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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC a 2012 baby, this is our year !!!

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weimy · 24/03/2011 13:22

I am about to start cycle 5 and wondered if there were any fellow sex pests out there who wanted to join me in regular swi, not so regular poas and plenty of Wine, Biscuit, Brew and [chocolate emoticon].

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peapop · 06/06/2011 12:37

So we are eurochick Grin I also appear to have aged myself by a year! Not sure what's with that I'm only 28 honest!

Poppyjen · 05/06/2011 21:43

Thanks wouldbe I would like to be back on stats.

I have started taking Agnus Castus this cycle as I have heard lots of people say it has helped to shorted and regulate wayward cycles (especially those related to PCOS) so I am hoping that this will sort out my late ovulation. Have any of you tried this?

Adding myself back in....

BraveGirl (37) TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL 28 daysish AF due 28th May
BoogiesBunny (28) TTC#1 Cycle2 UCL30days AF due 2nd June
Trope (32) TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 27 days AF due 17th June
Emmaloupolman (28) TTC#2 Cycle 21 UCL 28 - 45 day due 19th June
Carlitawantsababy (29) TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 30 days AF due 20th June
Lugsie (26) TTC#1 Cycle4 UCL 30-32days AF due 22nd June
Babybrain3 (28),TTC #3, Cycle 1, UCL 28, AF due 23rd June
Wgm72 (34) TTC#3 Cycle 4 UCL 28-30days AF due 26th June
Toddle (20) TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL 29 days AF due 30th June
Peapop (29) TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 33-35 AF due 30 June-2nd July
Eurochick (35) TTC#1 Cycle 7, UCL 25-30 days, AF due 30 June-2July(ish)
Gonerogue TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL-28days AFdue-?
Shobbs 24, TTC 1, 33DY Cycle,
Molly Defoe (31), TTC#1, Cycle 3, UCL 32 days, AF due ?
Poppyjen (29) TTC#2 Cycle 1 post mc UCL ? AF due ? (will update later)
Wouldbemum (32) TTC#1 Cycle 6 UCL 26-34 days AF due 4th July approx

Not Counting
Summerbird73 TTC#2 Awaiting next AF after recent MC - will then update
MorningCoffee (29) TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 28 days - awaiting AF after stopping pill
Weimy TTC1 (35)
Levana (31) TTC#1
vegasmum ttc#3 cycle 3 (post mc in feb)

MIA
JustShaggingForNow (28) TTC#1, Cycle -1 UCL 29/30 days, AF due 15th April
EsmeWeatherwax (39) ttc #3, cycle 1, ucl 31 days, AF due 19th April.
MickyLee TTC#3 Cycle2 UCL-28days AFdue-22nd April
BabysadeTTC#1 cycle 4,UCL 31-33 days, AF is due 24th april (ish).
Kittycat(25) TTC#3, cycle 1, UCL ?, AF due 24h April
75sarah (35) ttc#1 cycle 3 UCL 28 days AF dues 27th April
Byrnsie30 (30) TTC #1, AF due 28thcle 4, ucl 26-39, AF due April 30th??
Liliana (31) TTC#1 Cycle 5 ucl 28 (ish) AF due 1st May
Naynay80(30)ttc baby 2 circle 2 ucl28 days AF due 3rd ma
Dreamingofabump (28) TTC#1 Cycle1 ucl27days Af due 5th May
Woody17 TTC#1 UCL36days AF due 7th May
Orangehead (33) TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL 25-27 AF DUE 10th May
Fr00tbat TTC#1, Cycle ? ucl 31-38 due 12th May.
Treaclechops (25) TTC #1 Cycle 2 UCL GOD KNOWS AF due 25th May (as i have noticed luteal phase, i think!)

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Carlitawantsababy · 05/06/2011 17:08

Sorry eurochick crossed post! Thanks, I'll take a look at that thread, had felt it before but never linked the two and would be interesting to know. I'm very much going with the theory now that if I l over prepare I'll get pg! Like if you bring your brolley it won't rain! :)
Sounds like a good plan wouldbe! definitely can't hurt anyway. 6 months does seem like quite a long time, it's difficult not to think about it all the time after 1.5 months, we decided back in November so I guess it's been on my mind for a while, still, I think I'll be a mess if it ends up taking a year or more! 6 months I'm prepared for but it'll still feel like a long time!
bravegirl, boogiesbunny any news?

eurochick · 05/06/2011 13:09

AF got me on 3 June so I am updating my stats. Peapop, we appear to be cycle buddies now.

BraveGirl (37) TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL 28 daysish AF due 28th May
BoogiesBunny (28) TTC#1 Cycle2 UCL30days AF due 2nd June
Trope (32) TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 27 days AF due 17th June
Emmaloupolman (28) TTC#2 Cycle 21 UCL 28 - 45 day due 19th June
Carlitawantsababy (29) TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 30 days AF due 20th June
Lugsie (26) TTC#1 Cycle4 UCL 30-32days AF due 22nd June
Babybrain3 (28),TTC #3, Cycle 1, UCL 28, AF due 23rd June
Wgm72 (34) TTC#3 Cycle 4 UCL 28-30days AF due 26th June
Toddle (20) TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL 29 days AF due 30th June
Peapop (29) TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 33-35 AF due 30 June-2nd July
Eurochick (35) TTC#1 Cycle 7, UCL 25-30 days, AF due 30 June-2July(ish)
Gonerogue TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL-28days AFdue-?
Shobbs 24, TTC 1, 33DY Cycle,
Molly Defoe (31), TTC#1, Cycle 3, UCL 32 days, AF due ?
Poppyjen
Wouldbemum (32) TTC#1 Cycle 6 UCL 26-34 days AF due 4th July approx

Not Counting
Summerbird73 TTC#2 Awaiting next AF after recent MC - will then update
MorningCoffee (29) TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 28 days - awaiting AF after stopping pill
Weimy TTC1 (35)
Levana (31) TTC#1
vegasmum ttc#3 cycle 3 (post mc in feb)

MIA
JustShaggingForNow (28) TTC#1, Cycle -1 UCL 29/30 days, AF due 15th April
EsmeWeatherwax (39) ttc #3, cycle 1, ucl 31 days, AF due 19th April.
MickyLee TTC#3 Cycle2 UCL-28days AFdue-22nd April
BabysadeTTC#1 cycle 4,UCL 31-33 days, AF is due 24th april (ish).
Kittycat(25) TTC#3, cycle 1, UCL ?, AF due 24h April
75sarah (35) ttc#1 cycle 3 UCL 28 days AF dues 27th April
Byrnsie30 (30) TTC #1, AF due 28thcle 4, ucl 26-39, AF due April 30th??
Liliana (31) TTC#1 Cycle 5 ucl 28 (ish) AF due 1st May
Naynay80(30)ttc baby 2 circle 2 ucl28 days AF due 3rd ma
Dreamingofabump (28) TTC#1 Cycle1 ucl27days Af due 5th May
Woody17 TTC#1 UCL36days AF due 7th May
Orangehead (33) TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL 25-27 AF DUE 10th May
Fr00tbat TTC#1, Cycle ? ucl 31-38 due 12th May.
Treaclechops (25) TTC #1 Cycle 2 UCL GOD KNOWS AF due 25th May (as i have noticed luteal phase, i think!)

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wouldbemumandotherstuff · 05/06/2011 00:12

Hello ladies! Have been very busy at work and with in-laws visiting so have managed to read posts without writing any! Congrats to those with BFPs!

So sorry to hear your news Poppy - FX for the next month! [big hug] Do you want to be back in the stats? wasn't sure where you'd prefer to be....hope that's an ok spot for you.

AF got me today, so I've updated my stats. Was rather down about it this morning, but I remind myself that we've not been trying for very long, and with travel and visitors, not every month has been best efforts! have lots of good resolutions for the month ahead! also thinking of going to see the GP - AF can be irregular, painful and heavy, so wondering if I should check to see if there's a problem, or whether it's just a question of being patient and keeping trying. Atleast if I went, I'd feel like I was doing something, so I think I might try to get an appointment.

BraveGirl (37) TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL 28 daysish AF due 28th May
BoogiesBunny (28) TTC#1 Cycle2 UCL30days AF due 2nd June
Eurochick (35) TTC#1 Cycle 6, UCL 25-30 days, AF due 2-5 June(ish)
Trope (32) TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 27 days AF due 17th June
Emmaloupolman (28) TTC#2 Cycle 21 UCL 28 - 45 day due 19th June
Carlitawantsababy (29) TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 30 days AF due 20th June
Lugsie (26) TTC#1 Cycle4 UCL 30-32days AF due 22nd June
Babybrain3 (28),TTC #3, Cycle 1, UCL 28, AF due 23rd June
Wgm72 (34) TTC#3 Cycle 4 UCL 28-30days AF due 26th June
Toddle (20) TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL 29 days AF due 30th June
Peapop (29) TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 33-35 AF due 30 June-2nd July
Gonerogue TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL-28days AFdue-?
Shobbs 24, TTC 1, 33DY Cycle,
Molly Defoe (31), TTC#1, Cycle 3, UCL 32 days, AF due ?
Poppyjen
Wouldbemum (32) TTC#1 Cycle 6 UCL 26-34 days AF due 4th July approx

Not Counting
Summerbird73 TTC#2 Awaiting next AF after recent MC - will then update
MorningCoffee (29) TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 28 days - awaiting AF after stopping pill
Weimy TTC1 (35)
Levana (31) TTC#1
vegasmum ttc#3 cycle 3 (post mc in feb)

MIA
JustShaggingForNow (28) TTC#1, Cycle -1 UCL 29/30 days, AF due 15th April
EsmeWeatherwax (39) ttc #3, cycle 1, ucl 31 days, AF due 19th April.
MickyLee TTC#3 Cycle2 UCL-28days AFdue-22nd April
BabysadeTTC#1 cycle 4,UCL 31-33 days, AF is due 24th april (ish).
Kittycat(25) TTC#3, cycle 1, UCL ?, AF due 24h April
75sarah (35) ttc#1 cycle 3 UCL 28 days AF dues 27th April
Byrnsie30 (30) TTC #1, AF due 28thcle 4, ucl 26-39, AF due April 30th??
Liliana (31) TTC#1 Cycle 5 ucl 28 (ish) AF due 1st May
Naynay80(30)ttc baby 2 circle 2 ucl28 days AF due 3rd ma
Dreamingofabump (28) TTC#1 Cycle1 ucl27days Af due 5th May
Woody17 TTC#1 UCL36days AF due 7th May
Orangehead (33) TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL 25-27 AF DUE 10th May
Fr00tbat TTC#1, Cycle ? ucl 31-38 due 12th May.
Treaclechops (25) TTC #1 Cycle 2 UCL GOD KNOWS AF due 25th May (as i have noticed luteal phase, i think!)

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Carlitawantsababy · 04/06/2011 21:51

Meant out of it this month, not week! Half of me thinks it only takes one swimmer but half of me thinks it is so difficult. Luck really eh? Not moping btw, just making conversation in case anyone is lurking!:)

eurochick · 04/06/2011 21:38

For me, ov feels like mild pain on one side (usually my right side), usually coupled with a lot of bloating and general tenderness in my lower abdomen. But if you look on the ov pains thread other women are describing something different. I knew if can vary (apparently people can feel different parts of the process) but I have never heard of ov pains being that severe before I read that thread.

Carlitawantsababy · 04/06/2011 17:39

Sorry Serendipity, that's horrid for you getting your hopes up so much.

As for me, fairly certainly out of it this week as dh has been really ill so we have managed 1 shag during first 3 days of my suspected 5 day window - hoping to get in 2 more but still, not exactly covering the bases. I caved earlier this month and bought some pg tests (5!) and ordered a bb thermometer which came today, I hope that the thermometer will call af's bluff even in this unlikely scenario, if not then at least I can check I'm actually ovulating as am only judging by cm at the mo.
For those of you who have mentioned feeling ovulation, how would you describe it? Is it anything like a very mild stitch one side behind your pelvis?

serendipity16 · 04/06/2011 10:03

I got 2 very faint + tests yesterday...... and then a bfn this morning.
A little gutted esp as i've had early losses before.
Just waiting for AF to start now.

weimy · 03/06/2011 23:19

toddle it will fly by!! xxx

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toddle · 03/06/2011 16:06

Ah sounds tempting but a sh@gathon with dss, mil, fil around probably wouldnt happen :L. Guess thinking about it probably counts me out in August to as we all of away for a week then. So it would appear unless July is the month for us were out untill SEPT!!!!! Omg that feels like a life time away.

eurochick · 03/06/2011 13:09

Thanks toddle. I think a month off every now and then might not be a bad idea. It's a shame you can't be with him having a Greek sh@gathon though!

toddle · 03/06/2011 13:01

Glad to hear your feeling a little better eurochick and got your referal. Im thinking its the sunshine may make everyone a little happy today :)

Im out of the race so to speak this month already unless i have a exceptionally short or long cycle as dp is of tanning himself in Greece for a week with ds. Initally a bit gutted but im not going to use any OPK's and stress about anything this month so in some ways feel a little relieved.

eurochick · 03/06/2011 11:28

I am feeling a bit better today.

I have just been to the doc's to collect my Day 3 and Day 21 results. And they appear to be normal. Which is unexpected (I was diagnosed with PCOS when I was a teenager).

My LH and FSH levels are fine independently but not in a 1:1 ratio, so it looks like the PCOS is still there (which comes as no surprise as I was yet again plucking hairs out of my chin this morning!), but testosterone and prolactin were fine. And my progesterone at 6dpo (7dpo fell during the bank holiday weekend) was 30, indicating I probably ovulated.

The doctor gave me a referral to a gynae straight away and said the wait should only be a few weeks, so that's all good.

It is kind of confirming my suspicion though that the problem is probably around implantation. I keep getting a few days of symptoms in the 2ww and then they always go away.

And I still haven't got my flipping period. It was due yesterday/today. I wish it would just get on with it now!

weimy · 02/06/2011 23:05

1 dpo, and so it begins!!!

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eurochick · 02/06/2011 22:20

Welcome back, Poppyjen. I guess swi will be starting soon. I will have my fingers crossed for you! (Virtually, otherwise I can't type...)

Poppyjen · 02/06/2011 19:22

Hi ladies

back in the saddle again so to speak Smile its been a rough few days thanks for all of your kind words. I feel like I have done my being sad and feel much more positive now.

Went to the GP on Tues who referred me to hospital for scan to make sure all was ok (well, as ok as can be...) but they made me POAS at hospital appointment this morning and as it was negative they didn't do a scan just gave me a pep talk about how 1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage and 1 in 3 women experience them. Not sure why they thought that would make me or anyone else feel better - made me feel a bit like I was being told to stop whining.... the joys of the NHS I suppose. Anyway good news is that there's no reason why DH and I can't continue TTC straight away so here I am back again.

CD6 - here's hoping the rumours about increased fertility after miscarriage are true Smile

Congratulations Tiredtrout Grin

eurochick · 02/06/2011 12:23

Well, after taking a dive yesterday, my temp was back up again this morning (AF is due today/tomorrow). Tested. BFN. My body is just f---king with me. Meh.

BraveGirl · 02/06/2011 10:08

No AF, tested, BFN.

eurochick · 01/06/2011 22:19

Thanks weimy. Feeling a little better sitting here laughing at twats on The Apprentice.

weimy · 01/06/2011 21:45

congrats tiredtrout!!!!

Sorry about Af but congrats with degree toddle!!!

Big weimy pack hugs and licks eurochick !!!!

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toddle · 01/06/2011 21:17

yippie :) feel like i have half of my life back. Im free from uni work from now on and have just got my grades back for last presentation and exam and they are my highest. just graduation to look forward to now.

(Hug) for eurochick im feeling the same way. I was so excited when having taking my implant out at the thought of getting BFP so soon but its just not worked out that way. I feel slightly cheated with all sex education lessons etc you are lead to believe that by even looking at a mans dangly bits you will get pregnant so clearly wrong.

To make it all worse AF was absent for many days so POAS a faint line came up and was rather excited, however much i tried to tell myself it may be to good to be true as it was last time when i got the faint line. DP suggested waiting untill thursday to POAS again but sods law and bloody AF turned up today :(

Sorry to hear abot your loss Poppy

Big congrats Tiredtrout

Attempt at updating stats. Sorry if i mess up somewhere feel like ive been mising for a life time. Hopefully got that right vegasmum and ive moved some of the April/May dates down to the MIA as we are now in June (wow where did half of the year go?) left stats where AF due has passed but their still around from looking at last few pages of thread. Sorry if ive moved you down and your still around.

BraveGirl (37) TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL 28 daysish AF due 28th
BoogiesBunny (28) TTC#1 Cycle2 UCL30days AF due 2nd June
Eurochick (35) TTC#1 Cycle 6, UCL 25-30 days, AF due 2-5 June(ish)
Trope, (32) TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 27 days AF due 17th June
Emmaloupolman (28) TTC#2 Cycle 21 UCL 28 - 45 day due 19th June
Carlitawantsababy (29) TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 30 days AF due 20th June
Lugsie (26) TTC#1 Cycle4 UCL 30-32days AF due 22nd June
Babybrain3 (28),TTC #3, Cycle 1, UCL 28, AF due 23rd June
Toddle (20) TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL 29 days AF due 30th June
Peapop (29) TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 33-35 AF due 30 June-2nd July
Gonerogue TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL-28days AFdue-?
Shobbs 24, TTC 1, 33DY Cycle,
Molly Defoe (31), TTC#1, Cycle 3, UCL 32 days, AF due ?
Wgm72 (34) TTC#3 Cycle 4 UCL 28-30days AF due 26th June

Not Counting
Summerbird73 TTC#2 Awaiting next AF after recent MC - will then update MorningCoffee (29) TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 28 days - awaiting AF after stopping pill
Weimy TTC1 (35)
Levana (31) TTC#1
vegasmum ttc#3 cycle 3(post mc in feb

MIA
JustShaggingForNow (28) TTC#1, Cycle -1 UCL 29/30 days, AF due 15th April
EsmeWeatherwax (39) ttc #3, cycle 1, ucl 31 days, AF due 19th April.
MickyLee TTC#3 Cycle2 UCL-28days AFdue-22nd April
BabysadeTTC#1 cycle 4,UCL 31-33 days, AF is due 24th april (ish).
Kittycat(25) TTC#3, cycle 1, UCL ?, AF due 24h April
75sarah (35) ttc#1 cycle 3 UCL 28 days AF dues 27th April
Byrnsie30 (30) TTC #1, AF due 28th April
Wouldbemumandotherstuff (32) TTC#1, cycle 4, ucl 26-39, AF due April 30th??
Liliana (31) TTC#1 Cycle 5 ucl 28 (ish) AF due 1st May
Naynay80(30)ttc baby 2 circle 2 ucl28 days AF due 3rd ma
Dreamingofabump (28) TTC#1 Cycle1 ucl27days Af due 5th May
Woody17 TTC#1 UCL36days AF due 7th May
Orangehead (33) TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL 25-27 AF DUE 10th May
Fr00tbat TTC#1, Cycle ? ucl 31-38 due 12th May.
UtterlyMonkey (34), TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL 31-32 days, still BD - now on alternate days; AF due 15 or 22 May? I think?
Treaclechops (25) TTC #1 Cycle 2 UCL GOD KNOWS AF due 25th May (as i have noticed luteal phase, i think!)

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eurochick · 01/06/2011 19:24

Thanks, lugsie. It is horrible. I normally only feel like crying once or twice a year but it has been almost every day over the last week. I think I'd actually feel better if I could cry but I can't!

Sorry for the self-absorbed posts today. I am just a little wrapped up in my TTC emotions!

Lugsie · 01/06/2011 19:18

Oh eurochick I'll give you that hug... its such a stressful and emotional time isn't it... its so nice to have all you ladies for support as I'm sure my RL friends are sick of hearing me going on about it all!

poppy I'm so sorry Sad hope you and DP are ok - thinking of you both.

Congrats tiredtrout

eurochick · 01/06/2011 14:02

Can I have a virtual hug?

I am on 11 dpo and my luteal phase is usually 11/12 days so AF is imminent. I am normally on a very even keel emotionally but this month I have been down, grumpy and teary during the 2ww. It is most unlike me. Even DH (not the most observant of men) noticed I have been unusually irritable. I think the acupuncture is stirring up my hormones and doing strange things. I really can't believe this is taking so long. I will be on to cycle 7 soon. I want to have a little cry (again, most unlike me - I am a very rare crier) but I am at work. Meh.