Collie I love the idea of having to nip off at work for a secret mn and secret vom! Well, obviously it isn't much fun but the thought did make me chuckle. And it is all for a good reason. I remember that first stage as being realyly hard though and I imagine it will be a lot harder with the worry post-mc.
Thanks for all the comments on the scan cep, harassed, bump, Loup, thumb, YRMOTB, Melies and anyone I have missed.
Melies Sounds to me that that is the last of the pg lining too. They told me today that the next period would be heavier. Hopefully mine will get here soon too, I feel really bloated and today wanted to consume entire contents of fridge in one door-opening. My PMS can tend to go on for weeks at the best of times though!
Something else has cropped up. I had an email conversation with a midwife at one of the testing centres have been referred to and she said please, please (twice!) don't ttc until you have started to see us as you will need to be on steroids to have a good chance of addressing the thyroid antibodies. Waiting lists are between 4-6 months!!!! Not sure what to do. Had made the decicision earlier to risk a mc and ttc again after af but they seem to really think I shouldn't 
Choices are: Wait as they say, get treatment and trust that their 85% success rates hold for me too. But get frustrated from waiting, worried about age, worry about not using that supposed post-mc fertility boost and also worried I will next time find it harder to conceive.
Don't wait and risk another mc as am not being treated properly and have 50% chance of one.
I guess there are some pros of waiting: Get to drink and go out and not feel sick and tired, get to feel a bit more positive that next time it might work, get to not panic about another mc for a few months...
So confusing. I really wanted to join you on the ttc list! It's not all about the list I know, but you know what I mean.