TTC after a miscarriage. Good Swimmers & Sticky Baby Dust a Must!!!!

where are you all? I@m bored. Come talk to me!

well scrap that question. AF is here.....with avengance

My cramps are back big style and bleeding really heavy (TMI SORRY) I want to go home now and snuggle up in bed with my hot water bottle! This is how is used to be before I went on the pill.

I was really hoping I would be this month as well as we've had to agree on putting ttcing behind us for a while if we're getting a house because we can only afford the repayments if we're both working so until DF gets a better job I have to keep working.

I'm kinda ok with this as I'd prefer to raise my child in a home and not a flat (or council house as was suggested by my parents) but at the same time I'm really angry about having to put it on hold again but needs must.

morning spub

dont think it was. WAY TOO HEAVY and loads of pain with it

Mums - implantation bleed???

Morning Ladies.

CH - so sorry to hear about your BFN but its not the end yet. u may still be until af shows (if she shows) I hope u get your BFP.
Sorry I worried you as well.

I'm glad to hear you seem to have had a nice weekend.

I'm very confused by my body at the mo. Was dead excited all weekend as I had really big pg symptoms BIG sore boobs, a metal/blood taste in my mouth. Then Sun afternoon I had AF, woke up this morning and its gone again. WHAT THE HELL?

Also sorry about the BFN's.
CH - how are you?

Hi Gang!
Happy halloween. Hope you are all having an ok time?
We had a truly crap weekend with poor wee dd who has an anal fissure and the most awful broken skin on her bum. Much to-ing and fro-ing to Docs and NHS 24......
Hopefully, things improving now. DH is at home with her - feeding her sweeties and letting her watch Disney vids. Anything to keep her happy!

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Oh ch, I hadn't realised you were trying. Am going to go back through the thread properly and catch. I'm sooo sorry honey.

Wills- bfn= big fat negative (test result).
Ch- I've had it already, finished a week ago but feel like I'm due again. Have fun xx

Coathanger. What is bfn? You sounded really upset/disappointed but I'm not sure what it is?

Going out now to do a bit of shopping. Will be back about lunchtime,

Have a nice morning!

Mumswish - where are you this morning? Bit worried.....

Ooops sorry HK - cross post!!

Happy Halloween to to you too

So AF hasn't shown yet....hmmmm. What signs are you having that she is coming?

Where is everyone this morning? We've usually heard from HK and HC by this time in the morning. MAybe MAddyd, and Spub too.

Where are you all????

Morning all.
Happy Samhain!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! {Halloween)
How's everyone this morning?
Sore here. Keep checking to see whether or not af's showed her face.

Yeah, we'll see how things pan out, Diddle.

Coathanger - So sorry about your BFN, please don't give up hope, this might not be your last chance, you never know what the future holds, maybe having a break from it and not thinking about it, will relax your body and let that little baby cling on

Good morning everyone!

I can't believe I'm the first to post today. I am normally a late comer in the week! Where are you all????

Mumswish - did you test at the weekend? Or did AF arrive?

Hi Wills! Its good to hear from you. I'm sure the pain is just growing and stretching. At 11 weeks your uterus should be beginning to grow out of your pelvis and be pushing things out of the way, so it is probably that you are feeling. You sound like me though, I worry about not having anything to worry about! Hope everything continues to go well XX

So, where has everyone been this weekend? Its been very quiet, even for a weekend. Have you all been up to fabby things? Hope you will all be around tomorrow for me to chat to. I've been very bored and lonely (boo-hoo!! Sob!)

Found you peepee. Wanted to ask if you'd ever been tested to see if you're allergic to your dh's sperm? My cousin had a series of miscarriages but as she worked as a nurse at Kings Hospital she found out about a new piece of research that showed that some women are allergic. They got themselves onto a trial run which basically de-sensitised her to him (for an unknown period) which would allow the featus to implant and settle to a point where it would no longer be rejected by mum. After 7 miscarriages she now has a 2 year old girl and a 3 month old baby boy. Was just wondering if anyone had offered this test to you?

Maddyd - I'm sorry, I hadn't seen you go from the other thread at all. I've not been on mumsnet enough - really really sorry.

To everyone else. Hi all, am now 11 weeks but having nasty twinges on rhs so am worried. But as dh has correctly pointed out... I worry if I have twinges/pain and I worry if I don't. Still its nice to know there's such a lovely group to come back to if it goes wrong cos I'm really going to need picking up. Carry on BDing everyone!

Hey all.

Thanks Spub, I'm doing ok thanks, I seem to be over analysing every twinge at the moment and I'm not even pg! But I've decided to stop trying to stop myself being a little obsessed and just accept that it's natural. Should be oving today but my persona machine hasn't given me the ov sign so who knows what's going on!

How are you doing anyway Spub, keeping extra specially well I hope?

Maddyd, when is the big day? And when are you off on Honeymoon?

Maddyd:that makes perfect sence hunny!I'm so pleased your af arrived and you can now concentrate on your hen night(have a GREAT time by the way!),and jetting off for your wedding safe in the knowledge that you know exactly where you are in your cycle and you can really enjoy your time away!.x
I really hope you come back with good news
When do you go,and when do you come back mads?will be thinking of you,and keeping everything crossed for you too!!.xshelley.x

Morning all!

I hope its as sunny where you are as it is here in Kent!

Maddyd -I am so glad AF has worked out well. You are right about the BDing on honeymoon - you get so caught up in the reason for BDing that sometimes you forget you should be enjoying it. On holiday it will be back to the fun of it! XXX

Spub - Hi! How ya doing? I Still have a eeny-weeny bit of hope. I'm waiting for Tuesday to see what AF does. XXX

I didn't think I was too upset by the bfn yesterday, but as it happens I was. The whole business abouthis being my last chance got a bit too much to bare. AND everyone in town, when I went shoppnig yesterday, seemed to have new babies. It all got too much.
I just can't believe my bad luck. I really think someone has got it in for me...