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2 MISCARRIAGES AT 42yrs!!!!!!!!!!

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jeddah · 18/10/2005 18:56

I don't know if people remember me but I am JEDDAH and after TTC for nearly 2 years now I have just had 2 miscarriages, 1 in July at 6wks and 1 yesterday at 5.5wks.

I am in total shock that it happened twice .....I was almost relieved to have the 1st one as I know it is so common and I had got it out of the way!...but to have a seond miscarriage 3 months later....

Has anyone ever had this and then successfully got pregnant, I just need to hear something positive to spur me on.

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spidermama · 18/10/2005 20:10

My friend, who's 40, had three miscarriages in a row (two of them within a year of each other) then got pg again and has a little girl.

Sorry for your losses and good luck.

SirFurmum · 18/10/2005 20:08

Hi Jeddah. So sorry to hear this is happening. I started trying to conceive at 40, had 2 mcs at 9 weeks and 5 weeks. After the 2nd one I got pg again almost immediately. Thought I was losing the 3rd one too, but I didn't and went on to have dd. Hang on in there.

munz · 18/10/2005 20:03

gonna keep bumping up for u honney if u don't mind - I think there's a fair few 'old duffers' on the ttc after m/c thread - those girls are all v supportive of each other - there even a few who arn't trying if you want to wander over.

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jeddah · 18/10/2005 19:20

Thanks Debbs are you an old duffer like me?? or are you a young chick??

How many weeks did you miscarry at, if you dont mind me asking?

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Debbsywillgetherbeanie · 18/10/2005 19:06

Jeddah i remember you so sorry you will get there i had a mc in jan and may but i will get pg we all will just taking a little longer thats all #good luck to you and be positive

munz · 18/10/2005 19:04

((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))

I know your probably wondering if there's a god (I've done it for u over the past day as well), and there honestly is nothing I can say to make u feel any better - as u know u'll have good days you'll have bad days, but remeber that there's always hope and a little ray of sunshine.

as always i'll keep hoping and praying for you both, and honestly hope things improve from here. (((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))

oops · 18/10/2005 19:01

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jeddah · 18/10/2005 19:01

AH!!!!!!! my old friend Munz!

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munz · 18/10/2005 18:59

oh honney (((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))) no support to offer on here I can't via email - but want u to know as always I'm thinking of u and DH. life's jsut so unfair.

take care of you.

(munnzieb)