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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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isn't it annoying?

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Bexamundo · 15/04/2011 22:26

There's only one question on my mind: Am I pregnant? Did it happen this time? But no-one can tell me! Am only 5dpo so def no way of telling. Sitting symptom spotting and troughing down mini eggs thinking, could be pg/likely to be pms. Not even like I expect anyone to be able to give any advice or look into crystal balls...just wanted to say on here, I find it quite annoying. Roll on next week...

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DizzyKipper · 20/04/2011 12:07

At least other people are noticing it, means it can't just be in your head (which is what I'm worrying about lol)

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Bexamundo · 20/04/2011 11:51

Nausea not too bad today but colleague just asked if I was ok because I looked tired. Wondering if viral if not pg..

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DizzyKipper · 20/04/2011 08:32

Yeah that's what I did last Saturday - still worry sometimes that even that could've caused irreparable damage (I'm a worrier though). I've also been trying to give up coffee (I can easily drink 6 cups in a day) - managed to have just 1/2 cup yesterday and will hopefully have none from today onwards. If I'm not pregnant... lol

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Bexamundo · 20/04/2011 08:22

Yeah don't want a pickled.foetus! Will keep drinking to a minimum even if it is bfn just in case it's an early false negative.

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DizzyKipper · 20/04/2011 08:18

If you're meant to be out drinking I would def use a preg test before, not to add any pressure or anything lol

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Bexamundo · 20/04/2011 08:15

See I'm.not sure though I'm meant to be out drinking Sat/Sunday...maybe I should use first response at weekend...

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PatientGriselda · 20/04/2011 08:11

Oh crap, dizzy. Bad luck. Still, see what happens in a few days.

Fingers crossed for Monday, Bex. Although if sickness continues I would definitely not last that long!

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Bexamundo · 20/04/2011 07:30

Hmm don't know...maybe.Monday?!

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DizzyKipper · 20/04/2011 07:15

All this waiting is frustrating isn't it. When are you going to be testing?

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Bexamundo · 20/04/2011 07:01

Boooo! [Hug]

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DizzyKipper · 20/04/2011 06:51

BFN Sad

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Bexamundo · 20/04/2011 06:43

Not so bad this morning but did take an antisickness pill last night. confused.com.
boobs are tender, mood has been variable. this is only my third cycle charting so I'm still getting used to it.

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PatientGriselda · 20/04/2011 06:18

Was just coming to ask you if you had tested yet! Are you still feeling sick?

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Bexamundo · 20/04/2011 06:05

Hmm just did my temp this am, FF has moved my ovulation day based on mg data...which means it now thinks I'm only 7dpi. Prob didn't dtd at the right time and I've git another week to wait!!!!
Glad I didn't waste a per stick!

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Bexamundo · 19/04/2011 22:47

I lied I'm only 11 dpo but FF reckons af due in Friday at 14dpo cd 24..

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Bexamundo · 19/04/2011 20:47

Thanks, yes no idea where the self restraint is coming from...I guess it's from the thread on early testing. I've run out of cheapies so I'm saving my FR. Had so many false alarms including puking before...then again I've puked again tonight! And I'm already in.bed, got in at 8.30!
So sorry to hear about your Dad and family feud. I get how hard that is, my Mum died 3 years ago and he moved on.quickly. I do NOT like her! We didn't speak for two years but we just buried the hatchet. Not easy at all but maybe you can start your own family? Hope it's good news for you. If it doesn't happen straight away try not to stress, you're dealing with enough right now. Make sure you take time for yourself like massage, yummy baths etc./with without OH ;)

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DizzyKipper · 19/04/2011 19:56

Technically we haven't started trying yet - we were going to wait until we were married in July. Life has gotten seriously screwed up recently though (my dad died, our families had a bustup and tried to split me and OH up, wedding had to be cancelled). Think out of desperation or not being able to think properly from the stress we ended up doing the deed without protection at what turned out to be the perfect time to get pregnant. Even if this doesn't turn out to be our month we've still decided to get on and start trying, more than ever we both just want to start a family together.

You're doing well at self-restraint Bex, I'd have caved in and tested by now. It is sounding positive at least, hopefully this is your turn Smile

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Bexamundo · 19/04/2011 19:20

Ps you make me laugh! Feeling a tad sickly but better now Dh has fed me and given me caramel nibbles :)

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Bexamundo · 19/04/2011 19:18

Lol well I'm 12dpo now. I want to do it Friday am so I've got time to process the result either way with some.time off work. I had to reign in the early testing when I realised is gone through 14 in 2 cycles!

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PatientGriselda · 19/04/2011 18:35

Sorry to hear about the puking, obviously. And also, hurrah for puking!

PatientGriselda · 19/04/2011 18:34

I can't believe you're not forcing out desperate drops of wee onto a stick right now, quite frankly! 1 dpo really must be within the bounds of tolerance, if you're going on temps and ewcm. Surely?
How many dpo are you now?

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Bexamundo · 19/04/2011 18:12

PS Just told DH about the puking, he's not happy that I didn't just come home from work (even though there was a teaching session that only I could teach and I actually felt better after I was sick). Oh dear. Tried to search on FF to find charts like mine with a BFP. Not a VIP so no go.
Really not 100% sure the timing was right - BD 1dpo and 2dpo what do you reckon? Had EWCM around that time.

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Bexamundo · 19/04/2011 17:40

15 months, waiting for DH sperm analysis in June (had to cancel last one taking for-FLIPPING-ever!!
New symptom: actual vomiting. Brought lunch back. Freaky thing is it was blue!! ok, ok let me explain been chowing down "fruit flavoured" antacids to aide the nausea/reflux and, well you can get the rest. DH took one look at me when I walked in and said "You don't look well, go and sit down."
Desire to early test vvvvv strong now!

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PatientGriselda · 19/04/2011 17:31

18 months. I've got my first infertility clinic referral appointment next month, so am hoping to be in the ranks of those who then instantly get pregnant before the appointment. How about you?

DizzyKipper · 19/04/2011 16:36

LOL! umm, maybe it's better that we don't test together :p
I was thinking of being impatient and testing when I next need to go tomorrow. In my rational way of thinking it would be better to leave a one day gap between testing, just so OH doesn't start to get worried about me or anything...
btw how long have you been trying for?