you and sat writing this is tears. I am thinking of you at this terrible heartbreaking time, it just isn't fair :( :( :( :(

Chloe55 · 21/05/2011 16:26

Oh dachs I am so so sorry Sad What heartbreaking news. I hope you can get some rest soon and have lots of supportive family around you. Sending you and your family all my love. May your angels be sleeping peacefully now xxx

CollieandPup · 21/05/2011 15:58

Oh dachs I'm so so sorry I've been thinking about you all day. I'm devestated for you, sat here crying for you and your beautiful babies. I can't believe this has happened to you and how cruel life can be. Mine and my DHs thoughts are with you and mr dachs tonight, and of course with Alenxandra and Felicia who I know will never be forgotten. We'll be lighting a candle here for each of your angels tonight too. All our love and strength xxxx Sad

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PinkFondantFancy · 21/05/2011 15:39

dacha my heart is broken for you and DH. I am sitting here crying my eyes out-I have been thinking of you all day and hoping so hard that no news was good news. I can't believe life is so cruel.

You and your DH and little Alexander and Felicia will be in my prayers tonight. I will light a candle for them both. Xxxx

mamarara · 21/05/2011 15:37

Oh God dachs I am so sorry.

owlbooty · 21/05/2011 15:32

Dachs am absolutely gutted for you and MrDachs after all you've been through - I've been hoping so hard this wouldn't happen. I too am thinking of you both and Alexander and Felicia and am so very sorry x

UrbanLolly · 21/05/2011 15:32

Heartbreaking dachs you are all in my thoughts and prayers....my candle is still lit for you all lxxxxxxxxxxxx

Bumpwanted · 21/05/2011 15:28

Hairy just read your post and I wanted to let you know what I too have had horrendous pains on and off (not sure how far along you are but I am 6 +5). So bad one night we nearly called an ambulance. Had an early scan at 5 weeks and they said the sac is in the right place and growing as it should and without any bleeding they weren't worried about me. I have to go back again in about 10 days for another scan to see if they can see a baby and hearbeat (too early last time). Just wanted to let you know you aren't alone in having really sharp pains that go as quickly as they come. Am just hoping the doctor is right and everything will be ok for us both xx

Bumpwanted · 21/05/2011 15:24

Oh Dachs hun I am so so sorry this has happened. Have been checking on here all weekend and hoping for a miracle for you. Thinking of you and your DH and your two beautiful babies. xxxxx

digitalgirl · 21/05/2011 15:20

Blush Oh god I'm such a stupid idiot -

I meant Alexander Edmund and Felicia Sophia (my grandmother's name).

digitalgirl · 21/05/2011 15:16

Dachs I'm so incredibly sorry for everything you've been through. Life is so horribly cruel to the most undeserving. Thinking of you, your family and your two beautiful babies, Alexander and Sophie, who I'm sure will never ever be forgotten. Sad

wombatinwaiting · 21/05/2011 15:15

I am so very sorry dachs - my heart goes out to you all.

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 21/05/2011 15:14

Oh dachs I am so so sorry Sad Sad Sad That is utterly heartbreaking. Sometimes life is just too cruel xx

My thoughts and prayers are with you, dh and your little ones today x

banana87 · 21/05/2011 15:07

Dachs my heart is broken for you.

hairylights · 21/05/2011 15:04

dachs I am so, so sorry.

hairylights · 21/05/2011 15:03

Went, not net.

hairylights · 21/05/2011 15:02

Net again fairly quickly. Felt like trapped wind or the feeling I had when id
Got a cyst.

Velvetcu · 21/05/2011 15:00

Oh no dachs I'm so very sorry :(

batteryhen · 21/05/2011 14:58

oh no dachs Am so so sorry. My heart wants to break for you. Much love to you and your family xxx

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