Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 15)

cep YAY, YAY, YAY for good news scan , ,
Work rules my life at the moment, will check back in later xx

Cep It is good that you have passed the date where you m/c last time. Did the clinic give you any reassurance at this stage?

rue unfortunately i don't think i'll totally relax until it's here. i feel a bit better but think i'll get worried before every scan to be honest.

Cep Lovely news, so pleased it went well . It must feel like a weight off your mind. Do you think you'll be able to relax more (in a freak out kind of way?) in the next few weeks?

Mumtum Am sorry to hear you news, I hope you are okay. Wishing you the best, have a fantastic wedding, enjoy the big day, the amazing dress and wishing you a baby making honeymoon!

Bump Glad you have made up with the DH

Melies Yup, that is shitty. You poor thing. Sod it and be pleased you're a better person than her. Agree with Harassed, she does sound like an old boot.

mel don't worry about me me moments it happens to all of us. i second hihp i'd hide her until you're feeling a bit better about it all. (((hugs)))

Cep yaaay for sticky bean!! So pleased for you ...

Mumtum I'm so very sorry lovely. Having had two mc's close together, I know how you're feeling. Maybe a ttc break will do you good, and you have a wedding to plan! I got married almost two years ago, and I'd love to do it again...... to dh obviously. Big ((()))'s for you x

Mel not selfish at all love. Some people are twats imo! I had a big arguement with one of my sil's on Friday after she "joked" about being prg as an april fool. Stupid cow. Hide her, I've hidden loads of people. Particularly the ones moaning about being prg, I don't know if I'd be able to resist posting something sarky so don't tempt myself.

mel oh sorry sweetie, you're not being oversensitive, is normal. fb is awful after mc's i had 2 friends announce their news, i avoided it for a little while, even now i avoid the news from those 2 friends. i hope you're ok.

mumtum again am really sorry sweetie. i hope you have a fantastic weeding and fx for a honeymoon baby.

thank you ladies as yrmotb says i can relax for today.

at terry's stalking was doing the rounds.

bump forgot to say that ds hasn't had a nap during the day in well over a year. have realised he has loads of vit b though so am not giving his multivit for a few days and see what happens. do you think maybe he's worried about mcing again? i reckon once your upduffed he'll be well on board. (my dh jokingly rolled his eyes in a oh no kind of way when they said baby was ok. i did know he was joking allbeit in very bad taste.)

congratulations cep I am so so happy for you, you must feel so relieved, and you def deserve some chocolate!!

Mumtum - I am so sorry to hear your sad news. I wish you the best of luck with the wedding.

Off to hospital for fouth day in a row to have a scan!!

oh MumTum just seen your post. I am so so sorry The only thing I can say is what my Mum said to me at the weekend which was timing is everything and there is a reason why it wasn't meant to be this time. I know you will have the most wonderful wedding and it will feel like the best day of your life so I hope you both can look towards that now and then have A LOT of fun on the honeymoon . Sending you a big hug xxxx

Cep that is AMAZING news. How exciting!! SO SO happy for you!!!

Yep getting on a lot better thanks. Once one of us apologises if we are in the wrong we tend to put things behind us pretty quickly and get on with life. I love him too much to stay mad at him for too long once he says sorry. However, this time next week we will need to decide whether to TTC and we haven't discussed that (I think he thinks we are still going to try as he has said yes because he knows I want to. I on the other hand am undecided about making a baby with someone who is doing it just because I want to but suspect once he offers it on a plate I won't be able to say no!)

xxx

Yay cep I am stalking you from Nov, was worried about you!! Saw this pop up in active convos and got a bit scared. So happy for you!

Xpost mumtum so sorry to hear that. Best of luck with the wedding.

Yey foe cepbean! Hurrah. And relax. A teeny bit. For today at least.

Hey ladies just an update, I did post on monday in the freak out room and was sure of my (bad) news would spread, but i had a chemical pregnancy.... so no longer updiffed and until next year after the wedding no llonger TTC either. Was heart broken when found out and am still devastsated aswould loved to have had a new baby at the wedding but obviously it was not meant to be.

Just wanted to say a huge thank you to all you lovely lovely ladies for your thoughts and wish you well in your TTC journeys im sure you will ALL get the BFPs you deserve and when its not too paonful i will lurk and hope to see each and everyone of you move from here to the freak out room and then to the Grads . Lve to you all Mumtum x x x

Ps did I say I was happy for you???

Yippppeeeeeeeeee cep that's AMAZING news!!!! Yay for the sticky little bean!!! So so so happy for you!!!

Got to be quick as have pointless meeting now.

So happy for you!!!

afternoon all.

hopeful good to see you again. fx for tomorrow. is the pain due to clomid?? might be worth mentioning it.

bump you say you didn't talk about it, but are you getting on a bit better?

hihp i asked dh for a bit of money so i could get chocolate after the scan and he told me i didn't need it. the sod.

mel sorry you're not feeling positive this month, remind me are you drinking the grapefruit juice? can't stand the stuff but i downed a glass every morning then had breakfast. although pink is better than the other stuff. great about the reflexology though great to know you're enjoying it.

great news from my scan, saw the hb again. and they moved the dates forward again so i'm 9 weeks 3 which is what i worked it out as. so relieved. he/she survived longer than the last one. now i just have to wait for my 12 week scan whenever that's going to be. booking in next week.

Thank you everyone for your kind thoughts you lot are wonderful.
sorry if i've missed anyone.

Hopeful will be thinking of you tomorrow.

Hospital just phoned to see if I was "happy" with everything, and ok to discharge. Such a lovely way to put it.....

how was the scan cep??

< lurking for news from cep >

will catch up later.

I am feeling fine about having IUI tomorrow though having lots of pain and so am worried it wont work or I will mc again.

Melies - I also hate interpreting those ovulation sticks, i bought cheap boots ones and they say it is positive if line the same or darker as test line but i am never really sure, a smiley face would def make it easier

Layla - many congratualtions on your bfp, i am so pleased for you and wish your dd better

Really - thank you I am not feeling too bad

harassed - sorry you are feeling down, it is very hard as you have up days and down days so your emotions are all over the place, thinking of you

Bump - glad you seem to have got things sorted with DH. Mine was just really insensitive too and i told him off and he apologised, sometimes they need a little kick up the backside, like someone said earlier they are programmed a little differently!! Also, your comment about skinnier girls finding it harder to get pregnant, I agree, I think posh spice tried for a very long time, dont think it was easy which is what I tell myself as I help myself to dd stock of cream eggs!!