TTC after a miscarriage. Good Swimmers & Sticky Baby Dust a Must!!!!

right you lot, lest get you all smiling again.

CH and Hellkat - you are officially not allowed to go anywhere at all, thats not right. i'm crying writing this, you guys have been such a support to me over the last few months, i don't want you to go, i want you to stay, and if you're not ttc then it doesn't matter!!!!

Please stay x x x

Happy birthday to DS1

Can you not get yourself checked out? Is there nothing can be done to check for you? I dont know what if anything I'm trying to say. I just hope its still implantation bleed. Are you still bleeding?

I think we need hugs all round here...........

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DD didn't cry for the first time this morning and asked to go in the room with the other children-result! I did mention about her sat on her own but they seemed to think she was still poorly so I'm sticking with it.

DH has still got a cob on about me losing it on Tuesday night. Have done spag bol this morning as I want it anyway tonight.

It will be really sad if some of you leave this thread-I know that (hopefully) I will leave one day but will always follow this thread.

Coathanger-my 10iul only picked up a feint BFP 3 days before AF was due. It sounds really bad about your DH if fertility is affected before any treatment. ((xx))

HellKat-please don't give up hope. I too was dreading not being PG by my due date 13th Dec and I still might not be by then so I really feel for you hun. ((xx))

Love to all.

Byee for now.

xxx

well ladies not looking good i done a test this morning and the line is barely there it was faint yesterday but today its even worse i wont be posting much today as its my ds1 3rd bday just thought i would let you all know

yeh, they've put me down as ready for promotion should the position arrise?! he he

I'm working all day, but then hopefully I'm gonna go home have a soak in the bath and watch "mean girls" on telly. I'm sure DF has other ideas but tough doodies!

Moping, and more moping. Getting depressed, then I think I might do some more moping.....

How about you? Did your assessment go okay yesterday?

of course thats what it is!! LOL

what you upto today CH?

NO!! I've got it!! They were invented by a man, because they had to prove to us women that their cold was worse!! They have to have a mansize because their cold is "mansize"!! Bloody wimps!

well for some reason they think that makes them sound macho for when men have colds they can reach for the mansize (macho) tissues, but they still have wimpy behaviour with colds. Maybe its to counteract they're behaviour?! They're allowed to be all girly and wimpy about they're cold if they've got "mansize" tissues?

Why have "man size" tissues?? Whats that all about?

mmmmm man-size kleenex.

You suceeded HK - you made me giggle

Ohh Mums, you mean the stuff that chaffs your rear?

hehe! no, its okay, have some now! nice soft kleenex! Man size! mmmmmm......

erm.... I can go get you clean toilet roll but its the cheap rough stuff! lol

Hmmm, nah thanks! don't want a cold as well!

I've got snotty toilet roll (Think I'm getting DF's Cold) any use?

No need to say your sorry, nobody's fault, just one of those things.

Sorry , does any one have a tissue?

I dont know what else to say CH I'm really sorry. (((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))

No good freezing his swimmers - the damage will have already been done. I don't hold out any hope. I will stay around til AF is due and let you know if she arrives, but after that I might go.

HK - I emailed you whilst you posted so you ave answered my question already. Get in touch it would be nice to chat. XX

CH- How could I lurk without responding to that. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
I know exactly how you feel. Was'nt going to say but we've all but given up ttc. i was thinking of leaving this thread but decided to lurk instead. With all the "issues" going on with my body, the fact that I'm now the only one from the Due in Nov thread not to have conceived and with my due date next saturday (5th) it all became too much.
Hunny I so hope you are pg, keep on trucking girlie! You can do it! if any of us can, it's you! I'm always here for you hun! Loves ya xxxxxxxxxx

oh CH - Dont worry about bringing a downer on stuff, you've as much right as anyone else to tell us how they're feeling, whether its good or bad, thats what we're here for.

You dont have to go, just cos you're not TTC unless you want to go.

I'm not gonna ask for any more details only this, have you spoke to him about it, can you not freeze some of them for now and use later if you both agree?

Well, I think I might need some moral support here and plenty of tissues I am feeling really down now. I am 100% convinced I am not pG. And if that is the case, this month is my last chance. DH has got a medical condition which will probably render him infertile (can't go into detail as I promised I wouldn't on here) so my chance of ever having another baby have pretty much gone. He still wasn't keen so I think he is quite pleased he can't have any more.

I kind of feel numb today. I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to leave you all but as there is no chance of conceiving, what right have I got to be here.

And as far as testing goes, I won't be testing on Saturday. If AF is late then I might test, but we'll see, coz I just know AF will be here when she is due.

Sorry to bring a downer on today already...