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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Definitely not too early! Throw cake and learn amazing facts about semen and mucus on the 2nd December bus!

999 replies

spidookly · 23/03/2011 15:45

I started another bus! I can't believe we got full so soon :o

From the last thread:
"He has said - 'no gym, no sex' - that'll do it!"

:o

OMG I love your DH, he sounds hilarious :)

OP posts:
weimy · 03/04/2011 22:19

Hugs going x

goingmadtrying · 03/04/2011 21:02

It wasn't huge just really strange cramps have eased off but still bleeding alot more than normaljuat wondering if it's my first real period since comingoff pill in nov?????
Thank you for all your thoughts I'm at work so will see how things are when I get home later xxx

seven I had lots of creamy White cm last week so not sure hopefully it's a sign fx :)

sevendwarves · 03/04/2011 20:43

Sorry going meant to say I hope you're ok and try not to worry. I prescribe a hot water bottle and chocolate.

sevendwarves · 03/04/2011 20:41

going I second calling NHS direct. How big was this dark mass? FWIW if you were pregnant the foetus would be smaller than a kidney bean at this stage.

AF is due in a couple of days, my cervix is higher and softer today and I have loads of white CM (sorry tmi), could that be a symptom or am I having a really random cycle? Any ideas appreciated!

cookiemonster100 · 03/04/2011 20:07

Going - can you contact NHS direct to fine out? Hope you are ok xx

cookiemonster100 · 03/04/2011 20:05

Hi all, congrats on all the BFP's and boo hiss to the witch if she got you!!
In RL, SIL has just come out of hospital due to complications from her mc, so have been caught up in that. They still don't think she has lost everything,and will have to go back in a week for a scan. I am not sure why they won't give her a D&C, instead they have given her 3 tablets. What ever they do, they will never take away the pain.

CD 12 and got my peak on my CBFM so have been SWI. I saw the doctor on Thurs and they are running some test on me and DH Grin then we will see the outcome.

Thinking - good luck with your appt on Thursday, hope it goes well
Tanif - any update? Apologies if you have already mentioned it. When I left here we were on pg 6 and now look where we are!!
Spidookly - How are you me old mucker?! How was your mothers day?

Rest of you - Happy mothers day to all mummies, and the rest of us who are still waiting for our turn - PMA- it WILLbe out turn next yr Smile

orangehead · 03/04/2011 19:53

Hi Lucy, congratulations on the birth of your dd.
I dont know going, do you normally have blood clots with af? Every now and again I have really werid af's that are so differen from normal. I think sometimes are body just likes to confuse us. Hope you ok. How are things now?

goingmadtrying · 03/04/2011 19:27

Omg something really strange just happened to me when I went to the loo, ok TMI alert I was due on Tuesday nothing really showed until Thursday and then it's been very light and hardly anything at all, I have still had sore boobs so was thinking it was a possibilty just a breakthrough bleed and bfp just hadn't shown yet, somehow felt pregnant!! Anyhow just been to loo and lots of bright red blood and whilst sitting down felt something obviously a blood clot passing, checked in toilet water bright red and a dark mass at bottom, when wiped more clots!!! I'm also now getting cramps, do you think I could of had mmc and bfn on weds was too early to show positive really confused :(

MickyLee · 03/04/2011 18:13

Lucy thank you for your positive vibes. Congratulations on the birth of your DD :)

goingmadtrying · 03/04/2011 13:56

That's really lovely lucybrad happy mothers day :)

lucybrad · 03/04/2011 13:22

Hi, I just wanted to pop on and give you all some positive vibes. This time last year i was on cycle 8 and was getting fed up on jumping off one bus onto another, infact i was ready to give up altogether as I was 38, and felt I had left it too late. Anyway that was a year ago, and now I am sitting here waiting for DD1 to wake from her lunch time nap. She is 3 months old and born 23rd december. So think positive, it might not happen this month but chances are it will happen. Good luck all!!!

olismum23 · 03/04/2011 11:41

Hi ladies still have my fingers crossed for an xmas baby! Today is my high fertility day so SWI as much as i could this week i can only hope! :)

MickyLee · 03/04/2011 10:43

seven let's hope your DH is right :)

MickyLee · 03/04/2011 10:40

Ooo.. Just got a twinge near my left ovary. Last month I had one on my right! I am on CD9 so maybe it is my ovary preparing its self Grin

Do tell me if I am being OTT

sevendwarves · 03/04/2011 10:15

xstitch congratulations, you are pregnant, and Internet cheapies are shit, I won't be buying them again.

Looking forward to finding out on Tuesday if AF arrives or not, DH said last night he'd be surprised if I'm not pregnant, he seems to sense these things and was correct with DS.

Tanif · 03/04/2011 10:03

stitch happy mother's day and what a wonderful present!

MickyLee · 03/04/2011 09:26

Happy mothers day!!!

xstitch Congrats :)

Good luck everyone testing today and fx you all get BFPs

orangehead · 03/04/2011 09:20

Hi Thinking, glad you got your appontment though. Hope all goes well. Let us knowhow you get on
Congrats xstitch

goingmadtrying · 03/04/2011 09:09

xstitch step away from the tests I think your going to get yourself more worried, congrats and try to enjoy mothers day x

xstitch · 03/04/2011 08:23

Got myslef a bit worried this morning. Couldn't resist testing again. Used a CB and the result came up fast and darker than yesterday. Then used cheapy in same urine and it is so faint almost looks negative. So tried another cheapy out another box (had bought 2 boxes of 3) and it is definitely positive although not that dark Confused. I guess the CB is more reliable and 2 out 3 positive is good. Guess I am going to end up looking for a shop today.

goingmadtrying · 03/04/2011 00:15

Congrats xstitch

Just wanted to say "happy mothers day " to all you lovely ladies and a good luck to everyone due to test today :)

xstitch · 02/04/2011 23:49

Ladies I need your advice. My mum is taking us to Drayton Manor next week. I don't want to tell her yet so what can I go on so that I have a nice day, don't make it too obvious but don't do anything risky?

weimy · 02/04/2011 22:47

I'm back from the conference! So many pages to catch up on!

congrats popsy, LB, Xstitch!

Sorry about BFNs :(

xxx

sevendwarves · 02/04/2011 21:31

Congratulations xstitch!!!!

thinking glad you've got an appointment with the specialist. Hopefully they'll get it removed nice and quickly and you can get back to ttc. Let us know how you get on.

I feel so much better for trying to relax during the 2ww after my nightmare with Internet cheapies. And actually the 2ww seems to be going much quicker!

xstitch · 02/04/2011 20:16

Ok I am now functioning a little, sent DP a pic by text, couldn't wait til tomorrow. Here's the stats.

Blushingm TTC #3 cycle 1 UCL 28-32 AF due 14-18 March
Daiso TTC #1 cycle 1 UCL 28 AF due 16 March - BFP
XNickyPX TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL 28-29 AF due 19-20 - BFP
Shelbury TTC #3 cycle 3 UCL 27 AF due 23 March - BFP
Donkir TTC #2 cycle 6 UCL 26 AF due 26 March
Iggly TTC #2 cycle 3 UCL 29-31 AF due 26 March - BFP
iknowanoldlady TTC #2 cycle 2 UCL 24-25 AF due 26 March - BFP
Thinking11 TTC #1 cycle 3 UCL 25 AF due 27 March
Googietheegg TTC #1 cycle 2 UCL 29 AF due 27 March - BFP
LondonGirly TTC #1 cycle 1 UCL 32 AF due 28 March - BFP
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC #2 Cycle 7 UCL 35 AF due 28 March
ThePippy TTC #2 cycle 3 UCL 24 - 26 AF due 28 March - BFP
MollyDefoe TTC #1 cycle 1 UCL 31 AF due 28 March
Nell799 TTC #1 cycle 2 UCL 35 AF due 28 March (MC Jan) - BFP
goingmadtrying TTC #3 cycle 4 UCL 28-29 AF due 29 March
PopsyWind TTC #2 cycle 3 UCL 28-32 AF due 30 March - BFP
rew108 TTC #2 cycle 1 UCL - AF due 30 March - BFP
75Sarah TTC #1 cycle 2 UCL 27-28 AF due 30-31 March
MrsMcJnr TTC #3 cycle 3 UCL 28 AF due 31 March
Poppyjen TTC #2 cycle 1 UCL - AF due 31 March
Boogiesbunny TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 28 due 1st April
WaitingforStork TTC #1 cycle 2 UCL 28 AF due 2 April
Pink13 TTC #1 cycle 2 UCL 30 AF due 2 April
MaybebabyR TTC #1 cycle 2 UCL 35 AF due 3 April
xstitch TTC #2 cycle 4 UCL 30-31 AF due 4 April - BFP
emmaloupolman TTC #2 cycle 19 ucl 29-32 AF due 4 April
Tanif TTC #1 cycle 2 UCL 28 AF due 5 April
Sevendwarves TTC #2 cycle 4 UCL 33 AF due 5 April
LB1982 TTC #1 cycle 1 UCL 29-31 AF due 5 April
Mermummy TTC #2 cycle 4 UCL 27-29 AF due 7 April
Caramelgirl TTC #2 cycle 4 UCL 26 AF due 7 April
wiglovessheep TTC #1 cycle 1 UCL ? AF due 8 April
BlueCrane TTC #1 cycle 3 UCL 35 - 37 AF due 8-9 April (NB on hols 2-9th April)
dollysgirl TTC #2 cycle 14 UCL 25-30 AF due 12 April (ish)
TheCake TTC #1 cycle 4 UCL 28-33 AF due 14 April (ish)
Orangehead TTC #3 cycle 3 UCL 25-28 AF due 15 April (ish)
Karbea TTC #1 cycle 6 UCL 22 - 26 AF due 16 April
scuffle TTC#1 cycle2 UCL 27-29 days AF due 16 April
Olismum TTC #2 cycle 1 (post m/c) UCL 30-31 AF due 17 April
BabyBorn TTC #2 cycle 3 UCL 31 AF due 18 April
Peapop TTC #1 cycle 2 UCL 28-32? AF due 18-22 April
Whitegold TTC #1 cycle 2 UCL 30 AF due 19 April
Cookiemonster100 TTC #1 cycle 7 UCL 28 AF due 20 April
spidookly TTC #3 cycle 3 UCL 28 AF due 20 April
vegasmum TTC #3 cycle 1 (post mc) UCL 28-30 AF due 20 April (ish)
Sassymk TTC #2 cycle 2 UCL 28-29 AF due 21 April
Weimy TTC #1 cycle 5 UCL 28 AF due 21 April (ish)
LivinInTheMoment TTC #1 cycle 3 UCL 28 AF due 21 April
MickyLee TTC#3 cycle2 UCL28 AF due 22nd April