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TTC after a miscarriage. Good Swimmers & Sticky Baby Dust a Must!!!!

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maddyd · 22/10/2005 10:08

May this be a lucky lucky thread for us all. xxxx

Diddle & Lottie and Humphreys corner, leave your baby dust before exiting this thread please.

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Diddle · 24/10/2005 08:25

morning maddyd - when are you away again??

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maddyd · 24/10/2005 08:23

Morning Diddle

Lottielou how are you, has the bleeding stopped yet. I sincerley hope your ok, thats you and Diddle who have had bleeds now and Diddles ok so hopefully you will be. I know wed is only two days away but it will feel like forever for you. I dont know what to say as i said to Diddle i wont say dont worry cos your bound too after what youve been through. Just take care and try and take it easy for a day or too. xxxxxxxx

Im gonna test today anyway when the post comes. I dont know why i am but my temps are high and i have theese stretchy pains like before. Im not holding out much hope as we havnt bd'd much since the mc.

Hc how are you doing this morning? Cramps are normal but just not reasurring are they?

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Diddle · 24/10/2005 07:33

morning ladies

Coathanger · 23/10/2005 22:15

HC, hun, I've posted for you on the other thread. Hope you're okay XXXX

Off to bed now so take care XXX

HumphreysCorner · 23/10/2005 20:58

Lottielou-do hope everything is OK. This PG business is 'orrible. I can't remember having all the shooting crampy pains that I'm having so early on last time-I'm only 4 weeks so don't think I'm even going to see 5 weeks. Like you I've been on the antenatal thread and think i've jinxed everything. Fingers and toes crossed for all of us. Thinking of you hun ((xx))

Off to bed to rest and hope the pains have gone by the morning.

Night night all.

xxx

P.S. Did anyone watch Afterlife last night as I just didn't get it?

Coathanger · 23/10/2005 20:21

CRIKEY! You lot can jabber - even for a weekend!

Don't have much time today, but will catch up with everything tomorrow. Hope you all get a good nights sleep and have pleasant dreams.

Love to all XXX

Lottielou · 23/10/2005 20:01

thanks hun!
DP said that we could go for a private scan tomo but i'm feeling so negative i would hate to go and pay 50 quid to be told that there is no baby. iykwim? i know it sounds negative and i really am trying but the way i see it, i dont even want to know. I could walk away on weds knowing that there is no baby growing inside me, i dont want to pay to find out.

How are you today? x

mygirllolipop · 23/10/2005 19:52

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Lottielou · 23/10/2005 19:35

Evening Ladies!
Love the name of the thread Maddyd!
Hope everyone is doing ok? x
Well i've had an awful weekend!
woke up yesterday morning and had a show of blood absolutely crapped myself. Went straight to the hospital as they said if i have any sign of a bleed to go straight back there cos of what happened week before last with the pains and cysts. They couldn't do much apart from try and reassure me, as i knew they would - i just went with the hope that they would do something more!
So i now have to wait until weds for my scan to check if the pregnancy is progressing. As on my scan last thursday they couldn't see any sign of a heart beat, perhaps it's cos i have my dates wrong with my irregular periods. Who knows, i hope so but i just keep thinking the worst.

So if it's ok with everyone i will be sticking around for a while, i dont want to stray from the comfort of this thread. I have posted once on the June thread but not venturing back there for a while. x

tons of love to everyone

xxx

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maddyd · 23/10/2005 19:08

Right back at ya . x.x

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wannabump2006 · 23/10/2005 19:06

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maddyd · 23/10/2005 19:05

Shelly it will be so hard going back to work. Maybe not the fact of the kiddies but the co workers is what i found most difficult. They all know whats happened but dont know what to say. I felt like a leper when i went back in the oofice as everyone avoided eye contact with me. Its not thier fault. Its only now i can say toothers how sorry i am for them and thier loss.

Get through the first week and you will be fine and we will be here rooting for you.

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wannabump2006 · 23/10/2005 18:43

thanx mygirl.x
I'm hoping it will get easier with time,and i know i'll get lots of suport on here,so i'll be ok.x
off to do some xmas internet shopping,love to all,shelley.x

mygirllolipop · 23/10/2005 18:15

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wannabump2006 · 23/10/2005 18:07

i'm back properly on the 1st of nov,part time tues to thurs....am really nervous about it all!!
Have been trying to pop in during the week for an hour or so 2/3 times a week to try and get used to it again...i've been really emotional over it all and have been really anxious!Its just such a big thing for me and sometimes i think i'm mad to be going back into chldcare after everything,but its what i know and am good at,so i guess i can only go back and take it a day at a time,see what happens!?.x
Its not going to be easy though!.x

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maddyd · 23/10/2005 18:04

Gotto go watch playing it straight. I Love that programme and always get it wrong.

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maddyd · 23/10/2005 18:02

Shelly lets hope we both get pg soon so we can get each other through it.
Are you back at work now?

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wannabump2006 · 23/10/2005 17:54

I'm excited for you!!.xIt sounds fantastic,a whole new chapter in your life,as mr and mrs.x.x
Lets hope it brings you lots of happiness and the baby you deserve(i've got a feeling your come back preggers you know!.x.x

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maddyd · 23/10/2005 17:36

Hiya Shells and Mygirl. My last mc was oly 2nd of October so very early yet, i dont think an af would be due till next Fri. I wanted to try starting straight away as i dint find it as traumatic this time round as was so early. o fcourse its very sad but moping wont get me pg will it I wont trust another pg defiantley but i still want to try again.

Wedding plans are going great thanks, am very excited. xxxx

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mygirllolipop · 23/10/2005 16:59

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wannabump2006 · 23/10/2005 16:45

I'm good mads thanx,its been roughly 5 weeks since miscarriage,so not too bad i guess!?Was wondering when it would show because heard so many different stories about some people having to wait months for their bodies to return to normal,so atleast thats something good in my case.x
Have you been trying again since your m/c?Your braver than me if you have.xI'm so scared of things going wrong again...its kinda put me off abit,but not that i'm gonna leave it for ages,just 2 cycles and then we'll try...fortunatly i've fell preg quite quickly both times previously(touch wood!)so hoping thats the case next time too!
how longs it been for you mads since your m/c?and hows the weding plans going?.x

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maddyd · 23/10/2005 14:58

Hiya Hc, ive had theese since a couple days past ov. Time will tell i supose, and its just like last time as i was worried about them. Justified for me of course, but ive heard lower ab pain in early pregnancy is a good sign as its the embryo getting embedded. Hope you are looking after your self?????

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HumphreysCorner · 23/10/2005 14:50

maddyd-I always get AF cramps at least a week before AF so never know if it is AF arriving or PG symptons but this time these pains started 2 weeks before AF was due but also had lower backache which of course led to a BFP. Fingers crossed hun.

DH calling so better go, he wants me to lift some things into the loft-hope they are not too heavy!

Byee

xxx

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maddyd · 23/10/2005 14:48

Ahh Shelly, how are you. Thats fab about af. How long did it take from the mc?

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