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I really feel pregnant but getting bfn's!!

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goingmadtrying · 29/04/2011 20:58

Hi

I'm currently on cd31 my previous longest cycle was 29 days. For last week I have been having lots of symptoms tender boobs, feeling sicky and at times dizzy spells. My cervix is also really high and wet, it almost feels tucked away!! I feel pregnant can't say why but do.

Did a FR on Monday cd25 which was -ve
then did CBD on cd30 and another this morning both -ve.

Has anyone ever had anything like this and then gone onto test +ve later??? I have heard digitals not that sensitive so clutchin at straws for hope :( TIA

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milocuckoomitten · 02/05/2011 21:17

Think I will wait until next weekend as my GP is away for the week, so even if I tested earlier couldn't do anything about it. If AF comes before then fine, if I get a BFP by then fine, if neither I will be able to go to my GP when she's back next week, as we have been trying on and off for 2 years and she said she would do blood tests etc. if I wanted them.

thegauntlet · 02/05/2011 21:12

oh milo! us neither. We flipping exhausted ourselves for 16 days from day 8 and then took a smug weeks break thinking we were a dead cert. We were on a bit of a time schedule y'see- well, seems God has other plans and so I think it will be a bit less pressure next time ( if AF ever comes) which may be beneficial for OV hopefully. are you testing again Milo?

pobbob · 02/05/2011 20:48

So sorry milo. As gauntlet says, it's such a stress! I'm still feeling sick but think AF is on her way in

milocuckoomitten · 02/05/2011 20:17

Thanks for that gauntlet that is the same as my last AF. I have heard quite a few situations similar to yours with your DD, but the problem is that if I ov'ed any later than the latest date I thought, I can't possibly be pregnant because we didn't dtd any later than that.

thegauntlet · 02/05/2011 20:03

oh! it is such a stress! Milo- my last Af was 25th March and I am still waiting...not tested since Thursday, and am waiting until Thursday. Just annoying. Btw I found out that I was preg with DD when I wen to the the dr after having 10 tests negative and hadnt had a period for 10 weeks. Kinda hoping for a similar situation, although I had boob symptoms that i dont have now...

Oh and btw- I was only around 5-6 weeks pg when I went to the dr. Random ovulation methinks
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milocuckoomitten · 02/05/2011 19:52

Another BFN!

pobbob · 02/05/2011 15:18

Fingers crossed for you milo! Its horrible the waiting and not knowing.
I just wish this nauseus feeling will go away. It never transpires to actually being sick, but just sits there! Its horrible! If it results in a BFP I wouldn't mind!
Do let us know how you get on xx

milocuckoomitten · 02/05/2011 15:11

Hi pobbob
I'm feeling sick again.
Waiting for OH to get back with a test and feeling really nervous.

pobbob · 02/05/2011 14:56

Hello, just joined this site today.
I've been driving myself mad this week. Its our first month of TTC and I know that chances of conceiving straight away are slim... However my partner is convinced I'm pregnant, and I'm beginning to beleive him. I do not normally get any AF symptoms, AF was 4 days late this month, but usually is bang on time.

Over the last week I've had stomach cramps, ongoing nausea, fatigue, dizziness and my boobs feel bigger and more tender. I took a test on Fri (day before my normal AF but early by last months standards) and it came back negative, and took one this morning (a day earlier than AF should have been according to last month) and still negative. No AF yet either.
I know that if AF does come this week that I'll be disappointed - not least because I've had all these symptoms and have felt ill all week for nothing!

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onadietcokebreak · 02/05/2011 08:33

So sorry. Maybe you ovulated late. Try and get some swi in later in cycle too.

Fingers crossed for next cycle

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goingmadtrying · 02/05/2011 07:56

AF arrived this morning, utterly disappointed :(

thanks for all your support x

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milocuckoomitten · 01/05/2011 10:50

Oooh forgot to say I did feel sick yesterday evening and again this morning and have no sore boobs which is my normal sign of AF. Had very watery eyes the last few days as well, although that could just be hayfever, I don't normally get eye issues with that.

milocuckoomitten · 01/05/2011 10:42

I am the same goingmad now CD 39, UCL 27-30, was possibly due Thursday although I'm not too convinced about that, but no sign of AF yet. Have also resisted urge to test since BFN on Friday.
I don't really know what's going on and have no real idea when I'm OVing so think I may try ov sticks next time if AF comes, just to give me a bit more info.

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goingmadtrying · 01/05/2011 09:13

I haven't been stressing to be honest and was on holiday last week so didn't really think about it until Thursday :)

I'm sure af will rear her ugly head soon :(

congrats dietcoke thank you for sharing your story I'll keep my fingers
crossed I get the same result Grin

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onadietcokebreak · 01/05/2011 09:06

Couldn't get a positive result for 7 days after af due. Eventually got a faint one. Ovulated late on that cycle. Now 13 weeks

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goingmadtrying · 01/05/2011 08:55

Am just waiting for af to arrive Vegas I do think if pregnant would have shown by now especially as tested early on previous 2 pregnancies. Just a little worried incase something a miss, concieved relatively easily last time and the fact my cycle gone to pot!!!

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goingmadtrying · 01/05/2011 08:10

Morning ladies well cd32 today still no sign of af and resisted the urge to poas!!!

Hows everyone else doing?

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redundanttiara · 01/05/2011 05:54

I had loads of negative tests with DC1, I had a blood test in the end that showed me to be 7 weeks and a very strong positive with DC2 at just over 4 weeks. Fingers crossed that you get the result you want.

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goingmadtrying · 30/04/2011 19:24

Hi milo it's so frustrating isn't it? I've never had irregular periods so will be gutted more if that's what starting to happen!!

I'm hoping to wait until Wednesday to test again :)

cervix still high and no sign of af, symptoms definately real although could be linked to af, I told a friend today and she thinks I will be pregnant it's just taking time to show, only time will tell :)

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milocuckoomitten · 30/04/2011 13:39

I have the same thing - on CD 38 UCL now 28-30 (used to have irregular and longer cycles). Tested yesterday morning BFN. Had spotting approx. 10dpo. Was sick on Mon but could have just been random sickness. Have had cramps for the last couple of days but no sign of AF.

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goingmadtrying · 30/04/2011 13:01

Thanks ladies, still no sign of af and cervix is so high and tucked away it really has never felt that way before!!!

Do you think it's possible to show late with this one if I tested early on both my previous pregnancies??? I just want to know now x

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nulgirl · 30/04/2011 11:15

With my ds I didn't get a positive test until I was 1 week late. I tested every day because I was sure I was pregnant.

Good luck - hope you get your bfp soon

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