TTC after a Miscarriage - Wishing you all more baby dust than is physically possible to type!!

Oi!!!! Where have you gone??????

Stockinghanger (bloody mouthful)

You have kids.......
Your opinion please....
My sister normally gives a list of wot her kids want for christmas...Not the santa list the family gift list. Do you do that?
I have gone against it this just because there was no element of surprise for them last year. One got a pair of roonies from me so the other went balistic looking for his pressie from me as he knew what he had asked for and was gonna get them.
Well this year I have got them what I want to get them. They are really good pressies. Some designer clothes and homer simpson blow up chair, spiderman tv game with joy type stick simpson doorbell (bedroom door) I think it is cool and it will be more of a surprise what do you reckon? Her boys are 9,7 and 5

Yeah, you are right enough. We are all supposed to be staying chilled

I was not on duty that day. I was at home and on standby. After about 6 bloody calls from my office they decided it would cost too much to bring me in. I was on days off. I am trained in searching and body retreval after major incidents such as that. I was glad though as I use the tube route to get into work. I couldn't use the mainline into Paddington for along time after the crash as that is one of my routes into work..

Aww, hun i really feel for you.

Right change of subject coz I am getting quite emotional...

You been working? Anything exciting happening in your neck of the woods? Oh, meant to ask, rather morbidly, where you on duty for July 7th? Just asking coz I watched the programme about it last week and was amazed by our emergency services - so I take my hat off to you!

Aww, hun i really feel for you.

Right change of subject coz I am getting quite emotional...

You been working? Anything exciting happening in your neck of the woods? Oh, meant to ask, rather morbidly, where you on duty for July 7th? Just asking coz I watched the programme about it last week and was amazed by our emergency services - so I take my hat off to you!

I know. DH left his partner for me. But it was something he had spoken about and thought over for months before. He had also tried to sort things out with her too.
I am sure it will sort itself out. It has to.
I feel like piggy in the middle.

God Mincepee! I can understand how worrie dyou are then Really, I am sure this will all sort itself out. Unfortunately couples splitting is far too common. I'm not trying to play this down as it is an awful situation and I do understand your feelings and position, but lives do move on and changes happen.

I have to ring him back at some stage tonight as I said I would. I was very busy at work and in a car with others so was unable to really speak to him.
It is really sad as they are both really nice people. I have known him for 15 years and am really worried about him. A friend of our was in a similar position as him. He chose to leave his wife and moved in with his lover. Within 3 weeks he had had enough of the guilt and commited suicide. They were best mates. It was awful. I still cry when I think of him. I have told him to keep talking to me as I couldn't face it again.

Eatin chocolate hob nobs now

Mincepee - I am so sorry you had such an awful confrontation with the friend But at least it is all out in the open now and you know the situation. And the worry of the female friend not staying in touch has been solved. All this will settle down. once the initial rawness of it all has dies down, everyone involved will start to see more clearly. I really do hope it all work out without too much hurt.

Anyway, how are you this evening? I'm genuinely worried about you. me ol' mate!

jinglediddle, glad the 4head worked.

I have had areally stressful afternoon. Bumped into my mate (male half) with another woman. Heard him tell her who I was and she was off. I am not that scarey honest . I have been known as the godmother for a while now .
Anyhow, he was so cold. Said there was nothing I cld say he knew exactly wot he was doing etc. he nearly made me cry. I was shocked and hurt that he could just throw away a 10 yr relationship for someone he has known for a week. I know this 4 sure as she works in his office and has only just started there. He said wot he wanted wouldn't listen to me and walked off. He has just called me and apologised says he doesn't want our freindship to be ruined over this. I nearly cried again.
I have spoken to her too. She is very angry. Is coming over to stay with me for a couple of days.
There is definatly no going back for either of them.
Sorry needed to talk to someone.......
i am so sad for them

must go save dh from overtime and get dd1 from her friends'. c u all soon, x

we bought the box set with unseen stuff (v v v v good!) but funnily enough it's gone missing!

my garland, love american pie always has me in stitches.

i only use mygirl cos it's my email addy and i'm lazy, plus i can't b bothered to find a version of my name that sum1 else hasn't already got, so lazy reasons again!
don't think i've mentioned any1's username just 'this one girl' (at band camp!) so might do that and c if he clicks on!

ok then girls, I'm off home,

Gonna have a glass of wine to celebrate and try and persuade DF to make me a curry (he does the best curries in the world)

my dp thinks its fab when i mention your names cos at first he said to me why would you call your child mygirl??!!! lol at that for ages while i explained that we used usernames not real (apart from me it seems lol!)

cos it's not like him being a 'virtual' footie manager on his computer game (his only indulgence!) with 'virtual' accounts and 'virtual' players is it?

Mygarland! Lets have your address! I could pay him a scary visit!! hehe

my dh calls u lot my 'virtual friends' he thinks u don't really exist so he wouldn't be frightened!

LOL...
He'll be having nightmares now about the mean MNer's that are going to get him if he shifts the bath!! LOL

thought i'd have another name change as it's smaller than last plus it's more similar to mygirl

mxw - tell him to keep the bath, u'll def want it when preggers but the baby will NEED it! obviously u might get baby their own bath but what about when they're older but still too young for a shower? put him straight tell him we'll come and get himm if he doesn't do as we say!

oh thats it I'm going in overdrive when I get home then. Gonna throw out all his work clothes. and all his tight jeans and trousers. He only wears boxers so nothing tight there. LOL

No more baths either, he'll just have to stay dirty. O hang on they're only infertile for 60 days with the baths? He can have them till we start trying again then

hi again, yeah men shouldn't let their 'apparatus' get too hot so no hot baths and no tight undies/trousers!

Thats why no baby yet then.

When I had my accident with the pills I got pg straight away but the other month I was off them for 2 months and nothing. The only difference was the baths!