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Freak out room for those newly updiffed after mc - Part V

994 replies

MummyAbroad · 13/04/2011 13:29

Just found out you are pregnant after a previous miscarriage? There is plenty of support, hand holding and problem-shared-problem-halved going on over here. All welcome to join in.

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Blackkat · 06/05/2011 18:47

Battery, Scooby so pleased to hear you good scan news, fantastic Grin Grin

Hairy Congratultations, so pleased for you, fx that this is super sticky for you Grin

Jiggle good on you for joining the list, and Hairy too, I'm so happy seeing that list growing. Smile

Jiggle sounds like you need to let people know asap before DS does. Smile

Hadrian glad you got the courage to come across to this room. My EPU wouldn't scan me early either, so I ended up paying for a private scan at 8 weeks, I couldn't wait for 12/13 weeks before the NHS would see me. Might that be an option for you?

Izzy LOL at your thinking about taking your own blood and BP! But Angry that you should feel the need to. This thread is making me see just how hit and miss NHS care is across the country, makes me Angry that there is no consistent, additional care (or let's face it straightforward care) to reassure after previous experiences.

Collieandpup and YRMOTBFP love the new names Grin

Collieandpup well done you for tackling the midwife, I really hope they have taken the other dates off your records next time you go.

Daisy I agree with everyone else, they won't be able to make you take anything you want to, thinking of you.

Cep, I'm worried about telling people too, last time round I'd told my boss the good news, before the bad news, however, this did help, and this time round he's bending over backwards to make things easy for me. This time round we've told a few more people, but I still worry I might be tempting the jinx pixies.

Lara I know what you mean, but having read about poisson, the bits I understood, I feel a bit more reassured. Does it feel a bit better not to be at the bottom of the list??? Grin

Owl welcome back, any stork fighting to report on??

to Pink, Katherine, Mama Mummya, WIW, Wombat, Minnie, Ninu, Banana and to everyone else. I've some chicken goujons in the oven, will whisk a tray in as soon as they're done!

hairylights · 06/05/2011 18:31

Grin I really should have a healthier version in my condition.....

hadrian · 06/05/2011 18:29

Ooh yum KFC, now that you've said that hairy I can't think of anything I want more...

hairylights · 06/05/2011 18:26

Aw, thanks Mama

I am worrying a bit as I have some very mild cramping, so hope it is not like the first one, and low HCG, or something.

I do have sore Biscuit Biscuit, am knackered, and am cravig KFC Wink

mamapower · 06/05/2011 18:21

Congratulations Hairy Grin Right back where you belong honey, we missed you, I shall keep everything crossed this is the stickiest of stickers Grin

hairylights · 06/05/2011 17:59

Friday's list updated

Nickster 26+6 EDD 7/8/11
Orange 22+6 EDD 4/9/11
Wombat33 21+6 EDD 10/09/11 next scan 25/5/11
Daisybell 21+1 EDD 14/09/11
Pinkfondantfancy 19+5 EDD 25/09/11
Tiggersreturn (TTT) 19+3 EDD 26/09/11 next scan 13/5/11
mamapower 19+2 EDD 28/9/11
DoubleDiffedDachs 18+2 EDD 5/10/11 next scan 18/5/11
Emoo 18+0 EDD 7/10/11 next scan 19/5/11
Lovemysleep 17+3 EDD 11/10/11
Tunnocksteacake 15+5 EDD 24/10/11
Onions 15+5 EDD 24/10/11 Next Scan 07/06/11
IreneHeron 15+5 EDD 23/10/11 next scan 3/6/11
Velvetcu 15+3 EDD 25/10/11 next scan 22/06/11
MummyAbroad 14+0 EDD 4/11/11
CEP 13+6 EDD 5/11/11 - 20 wk scan 22/6/11
Hils74 13+2 EDD 8/11/11
Katherine2008 13+1 EDD 10/11/11 next scan 23/6/11
Haffertee 12+6 EDD 14/11/11
delilahbelle 12+1 EDD 22/11/11
Mattsmama 12+1 EDD 17/11/11
Collie 11+5 EDD 20/11/11
Ninunina: 11+4 EDD 21/11/11 next scan 12/5/2011
wombatinwaiting: 11+1 EDD 24/11/11 NT scan 12/5/11
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy 10+6 EDD 26/11/11 NT scan 16/5/2011
Banana87 10+3 EDD 29/11/11
LaraMi 10+0 EDD 2/12/11 Next scan - 18/05/11
Blackkat 9+4 EDD 5/12/11
Jigglebum 9+1 EDD 8/12/11
Hairylights 3+4

Thinking of.... ladybee; digi; A&R; barbie; harassed; MumTum; Knitter, Kat2504

I'm not putting EDD date or scans on yet as I have no idea about them yet! I am going to avoid an early scan any sooner than 8 weeks, as I don't want to go through the hell I've been through having scans at 6 and 7 weeks again.

hairylights · 06/05/2011 17:55

thank you katherine - I have missed everyone so much and I shocked, but really happy to be here again so soon. I am taking nothing for granted - but have got that little 'butterflies' feeling about it - it's hard not to get excited!

I have kept an eye out on this thread ever since I left it and am so glad to see so many doing well - and I hope I will be able to join you all in the excitement of delivering our babies!!!

katherine2008 · 06/05/2011 17:52

Hi hairy - you were missed!

hairylights · 06/05/2011 17:35

owly thank you Grin. Do I have your word on that?

I am really hoping you're right!

owlbooty · 06/05/2011 17:33

Hairy !!! This is going to be the stickiest sticky bean of all time, I feel it in my bones. So, so pleased for you Grin Grin

hairylights · 06/05/2011 17:16

Thank you. And thanks dachs (I want twins!!!!!)

hadrian · 06/05/2011 17:03

Oops xposts hello again jiggle, how lovely to see you here. And a massive WOOHOO to hairy, back on the rollercoaster again!

DoubleDiffedDachs · 06/05/2011 17:03

Yay! Grin That's FAB news hairy will keep everything crossed that thus one is sticky

Wombat33 · 06/05/2011 17:02

Whoo hoo Hairy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm praying it sticks for you too lady!!

Fab news from the scanees today - congratulations!

hadrian · 06/05/2011 17:00

That's wonderful news battery, you must be over the moon.

am so pleased everything is going well for you too. maybe I will call the epu and persuade them to scan me!

Lara I obssess about statistics all the time which is particularly ridiculous for me as I am a statistician and should know my Poisson distribution inside out...

hairylights · 06/05/2011 16:58

Oh heck and eel and woohoo. I have just got a bfp (cd 25). I'm pretending it hasn't happened

Oh boy am I one fertile lady! No acupuncture or orange clothes or anything this month.

Praying it sticks.

Have had mild crampy feelings and very slightly sore boobies plus a huge zit.

cep · 06/05/2011 16:47

yay to battery and scooby so pleased for you both.

Just adding next scan.

Friday's List

Nickster 26+6 EDD 7/8/11
Orange 22+6 EDD 4/9/11
Wombat33 21+6 EDD 10/09/11 next scan 25/5/11
Daisybell 21+1 EDD 14/09/11
Pinkfondantfancy 19+5 EDD 25/09/11
Tiggersreturn (TTT) 19+3 EDD 26/09/11 next scan 13/5/11
mamapower 19+2 EDD 28/9/11
DoubleDiffedDachs 18+2 EDD 5/10/11 next scan 18/5/11
Emoo 18+0 EDD 7/10/11 next scan 19/5/11
Lovemysleep 17+3 EDD 11/10/11
Tunnocksteacake 15+5 EDD 24/10/11
Onions 15+5 EDD 24/10/11 Next Scan 07/06/11
IreneHeron 15+5 EDD 23/10/11 next scan 3/6/11
Velvetcu 15+3 EDD 25/10/11 next scan 22/06/11
MummyAbroad 14+0 EDD 4/11/11
CEP 13+6 EDD 5/11/11 - 20 wk scan 22/6/11
Hils74 13+2 EDD 8/11/11
Katherine2008 13+1 EDD 10/11/11 next scan 23/6/11
Haffertee 12+6 EDD 14/11/11
delilahbelle 12+1 EDD 22/11/11
Mattsmama 12+1 EDD 17/11/11
Collie 11+5 EDD 20/11/11
Ninunina: 11+4 EDD 21/11/11 next scan 12/5/2011
wombatinwaiting: 11+1 EDD 24/11/11 NT scan 12/5/11
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy 10+6 EDD 26/11/11 NT scan 16/5/2011
Banana87 10+3 EDD 29/11/11
LaraMi 10+0 EDD 2/12/11 Next scan - 18/05/11
Blackkat 9+4 EDD 5/12/11
Jigglebum 9+1 EDD 8/12/11

Thinking of.... hairy; ladybee; digi; A&R; barbie; harassed; MumTum; Knitter, Kat2504

LaraMi · 06/05/2011 16:30

Et voila:

Friday's List

Nickster 26+6 EDD 7/8/11
Orange 22+6 EDD 4/9/11
Wombat33 21+6 EDD 10/09/11 next scan 25/5/11
Daisybell 21+1 EDD 14/09/11
Pinkfondantfancy 19+5 EDD 25/09/11
Tiggersreturn (TTT) 19+3 EDD 26/09/11 next scan 13/5/11
mamapower 19+2 EDD 28/9/11
DoubleDiffedDachs 18+2 EDD 5/10/11 next scan 18/5/11
Emoo 18+0 EDD 7/10/11 next scan 19/5/11
Lovemysleep 17+3 EDD 11/10/11
Tunnocksteacake 15+5 EDD 24/10/11
Onions 15+5 EDD 24/10/11 Next Scan 07/06/11
IreneHeron 15+5 EDD 23/10/11 next scan 3/6/11
Velvetcu 15+3 EDD 25/10/11 next scan 22/06/11
MummyAbroad 14+0 EDD 4/11/11
CEP 13+6 EDD 5/11/11 nuchal scan 5/5/11
Hils74 13+2 EDD 8/11/11
Katherine2008 13+1 EDD 10/11/11 next scan 23/6/11
Haffertee 12+6 EDD 14/11/11
delilahbelle 12+1 EDD 22/11/11
Mattsmama 12+1 EDD 17/11/11
Collie 11+5 EDD 20/11/11
Ninunina: 11+4 EDD 21/11/11 next scan 12/5/2011
wombatinwaiting: 11+1 EDD 24/11/11 NT scan 12/5/11
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy 10+6 EDD 26/11/11 NT scan 16/5/2011
Banana87 10+3 EDD 29/11/11
LaraMi 10+0 EDD 2/12/11 Next scan - 18/05/11
Blackkat 9+4 EDD 5/12/11
Jigglebum 9+1 EDD 8/12/11

Thinking of.... hairy; ladybee; digi; A&R; barbie; harassed; MumTum; Knitter, Kat2504

jigglebum · 06/05/2011 16:25

Afternoon ladies and hi hadrian I think we mc about the same time at Christmas so definitely remember you for the mc threads. Glad to hear so many positive scan results. I have been told I have to wait for the 12 week scan too but happy enough with that as mc at 11 weeks last time. So 2 and a half weeks to wait!

However, despite wishing to keep things under wraps and not tell people until after the scan I think that may well be impossible due to DS. He was jumping on me in bed this morning so I told him he had to be careful as mummy had a very little baby in her tummy. He got the idea straight away (although said he had one in his tummy too!) but has since already told a neighbour who came round this afternoon that "mummy has a little baby in her tummy" and attempted to lift up my t shirt and show her! Rather embarrassing and feel I really better tell my parents this weekend before he does! What on earth I will tell him if things go wrong I don't know. I also look like the side of a house already so probably obvious!

re camping - we went a couple of weeks ago and it was fine - although the nighttime loo trip was not great! We were luckily near enough to a toilet block! We were going to go again in Sep but now not sure I will want to camp by that time.

If anyone fancies adding me to the list (I always worry I will muck it up)

Jigglebum 9+1 EDD 8/12/11

LaraMi · 06/05/2011 15:55

Congrats Battery - very exciting...

Would you or anyone else like to add themselves to the above list???

batteryhen · 06/05/2011 15:25

hello everyone :)

I saw a heartbeat too :) Was spared fanjo cam and saw the lillte white flicker straight away. Measured exactly for 6 weeks today, and the lovely nurse even gave me 2 piccies :)

Have started on my blood thinning injections (ow!!) and they want to see me again in 3 weeks for another scan. This EPAU are fab.

Brilliant news for scoooby too :)

LaraMi · 06/05/2011 14:40

I'll do the honours today - hope I don't balls it up... I think there was another new addition to the list, but I can't find you, so if you see that you're missing please cut and paste the list and add yourself!

Friday's List

Nickster 26+6 EDD 7/8/11
Orange 22+6 EDD 4/9/11
Wombat33 21+6 EDD 10/09/11 next scan 25/5/11
Daisybell 21+1 EDD 14/09/11
Pinkfondantfancy 19+5 EDD 25/09/11
Tiggersreturn (TTT) 19+3 EDD 26/09/11 next scan 13/5/11
mamapower 19+2 EDD 28/9/11
DoubleDiffedDachs 18+2 EDD 5/10/11 next scan 18/5/11
Emoo 18+0 EDD 7/10/11 next scan 19/5/11
Lovemysleep 17+3 EDD 11/10/11
Tunnocksteacake 15+5 EDD 24/10/11
Onions 15+5 EDD 24/10/11 Next Scan 07/06/11
IreneHeron 15+5 EDD 23/10/11 next scan 3/6/11
Velvetcu 15+3 EDD 25/10/11 next scan 22/06/11
MummyAbroad 14+0 EDD 4/11/11
CEP 13+6 EDD 5/11/11 nuchal scan 5/5/11
Hils74 13+2 EDD 8/11/11
Katherine2008 13+1 EDD 10/11/11 next scan 23/6/11
Haffertee 12+6 EDD 14/11/11
delilahbelle 12+1 EDD 22/11/11
Mattsmama 12+1 EDD 17/11/11
Collie 11+5 EDD 20/11/11
Ninunina: 11+4 EDD 21/11/11 next scan 12/5/2011
wombatinwaiting: 11+1 EDD 24/11/11 NT scan 12/5/11
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy 10+6 EDD 26/11/11 NT scan 16/5/2011
Banana87 10+3 EDD 29/11/11
LaraMi 10+0 EDD 2/12/11 Next scan - 18/05/11
Blackkat 9+4 EDD 5/12/11

Thinking of.... hairy; ladybee; digi; A&R; barbie; harassed; MumTum; Knitter, Kat2504

LaraMi · 06/05/2011 14:35

I can however, safely google the poisson distribution in the office and thank you, Pink for the recommendation. I shall think of Mr Poisson every time I get panicky

LaraMi · 06/05/2011 14:33

Collie - desperate to google the shewee but in an open plan office, I'm not sure it's the wisest idea.... I do have to say I am quite fascinated (but also equally grossed out) by the concept of it... perhaps a portable loo is a better option as harassed suggests.

harassedinherpants · 06/05/2011 14:19

Scooby fab scan news !!! Grin Feels good doesn't it?!

Collie there's a thread on Chat about camping at the moment, and there's talk of portable loo's. Not sure I could go with a shewee......

I'm also tentatively thinking about camping. We normally go abroad ai for 10-14 days but aren't going to this year as we're moving in 3 weeks, dh is massively busy (self employed) and we need to save some pennies! But we're still going to take a week off and do days out or ideally a short break. We all fancy the Isle of Wight. Close and we both love it. I spent much of my childhood there and would love to take dd. So am thinking of borrowing bil & sils camping equipment.... just thinking!!!!!