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Freak out room for those newly updiffed after MC to hold hands and support each other...

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YourFriendBrian · 18/02/2011 08:35

Hello!

Newly updiffed and freaking out about spotting, cramping, the wait until your first scan and each little twinge? Settle in for lots of hand holding and supprt until you're ready to move to grads.

Lots of love
Brian x

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digitalgirl · 24/02/2011 22:46

Poor teacake Sad can you take some paracetemol and ibuprofen and a hot water bottle to bed? I'm so so sorry this is happening to you again.

Happy for dachs and mummya

My subtle symptoms have returned this evening so I'm going to bed a little more reassured. My acupuncturist, bless him, told me most unscientifically that I 'looked pregnant' and even though he knew that was no guarantee he could tell my body was doing it's best so far to sustain the pregnancy.

OrangeGloss · 24/02/2011 22:43

Oh Tunnocks I am so sorry to hear that. It really is so unfair. Don't worry at all about scaring us or posting, come here as much or as little as you need to, and we'll be here to talk or just listen xxxxx

tunnocksteacake · 24/02/2011 22:25

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nickstermum · 24/02/2011 21:38

Gah supposed to say like jolls said! Doh

Pink yes I think I must be reading your thoughts... Or maybe that's just exactly how I feel! Irritable and ratty as hell because I'm knackered and overtired!

nickstermum · 24/02/2011 21:36

Teacake... Are you ok my lovely? Is it easing at all?
Like jolls, no one knows your body like you do but I hope you are wrongxx

I truly hope that xx

Velvetcu · 24/02/2011 21:30

:( tunnocks I wish there was something I could do to help. It's awful that you are now reminded of you previous bad experience too :(

As the others have said, post on here whatever you need to. Yes it is scary but we are all too aware of how fragile a pregnancy is and how much you need support right now.

nickstermum · 24/02/2011 21:28

Good stuff dachs x

Mummy and Teacake - everything crossed for you both xx

CEp congrats x

lovemysleep · 24/02/2011 21:25

just a quickie to send a big hug to teacake - am hoping for a big miracle too, and that everything will be ok - thinking of you xxx

mummy sounds promising - big sigh of relief here x

Dachs glad to hear that the consultant thinks everything is fine - sounds lovely too.x

Scary and sad day on here - been a few tears shed, and my heart goes out to everyone who has had a bad day.....

mummyabroad · 24/02/2011 21:14

teacake if you get the bloods done twice, usually a couple of days apart you can tell whether the pregnancy is still viable or not. There is a lot of info here

randomimposter · 24/02/2011 20:53

bollocks what a nightmare rollercoaster this quest for a baby is... :(

In no partic order phew for DDD, and what a worry for mummyA, and teacake words fail me, am so sad for you. Hope you're wrong, but you know your body best.

Special squeeze for bee today and a large Wine too.

mamapower · 24/02/2011 20:51

teacake I wish I could be there in RL to take your hand, take care my lovely xxxx

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mrsrobinredbreast · 24/02/2011 20:41

Oh teacake, no. I am sorry to hear that. Take it easy tonight and get as much rest as you can. Mummya's suggestion to visit the GP for bloods is a good one.

Please don't be sorry for posting on here. That is what we are all here for, please post away.

Thinking of you.

mousebacon · 24/02/2011 20:40

Oh teacake I'm so, so sorry. I totally understand not wanting to go to the epu. I don't want to worry you at all but if the pain seems one sided or you start to feel sick or dizzy please seek help and get it checked out.

I hope you're getting lots of support in rl too. Keep posting. We've all been there and will support you as much as we can.

(((hug)))

mummyabroad · 24/02/2011 20:35

teacake dont worry about scaring us, in fact please use this thread for as much support as you need right now. I can understand wanting to avoid the EPU if you had a bad experience last time. Whats your GP like? Do you think they might offer you blood tests to see what your HCG level is? You can tell a lot from that at the stage you are at. Hope you have someone with you in RL to hold your hand. Big hug, and dont feel shy about posting on here if it helps xxx

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mousebacon · 24/02/2011 20:19

So sorry teacake I think i'd still try and see the epu tomorrow just for answers before the weekend - is there any way you can do that?

I lost my two babies within 4 months of each other (oct and jan) so I do know your heartache. I really hope it's not what you think Sad

Lots of love xxx

mamapower · 24/02/2011 20:14

oh no teacake Sad I am so sorry. Rest as much as possible tonight, and would advice GP or EPAU first thing. Big big (((hugs)))

lemonsherbet · 24/02/2011 20:06

Teacake am thinking of you.

mummyabroad · 24/02/2011 19:42

banana yes, sorry forgot to post results on here. It was 59.1 Over 30 = definitely diffed, for now anyway... I am 13DPO and last month got AF on 14DPO. I am going to get more bloods tommorrow morning so at least I dont have to do too much waiting and wondering. (done my fair share of that and I hate it)

KnitterNotTwitter · 24/02/2011 19:39

Tunnocks fingers crossed it's just a little AF-time bleed and nothing pregnancy related... hope hope hope.

Dachs Really relieved to hear your news

MummyA Glad to hear your news too.

banana87 · 24/02/2011 19:36

Thinking of you teacake

Mummy what were your blood results yesterday? Did they confirm??

Velvetcu · 24/02/2011 19:33

tunnocks sorry to hear that you aren't doing too well. Can you get to a dr soon? Thinking of you

mummyabroad · 24/02/2011 19:33

Forgot to say to Dach very Grin for you.