Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 15)

Harassed Big hugs and am thinking of you. At least we know the secret of chocolate and calorie burning now .

Bump Glad you are feeling a bit better today too.

Melie So sorry you're not having much luck with the opks but sounds like progress with the reflexology.

It does sound like a lucky thread - FX for the rest of us too!

Meh...people who are skinny find it harder to get pregnant (so they say but then blooming Poash Spice goes and gets knocked up....David must have super sperm) so you need something to grab hold of. Besides

Upset = stress = burning calories

Basically you are just maintaining the status quo...!

Bump I am living on chocolate! Dh was popping to the shop last night and I asked him to get me some and he said "Again?!".....Cue me feeling fat and useless.....men! In his defense I have been moaning about feeling fat and yucky and have put on weight and wasn't exactly skinny to start with.

Harassed sorry to hear you have been feeling really down Its definitely a roller coaster ride and I guess we all have to get used to these ups and downs. Its still really early days for you though so don't be too hard on yourself. Did you read my chocolate/calory burning philosophy? I def think it applies to you so go and buy something yummy and I promise you wil feel a bit better!

Feeling much better today thanks but now I have started to talk about chocolate I feel I need some! xx

Hi everyone,

Sorry not been about, combination of a busy weekend and feeling really down. Think I should have taken more time off work with the 2nd one tbh. It'll be two weeks tomorrow and it's only 11 weeks today since my erpc...

laylas HUGE congratulations!

Cep good luck for today lovely, and glad ds slept through. Was just talking to a friend this morning who is having similar problems with her dd and tigers & spiders....

Bump you're sounding more positive ! Thank link is rather good isn't it? I found it so helpful.

Collie have messaged you, thank you for thinking of me lovely.

Forgotten everything else!!!! My memory is rubbish at the moment

ps Cep also meant to say I hope the scan goes really well today. Will be thinking of you xx

this thread goes in fits and starts with BFPs hopefully it will be your day soon RUE

Morning ladies!

Feeling much better today. DH and I didn't talk about it at all last night after his mini apology email whilst we were at work as there wasn't really anything else to say. I feel like now I have my AF the hormones are subsiding! Yay! So I am a little less mentally unstable! I also sent him that link which I think helped so thanks again for that.

Really so glad you are feeling a bit better too!

Layla CONGRATS!!! Looking forward to hearing the line is getting stronger everyday.

Hopeful hope you are feeling a bit stronger after the MC and tomorrow goes well.

Cep pleased to hear you got some sleep! Is stopping him from napping during the day an option so he sleeps more at night or will he be overtired and then just really upset during the day?

Minnie where are you in your cycle? Have you been TTC again?

Melies am going to check my work policy and see if I can get reflexology on it. I get such bad period pains and I wonder if that might help whilst I am thinking about TTC...

Wellie its nice to know we are not alone!! Men eh!?

Sorry if I've missed anyone off.Hope everyone is having a good morning. xx

Hopeful Best wishes with the IUI tomorrow. How are you feeling?

Layla Congratulations - amazing news!

Are all these BFPs unusual for this thread?!

hi everyone i hope you are all well and sorry for the recent BFNs and cep good luck with your scan today, i havent got time to catch up properly as dd is poorly and wont get off my lap but i had to come on and tell you i got a faint positive this morning its faint but there at13 dpo and im only telling you guys, im not telling oh for a few weeks as hes been looking forward to a stag weekend for ages and if i tell him he will spend the whole weekend worrying so if its ok id like to stay on the ttc list for a while, this really is a lucky thread xxx

Just added myself to the list

Tuesdays List

TTC
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD34
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD32
Stitchinline TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 33, CD32
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD26
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD25
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD24
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD23
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD21
Olismum TTC#2 cycle 2, UCL 31 CD20
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD17
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD17
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 8 UCL35-38,CD35 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD16
Meliesmummy TTC #2 cycle 2 CD14
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31, WTF cycle, CD14
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD13
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD13
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 8 UCL33 CD10
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
Angela85 ttc#2 cycle 1 ucl ?
hopeful1 ttc#2 IUI with clomid

WTTC
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days
Freelancegirl ttc#2 WTF cycle ucl 28-38
Gimmegimmegimme ttc #3 mmc mar 11 ucl 28-32

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD29 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, Cycle 1, UCLrandom CD32, BFP 30/3/2011

RECENT GRADUATES

Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP
DachshundsRule BFP
Wombat33 BFP
Pinkfondantfancy BFP

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle, AandRmum and Mumtum xx

Hi everyone,

I posted a few weeks back after my mc. I have started another round of clomid and due for IUI tomorrow. Been put on aspirin for my lining this time.

I have been following you all all though I havent written much.

Cep - good luck with your scan today, cant wait to hear your good news and pleased you had a good nights sleep

Tuesdays List

TTC
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD34
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD32
Stitchinline TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 33, CD32
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD26
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD25
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD24
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD23
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD21
Olismum TTC#2 cycle 2, UCL 31 CD20
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD17
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD17
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 8 UCL35-38,CD35 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD16
Meliesmummy TTC #2 cycle 2 CD14
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31, WTF cycle, CD14
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD13
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD13
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 8 UCL33 CD10
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
Angela85 ttc#2 cycle 1 ucl ?

WTTC
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days
Freelancegirl ttc#2 WTF cycle ucl 28-38
Gimmegimmegimme ttc #3 mmc mar 11 ucl 28-32

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD29 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, Cycle 1, UCLrandom CD32, BFP 30/3/2011

RECENT GRADUATES

Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP
DachshundsRule BFP
Wombat33 BFP
Pinkfondantfancy BFP

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle, AandRmum and Mumtum xx

Just some list tidying!

Cep Thinking of you today, good luck, FX here for you!

Stitch Thanks for the explanation, what a way to find out you have it. Sorry for the BFN.

Chloe That's great news that you have been referred somewhere else - I hope they look after you properly.

Bump How did it go last night with DH? Did you talk about it with him? Sending big hugs.

Am feeling more chirpy today . Thank you for the kind words yesterday.

Hi Wellie, Minnie, Melie, Collie, Layla =, YRMOTB and everyone else!

Good luck today cep And yey for sleeping all night!

Fx that it will all be fine cep - big hugs and thinking of you today, it can't be easy to go back there, please keep us posted, glad that DS at least slept through x

Hi mellies thanks for the reminder :) - no sign yet though I had some very AF-like cramps in bed this morning, the UCL on the list is pre MC and I had a 33 day cycle last time, and a very long WTF as well - will prob test tomorrow if no sign of AF by then

waves to everyone else!

Fx cep xx

morning ladies

stitch sorry for bfn's.

thanks for the scan wishes, i am scared, hoping the bad feeling is just due to last time. I don't think i'll be able to come back on until after work, so i won't be able to report till after 13:00.

ds slept through yay (but then would have been suprised if he hadn't since he didn't nap yesterday) big test will b next few days.

hope you're all ok.

Yay for colliebean HB! well done you, that's amazing news!
chloe so fab that you're getting re-referred - it's a pain that it's all taken so long (especially if the gp knew that the clinic you were going to was crap but hopefully you should start making progress now

Nice to meet you stitch, hope your stay here is short for the right reasons! :)
All the best for your scan today cep, really hope it's reassuring for you

bump olis and Really sorry you had rubbish days - this mc rollercoaster is a tough ride and as everyone else has already said, men talk a different language about it. I find it really frustrating to try and talk about something which I feel is just SO important and get noncommital responses or, on worse days, to be accused of being fixated :( I am starting to understand that this is just yet another area where they are just wired COMPLETELY different to us! Big hugs to all of you

Evening all, hope you had nice weekends

RUE and Chloe - antiphospholipid syndome is also called Hughes syndrome, it's an autoimmune disorder that can be one of the causes of recurrent miscarriage. I was diagnosed because I had DVT and lung clots after a long haul flight about a year ago, pretty scary stuff. My treatment was warfarin until I got pregnant and then the shots, becuase we wanted to try again straight away. Was quite relieved they let me stay on the heparin as I think going back on the warfarin would have just been too much for me on top of everything else.

Am totally symptom spotting as AF due tomorrow, my daily POAS is still BFN and not holding out much hope.

yay for Collie and the HB :o