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We're not cheap but sore bits are on special this week.

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Fairygodmother1 · 05/02/2011 09:51

Our new home Chavettes...by starting this thread I hope it's my turn do win a baby Grin

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Fairygodmother1 · 28/05/2012 20:48

I Love you Lou - big snogs!!!! Mr Fairy says he loves the twuntage on here.

Happy Birthday Lou's DD - 1 already!!!!

My imaginary friends are laughing Um. I'm sure it will sort itself out in the end although his Gf has removed me from FB - how mature lol. Thanks for the support - I know they can;t understand but compassion would be nice! It's good I have friends who understand!

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UmBongo · 28/05/2012 01:41

Happy birthday to Lou's dd also

UmBongo · 28/05/2012 01:40

Happy Anniversary to you and your lovely dh Fairy. Sorry your brother is still being self centred(!) Tell him that you are pleased for him and the rest of your imaginary friends say congrats tooGrin I know that will be hard but please don't loose the contact with your brother. They will not understand what you are going through - thats what we are here for! Good luck with the effort of arranging your facial features - I know it isn't easy.

HalleLouja · 27/05/2012 19:56

Tell you brother he is a twunt not very considerate.

Happy wedding anniversary FG and your super fab DH.

DD was one this weekend and has been ill but we have still had a good time.

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Fairygodmother1 · 27/05/2012 09:52

Hey girlies,

Everything was ok till text messages from DB & his GF which were rather nasty. Apparently keeping my head down & not saying anything is totally wrong & my feelings are self centred! So had a good cry this morning as they obviously don't understand.

Apparently 4 1/2 years of trying & mc doesn't mean I shouldn't be happy for other people. Not sure when I said I wasn't happy - I don't remember saying my opinion either way on the matter. Told them to phone me before it all gets blown out of proportion but apparently they'd rather have a row about the fact I never said Congrats. Just seems so petty that I keep my opinions to myself but thats wrong.
So I know to lie in future Angry

Missed Eurovision as was out with DH celebrating Wedding Anniversary!

How is everyone?

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UmBongo · 26/05/2012 20:52

Russia to win eurovision!

HalleLouja · 23/05/2012 09:44

I did for a long long time too 5alive. I made pizzas for the kids and used left over dough for bread.

We are doing a Herman cake now. Yummy.

UmBongo · 22/05/2012 20:29

Home cooking - I think I may have forgotten what that is!

HalleLouja · 22/05/2012 19:54

Mmmm.... pringles. I made some yummy ciabatta bread.

UmBongo · 19/05/2012 22:07

Hope you are doing Ok Fairy, just to offer some more chocolate or Wine if you would prefer. I have pringles too if you want some.

UmBongo · 17/05/2012 21:17

Well done for going into work FairyG and very well done for explaining to friends in rl. I hope your other friends have reappeared for cake/vodka and support. Brownie points to your dh for love and support and dinner.

I've got cheap chocolate off the market - help yourself.

HalleLouja · 16/05/2012 19:51

We live your dh fg. He sounds ace. I live twunt too.

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Fairygodmother1 · 16/05/2012 19:24

Thank you so much girlies!!! I finally stoped crying at about half 1 this morning & went to work with very puffy eyes & said I had a bad cold. Did tell 2 friends at work & they totally sympathised (one has had 2 mc). so felt better then as I had managed to actually voice it (all be it wobbly voice but managed to pull myself together). Was very busy too so that helped.
DH met me from work. He has just cooked a delicious dinner & a bottle of wine [naughty] lol
Not heard from any of my family today & a few friends I thought would have been there for me are AWOL! oh well
Vodka & Wine washing down well!
(loving the word twunt Lou)

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HalleLouja · 16/05/2012 14:00

I am just going to kick your brother in the balls FG. He is being a twunt.

Will also slap you for apologising. We are all still here hand holding and passing you the cheap cider.

UmBongo · 15/05/2012 21:01

Don't worry about offloading onto us - tis what we are for FairyG You can have my vodka too.

Your brother is being a thoughtless twerp. But then sometimes brothers can be! He has probably forgotten your troubles in his excitement/terror! Avoid facebook.

I cried a lot too, don't worry about mixed up feelings - that is only to be expected. Rant away. Some pregnancies I learnt about in private so was able to arrange the facial features as required, and some I was taken by surprise by.

As Lemony said, rant away and a slap for apologising!

Icedlemonmuffin · 15/05/2012 20:19

Big hugs Fairy and a slap for saying sorry about offloading!

You have been through so much and you are still, so you can vent as much as you like.

I completely understand about hating people, especially people who look at a cock and get pregnant. After my mmc I just wanted to slap every women with a bump and I just felt such rage at the unfairness of it all.

I cried so much when yet another person announced they were pregnant and said congratulations through gritted teeth. My poor dh got shouted at a lot and I know it was really hard for him as well.

Fairy all these feelings are normal and ok, so don't get upset about it. You need to let them out and this is the place.

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Fairygodmother1 · 15/05/2012 17:33

Can I have her double & my double????

My brother sent me a text of a scan photo his girlf had done today!!! No warning or anything!!!!!!

Argh!!!! How unfair! He had plenty of chances to give me the heads up, but no! Let me find out through a bloody text! Then plaster it all over facebook FFS!
My feelings are totally irrelivant! Doesn't matter I MC not so long ago!

I'm so upset & then feel bad because I hate them so much. And nobody understands

I'm sorry to offload on you guys!

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HalleLouja · 13/05/2012 21:29

I meant FairyG not Lemony. But she can have some too.

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Fairygodmother1 · 13/05/2012 14:07

I'm sure Lemony won't mind me having some of her double vodka from Lou

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HalleLouja · 13/05/2012 08:49

Bliming phone posting twice.....

HalleLouja · 13/05/2012 08:48

[Passes lemony the extra strong vodka].

HalleLouja · 13/05/2012 08:47

[Passes lemony the extra strong vodka].

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Fairygodmother1 · 13/05/2012 07:35

Apparently there's a good cream you can use in boots but have no idea what it's called - sorry!

Need a bit of a cheer up as have had a very bad night with period pain! Am exhaused already so will be spending most of today in bed trying to control pain & every other symptom including d&v (I don't think I have the ug though just major reaction to pain)!

All I can say is neurofen period pain doesn't work & when I read the label it said it may interfere with fertility (oh great) so once out of my system I'm back on panadol that works!

Hope everyone has a better Sunday than me Brew

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UmBongo · 12/05/2012 20:39

I was hoping for a bit less than 6 weeks Lemony! I am hoping they stop hurting after 2-3 weeks, I think they have been a bit less sore today. I can't remember how long it took with ds. They are not cracked (Thank God, Allah, Buddha and anyone else for Lansinoh) but it does make my eyes cross when she starts!

Sorry to hear about the d&v, sounds hellish, hope you are all better and the laundry heap has subsided!

Sorry for RTD FairyG, at least it didn't keep you waiting this time and enjoy your holidayWink!

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Fairygodmother1 · 12/05/2012 18:39

Sounds terrible Lemony!

Oh well back onto the shagging this month plus should be ovulating about the same time as our holiday!!!!

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