TTC after a Miscarriage - Wishing you all more baby dust than is physically possible to type!!

morming all
not feeling too bad this morning had a few glasses of wine last night and slept for about eleven hours bleeding seems to be calming down cramps still there though
DIDDLE just wanted to say thanks for your kind words i could almost imagine that little nursery
hope everyone else is good xxxx

Morning eveyone

HC - Thanks for the good luck with the house. We've got energy cos we're not doing anything else yet, I know when december comes we'll relax abit cos of xmas but until then I will find my house!!

Didds - Glad to hear belly's good and that its holding up your new jeans, must be starting to show by now?

Carly - How you holding up?

Everyone else, hope you have a good day.

carly - fancy worrying about bringing this thread down, you're doing no such thing, this thread is here to support anyone going through a miscarriage or recovering from one, so you feel free to share everything with us, we're here to support you!!!
I am so sorry that you'e going through this, and even though medicaly it is not classed as a baby, it was a baby it was developed enough to have features etc. You're baby will be playing in the nursery in the clouds with my two little angels, don't worry they'll keep him or her company for you, and your baby will always be in your heart x x x

mumswish - tummy is doing ok thanks, its now big enough to hold up me new jeans, which is great as they are so comfy, still feeling pretty yuk, but thats good.

Hope everyone else is ok. sorry i vanished yesterday, had internet trouble, it didnt want me to come on here

HC - just a quick hello.
How ya doing?

Evening ladies

Too busy being back at work to be on here

carly82-sorry to hear that you have MC. Please, please don't give up hun. However many weeks you were it was still a baby. Sending you tons of virtual hugs.(((((((((((((((((xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx)))))))))))))))

wannabump2006-I never suffered from discharge until after my MC-don't know what causes it. ((xx))

mumswish-hope you find a house soon-bit of a busy time of year to house hunt-don't know where you get the energy from! Good luck hun. ((xx))

peepee-sorry you are feeling low hun-it's hard when you know someone who is happily PG isn't it. ((xx))

Diddle, Coathanger (if you are lurking), maddyd, petunia, mygirllolipop, wishingchair, spub and anyone else I've forgotten-hope you are all doing OK. (((xxx)))

I'm too knackered to type anymore so off to my lurvely bed.

Catch ya's later.

xxx

Peepee - thanks for the message on the Nov thread, lovey, we think of you too And the others we lost - Diddle, HK, MaddyD, Xena.

Love and best wishes to you and everyone TTC x x x

where the bloody hell is everyone today?

you're all so quiet. I'm bored so I'm gonna tell you all about my weekend.

I went to see another house on Saturday. It was gorgeous had a huge garden and huge bedroom. DF doesnt like the kitchen but we could work round it. Put an offer in and it was rejected we decided we could offer no more than £89K they wanted £97k so was hoping abit but there you go. Its soooo not fair!! lol was lovely house.

Yesterday we went shopping, watched some films and had a fillet steak dinner. So yummy.

Today I've been looking at rescue centres' web pages and theres some lovely dogs there, i want one now. lol

anyway where are you, what you doing? having a party without me?

of course!

plus if you're drunk, you're more relaxed so should help the little buggars!! lol

LOL at the drunken night of passion im sure i could persuade my dp to do this oooh at least once a week (just to maximise my chances of course )

thats how I think making a baby should be. I dont think you should all be testing 20x before AF is due and only bdin when oving. Just go for it, have sex when you want it, not when you thin it'll make a baby. The only time you have to start doing all these tests is when after 1 yr of trying you're no where.

Thats just my opinion and the way i'll be trying to handle it when I ttc.

I also think you should get drunk one night each month. Cos you always hear of people getting pg from a drunken night of passion. LOL

thanks mums i think i might just leave it to fate from now on. No more going through twenty preg tests the only time i will test is if my af is more than a day late, and no more trying to find when im oving. I want to be stress free and not worrying the whole cycle

Carly, If you need to talk, i'm here, and so is everyone else. Dont worry about bringing the thread down. We want to help.

morning girls!
feeling a little better this morning still bleeding but not ready to give up just yet i had a really bad day yesterday, felt every emotion possible. I was angry with myself for not being able to hold on to this baby, sad that i always let myself get so excited and heartbroken that it happened again and i know even medical proffesions dont class a foetus b4 8 weeks as a baby but it was still my baby anyway i dont want to bring this thread down already hope everyone else is doing good xx

Goodmorning ladies,

How are you all?

So Sorry to hear it was a definate MC, I hope it doesnt put you off trying. but I can understand if it does, just give it time.

Morning Didds, hows tummy?

Carly - How are you doing??

is anyone still here? could do with someone right now

Hello!!??anyone there,its not good you know!?...all this talking to ones self!!

where is everyone tonight!?.x

Its good to hear your still around ch.x.x

Thanx ch,i'm sure its just m/c related,but you know when you think,'i'll just check',its not heavy or anything,just there now and then when i wipe,so hopefully it will just fade?.x

Hi girls hope you all are ok this evening.x
Carly:so sorry you are going through a m/c at the moment,life really isn't fair sometimes,please just give yourself alittle time to rest up and recover before making any decisions about giving up ttc,maybe leave it acouple of cycles like me,before making your mind up?(lots of hugs and love to you.x.x.x.x)
Peepee:sorry your feeling so down at the mo.x,i remember when i had my m/c in sept and i found out that a lady i knew was also preg and doing fine,i felt sooooo jealous too!!!!i just couldn't understand how unfair it was!(so its completly natural to feel that way.x)

I've got a personal question to ask,so soz if TMI,but really need alittle reasurrance/advice.....i had my first af since my m/c around the 23rd of october,and it lasted about 5-6 days(usual for me),and then obviously stopped.Now over the last couple of days i've had this brownish/pinkish discharge now and then when i wipe,and am wondering whats going on,i think at the mo its the time when i'd be most fertile,but as some of you may know i'm playing it safe this month and we're going to ttc after next af.So any ideas what this strange discharge is?has anyone else had that before?Is it perhaps my bodies way of just settling back down as my DH suggested??...am alittle confused girlies...any ideas??....xx.x.x.x

Peepee- Sorry you're feeling down but it's understandable really, especially because of the date yesterday. And what with your DH leaving for a few days and finding about your colleague. It's just all really bad timing everything happening at once isn't? And it doesn't help that the weather has been pretty grim today (well it has here in Leicester). Is there anyone you can ring e.g. your Mum or a friend and chat to them?

is anyone there??????????????
Am feeling a little low. DH is on his way to Wales and wont be back until friday night.
I really wanted to try again and be pregnant b 4 christmas, but it isn't going to happen is it? I have just found out that one of my colleagues is 17 weeks p/g. I am sooooooo jealous. I feel bad for feeling jealous.