Morning ladies. Firstly, apologies that I've gone quiet. The last few days up to AF was really stressing me out so I decided to lurk but not post until I had news, good or bad.
Well.......um......I got bfp this morning!!!
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My temps have been all over the place this cycle and ff thought I ov on cd 19 and so today is dpo 14 (my LP is 11 or 12). If I ov on cd 22 (possibly as the spike on that day is due to a massive drinkathon 
) I am dpo 11 today.
Anyway, my temps had dropped in the past few days but then soared yesterday so I POAS. Negative but there was a faint line after 20mins - assumed it must be an evaporation line as it was clear.
Today temps down but not below coverline, so I POAS again and a faint pink line appeared within a few mins. So, I guess I'm pg!
Can't believe it (and trying not to get hopes up in case it's not a keeper). Going to buy some digital tests today.
DP went a bit quiet - he was like this with DD - pleased but he worries about money (me too - god knows how we'll afford 2 nursery places!!).
I won't disappear ladies, I know how truly awful it is to get AF every cycle and wishing you all the very best of luck.
It took us a year to conceive DD without charting and 6 months of properly trying with charting to conceive No 2 (I hope - fingers crossed for sticky bean!)
The only thing I did differently this cycle was relax, get away for a bit, get a baby sitter in and shared a bottle or two of wine with DP at a nice restaurant. Plus managed to swi while DD slept in the next bed in the hotel room!!! So, all in all a real family affair.
I have to say though that acupuncture has really helped me to relax.