Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 15)

chloe that's disgusting, how can they leave it with no way to get in contact with them. Like mel said maybe worth looking into the PALS. maybe make a formal complaint. we have been arguing a lot lately, but then we always did really, but the last few months have probably been worse than normal. I tried phoning hv no answer i'll call back later, they did mention coming round to the pigsty house so we may have to try that.

mel sorry you're none the wiser, it's good he'll refer you for a scan though. Did he say to come back when you weren't bleeding or did he just leave it at that? He's behaviour normally is a bit hit and miss, he doesn't do as he's told very often, used to shout a lot but has stopped that so much now. he goes to the hosp for ear appt's, and everytime we've been he's had glue ear, but as it hasn't seemed to effect his speech they're not worried. But i'm wondering now if it's getting worse, he's started saying "what" a lot more and seems to not hear me, but i just don't know if that's normal being male a toddler. He's very energetic/mischievious. Thing is that dss is nothing like ds, he always stayed where he was put, never got into things he wasn't supposed to. didn't talk till after 3, wasn't brave enough to run off and dh just isn't used to a child who's like ds.

Well told dr i'd had another little bleed, and she's arranging another scan for me mid to end of this week. She was concerned that i was just so tired and shaking so she's signed me off for the week. Boss loved that when i told him, and has asked me to take med cert in, they don't normally ask to bring it until you're actually back in office. At least then i can take ds to nursery and fall back into bed.

hope your appointment goes well mel
i hope your ds lets you get some rest soon cep
and hello to everyone else

i havent posted for a while but ive been lurking ive been quite busy with my dds birthday and being ill and visiting family, my younger sister has been ttc for 2 years and found out last week that her pregnancy is ectopic, i am gutted for her, i wish i could introduce her to you ladies but she doesnt have internet

im in to my 2ww very boring and only 5dpo according to ff so way way way too early to test and of course im symptom spotting im not going to consider buying any tests until 12 dpo, im pretty sure i will get a -ve this month as i didnt dtd as much as i would have liked in my fertile period but i really hope we timed it right id love a december baby, good luck for thiks month ladies

friend's ds, not dd obviously!

cep I would get back to your HV and express your concerns about his behaviour. Perhaps he has picked up on you being pg and is lashing out a little bit? Is everything good between you and dh? My friend's little boy was a bit of a nightmare for a few months too but she was arguing quite a bit with her dp and since they have resolved their issues her dd has settled down again. Just a thought?

melie hope you are feeling a bit better this morning, the not knowing is so frustrating, believe me, I know!

Well, surprise surprise have been trying to get through to my hospital consultant's secvretary again today and it keeps ringing out, then switchboard eventually put me through to appointments who of course can't help me. I am so It's like trying to get blood out of stone! Rang BUPA to see if I would be covered and of course, fertility treatment is not I just feel so neglected at the moment and can't even voice my opinions as can't get through to anyone who can help me. Next appointment is July

mel sorry you were feeling a bit low last night, i hope you're feeling better this morning. I think it would be a good idea to go to the dr's, any bleeding midcycle is supposed to be checked. does dd go to nursery? (sorry i can't remember)

well last night was horrendous (sp?) ds woke up at 3:30 and didn't go back to sleep at all. When DH got up earlier than usual he took ds down for breakfast so i could get some sleep, i was woken by ds headbutting my back and kicking me. I really don't know what's wrong with him lately, he seems to be getting really violent. I'm starting to wonder if dh is right and he has got adhd or something like it.

evening all. welcome new ladies, sorry you need to be here, but the ladies are fab.

chloe sniff i'm sure i'm not offended sniff. seriously i would appreciate it if others could catch the list up, especially at the moment, as i'm finding it difficult to remember my name. Glad bleeding didn't carry on, but sorry it's being such a pita. Are you calling them tomorrow?

hihp it is normal hon, just take it easy on yourself, don't expect too much at the moment.

mel a bit better last night, we exhausted him during the day, and i started operation not sitting with him when i put him to bed last night, i had to put him back 4/5 times but then he dropped off. he woke 3 times but fell asleep quickly afterwards (i think 1 time he didn't actually wake but he called me in asked me to sit down then told me he wanted to go swimming and that was it) but ofcourse i was awake for ages afterwards waiting for him to wake up again.
I had planned to keep original bed time altered with clock (so 8 instead of 7) but he got out of the bath early and fell asleep so has gone to sleep earlier than normal, so worried now. am off for a bath. and an early night......again. speak to you all tomorrow.

harrassed your up and down days are completely understandable, it is weird how pg ladies and newborns appear from nowhere after a MC isn't it? I hope your dp is taking good care of you. Had to at your kitten story, sounds like something my ds would do!

Just changing my stats:

TTC
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD45
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD34
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD33
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD27
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD25
meliesmummy ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD23
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD23
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD18
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD17
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD16
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD15
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD14
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD12
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD8
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD8
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD4
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD4
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31, WTF cycle, cd5
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 8 UCL33 CD1

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD32 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD30 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD29 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle and AandRmum xx

Hello to all the newbies, but so sorry you have to be with us. Although they're a lovely bunch here.

Chloe you must be wondering what the hell is going on! Hope everything sorts itself out for you so you know where you are. I agree we should try to sort the stats out, just going to update in a min to add a cd day to mine.

cep you must be shattered lovely!

mel might it not be better to see gp sooner rather than later? Your day sounds lovely.

Unsurprisingly I'm struggling a bit this weekend. Physically ok, but mentally not in the best place. It just comes over me in great waves, and I'm having to force myself to go out. We went to town yesterday and Tesco today and I swear to god every other woman was prg or had a newborn . Doesn't help that I'm feeling fat, frumpy and bloody useless either.....

Dd still making me laugh though! We have a kitten and stupid thing jumped into the bath the other day trying to get the bubbles, but I think dd might have dunked her tonight when I wasn't looking. Although she swears otherwise, the story is just a bit too complicated.... little madam.

That sucks yrmotb but thanks for updating the stats, I am sure cep will be pleased - I wanted to say cep - I know we occassionally do the odd stat update but you do the bulk load, I know you were happy to do this before, but I also appreciate that even though you will undoubtedly still be bobbing in and out of this thread, as your pg progresses you will prob cut the strings a little (totally understandable). Hope that didn't come across as a 'sod off' statement as I don't mean that whatsoever just don't want you having to feel responsible for the stats! So, ladies I am sure cep would appreciate if at some point throughtout the day one of us copies and pastes the stats and adds a day on to the CD to correspond correctly. Oh, God I am turning into my mother

Feeling okish thanks mel My AF or whatever the hell it was yesterday didn't progress past last night so am back to not bleeding today and have dtd this morning in the hope it might have been some sort of ovulation bleeding (although I fear we may not have done it in time if it was, last day before today dtd was thurs night) Fingers crossed though but am still getting cramps so not sure whats happening really.

BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD45
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD34
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD33
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD27
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD25
meliesmummy ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD23
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD23
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD18
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD17
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD16
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD15
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD14
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD12
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD8
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD8
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD4
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD4
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31,
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 8 UCL33 CD1

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD32 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD30 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD29 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle and AandRmum xx

Just plonking myself at the bottom

Hi Tokyo , yes, am thinking it might be nice to have some sessions before AF returns and we can start trying again. Am feeling a bit battered so thought it might help. Lots of MNers seemed to find it helped.. will report back. Has anyone here given it a go? Not entirely sure what to expect.

Hi Really, What are you going to the acupuncturist for? Is it TTC related? (curious and nosy )

I've been very brave and had a go at Sunday's list (eek). Hope I haven't messed it up ladies? I moved on by 1 day for all entries of CD (including Recent BFPs).

BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD45
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD34
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD33
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD29
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD27
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD25
meliesmummy ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD23
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD23
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD18
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD17
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD16
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD15
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD14
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD12
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD8
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD8
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD4
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD4
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31,

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD32 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD30 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD29 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle and AandRmum xx

Hello all,

May I join the list too?

WTTC I think, having read that article that CEP provided a link too.

WTTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days

I have stopped bleeding! Just when I thought I couldn't take anymore. I have an appt (my first) with an acupuncturist on Monday so am focusing on that. Feel a bit sore and battered but am assuming this is to be expected.

cep You poor thing, you must be exhausted.

Thank you so much and I agree with all the grateful sentiments above, you are all amazingly lovely and wise. xx

You waiting for first AF Jules? Or just going for it? Sorry to hear your new too Mopey. I guess the thing about waiting is assuming we might get pregnant on our first couple of goes! And that might be unlikely anyway. It only too me 3 cycles last time so I was surprised about that and the doom and gloom side of me feels it will take ages/never happen again and then if it does happen I worry about the chance mc again.

Hey ho, must be a bit more positive! And must have more wine!!! I intend to have a good couple of weeks of 'drinking freely' (I don't mean in a crazy way) as I have missed it when pg, missed the release even just a glass can have when you need to blow off steam.

Hello, had 11.5 week mc 3 weeks ago, had
Erpc then infection so now ready to start
again. God it's bloody tough not knowing if it's
going to work then the worry if it happens again!
More wine and regular tests me thinks. Obviously wine will stop!!!

Hi Freelancegirl - sorry to hear your news - must be tough to have felt you almost got to the 12 week mark. not sure at all - sensible thing would be to wait for first AF - also did have the thought that IF it did happen in next month that could be a Christmas baby..... not so sure that would be ideal.....but is that just really being too much of a planner which can only tempt fate...??

Hi Mopey. Welcome! Am pretty new too, definitely new to this thread. Am at the tail end of a MMC (12 weeks but had unknowingly lost at 7) this week and asking the same question of every one else. Am thinking wait for the first AF which is a bit annoying as it might take 4-6 weeks. OR jump right in. Something inside is telling me to be sensible and wait for the AF but still not sure. Tough decision! What are you thinking?

Hi - I'm new to mumsnet and was hoping I could join this, very comforting to feel there are others in the same situation hopefully we will all have happy news soon - just in process of a MMC at 5 weeks - feeling ok but disappointed, glass of wine helping though! Interesting reading all the chat on whether you should wait for another cycle........what do you think.......keen to get on it again asap......would love to hear your thoughts?