We're not cheap but sore bits are on special this week.

Oh Lou, roll on March! Good Luck, I hope you manage to keep from applying a pan to your mums anatomy for the next 3 weeks! Is your bro local to you?

FairyG I hope the anti-bi's work quickly for you (and that you find a less clueless gp!)

I went to see the midwife counsellor this morning, cried (a lot) and she was really nice, I do feel much better for having said some stuff and she told me that it is all normal. I know you lot all told me that, but it is nice for a medical professional to confirm it, she also suggested to ask the specialist to do a blood test for egg quality, apparently that is possible, so I will find out if all my eggs are duff or just the one that got up-duffed last year. So back we go!

So thank you for giving me the shove I needed to get myself down to see her.

Odd how much better I do feel, just having a chat with someone who says I am normal! (obviously she doesn't know me that well )

Oh and rtd today so I'm out for this month.

She should be out by the end of the month.

Omg Lou that's awful!! Is she staying temporarily? Can she go to your brothers to give you a break? I think you deserve a medal...

Fairy how're you feeling today??

I'm on tenterhooks waiting for dh to go down for surgery. I had to drop him off at 7.30am, crazy!

On another note my mum told me that she felt sorry for DS that I was his mother. If it was up to me she would not be living in my house. Even if she had no where to live I would chuck her onto the streets. DH is going have a word when he is back later. Have told my bro as well.

Fairy I think your doc sounds clueless to me. Maybe its something to do with the drugs you are on??

So how does he know you have an infection??! And it you do, sure different types of bacteria require a different type of treatment.

Can you see someone else?

Well it's decided - we're just seeing what's going to happen.

I am a chav too, I've had thrush . Blaming the antib's after my infection.

I've got a stupid cold lingering in the back ground iykwim. I wish it would either go, or just come out!!

I'm not poas stick. I don't have any prg tests in the house for the first time since June....

We're just going for it - what will be will be. I'm not farting around with contraception when I want to be prg!

Be back later, just cooking dinner .

It worked for me!

After my erpc in nov, we just got on to it!
I didnt have AF so tested about a week after I thought I should be due, got a neg , tested the next wk got a BFP. So dating was hard but hey thats what scans are for!

If you're up to it go for it.

My hosp said just carry on swi after mmc, if I felt like I wanted too, or take a break if I wanted to. We carried on and still no bfp (do feel very pre-rtd now though) The rate we are going I will never have to worry about birth control ever again.

There was a report about more bfps the month immediately after mc than other months, but that was maybe connected to squeshies horny feeling!!!!

Pants I'm up north so too far away to take you up on your offer. I waited for rtd after my mmc before trying again even though doctor told me to wait 3 to 6 months. Only waited because I wasn't ready in my own head to try again.

Fairy I never ever managed 7! The most was 3 and that was a really good month for us, now my bits are sore and I can't imagine ever doing it again.

Hope you had a good weekend Squeshy.

Lol @ sw7, go chavette!

Go and find some Reiki, it's good stuff. Can make you very emotional the first time or two though. More if you have ishoooos.

So... those of you that have had mc's, did you start swi'ing straight away or wait for first RTD. There's a post on mmc board, and I'm wondering if I've jumped the gun. Tbh birth control was something I hadn't even thought about!!!

Ever tried cherry lambrini and vodka?? Very yummy, but totally lethal. Tastes like pop!!Tres chavvy.

Lemony - my very best recommendation would be for Reiki. Not in Hampshire by any chance are you? Could treat you myself then. Second would be kinesiolgy, which is just the best, but can be pricey.

My dh has no sinus cavities in his forehead which just exacerbates the problems! I'm quite glad because otherwise he'd be having very major surgery to knock them into one cavity . The aim is just to minimise the time between ops now, hence the work on the size of the cavities, and he's on constant medication to try to reduce the polyps that way. He's knackered really.... lol.

Seriously, I'm terrified!! I just feel that nothings gone right: dd had flu just before and on Christmas Day, then I came down with it 2 days later (blaming this for mmc), then dh got it, on NYE our little cat was run over and killed, then just when we thought things were getting better the mmc. Can't seem to see anything good at the moment. I'm really hoping they postpone it as he's just getting over a cold, plus has a cold sore. I know I'm being daft, but totally terrified...

Sorry, another me, me, me rant .

Hello :)

Away for a weekend and we've moved! Hope we are all okay?

Rubbish about feeling blue, and about sinusitus (I have small ear canals so have horrid probs with my sinuses, awful pain!).

Lemony I do hope you're okay, it's hard not to worry about things like that but at least you're aware of it, fairyg is right, this here pit is the best place to share and offload, you've all helped me tons!

FairyG - love the thread name, fingers crossed for a tiny one xxx

For the pit warming I offer cherry lambrini, pink fizz is ever so classy don't ya know?!

Oooh and finally on SW1 for Feb :)

Pants my dh is worried 'i will talk myself into it' because I am so worried about getting it again. Was going to start taking vit b complex and magnesium again ( it helps with my pmt) but not sure if I should because I am breastfeeding. I would be grateful for any of your alternative therapy recommendations.

Hope your dh op goes well.

Amanda Holdens news also made me cry and really grateful for my fussy mini muffin .

Lemony I had pnd with both boys, but not with dd. Be aware, but it doesn't necessarily follow that you will get it. I'm into alternative therapies and have recommendations if you're feeling down.

Thanks fairy! Consultant thinks he has sinusitis 90% of the time, but that his body has got used to it. He does suffer sometimes, but doesn't moan. He says the worst bit is can't taste or smell much! Unless on mega steroids which isn't ideal.

I'm ok today as busy again, but did have a sob over Amanda Holden's terrible news .

Leopard print thongs and Pouffees! I like to match.

Fairy I started the first fred and have now got mini muffin so fingers crossed this is your fred

Big hugs to all you ladies, sorry I mean chavs, I wish I'd had got some help after my mmc but found ranting and crying to dh really helped. He did some crying too which I had never seen him do. It will be two years on mothers day since it happened and I found last year really hard, didn't want to do anything but dd1 gets really excited.

Had a bit of a bad day today, lots of tears and snot, had bad PND with dd1 so terrified of it happening again. Dh been great again and told me it's just because I'm very tired.

I hope you don't mind me hanging around but if you do please say and I will just stalk you all instead with my fingers crossed .