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Exclusive TTCers Club - if yer names not down, you ain't comin' in!

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Coathanger · 11/10/2005 08:05

MORNING!

Thought this would be a nice spot to chat with the TTCers that have been trying for some time. A bit of support for each other and all that!

So, grab a drink, and a barstool, and get chatting.

There's bouncers on the door, so no riff-raff, and the licence is LATE,LATE,LATE!!

Oh and loads of baby dust on tap!!
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maddyd · 16/10/2005 11:34

Yep do that and ill send you all the details. You an treat yourself for the day or evening and you get a flotation included on most packages. Its all on the website actually, but if you book through me i will get discount.

Yes i can use whenever i like but i just dont get or make the time.

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Coathanger · 16/10/2005 11:24

OMG!! Maddy, it gorgeous!!! If I CAT you my address, is it possible to get a brouchure sent to me??? I would love to go there next year! Do you have to be a member to have a Spa Day? Oh, I hope not, I WANT TO GO!!!!

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Coathanger · 16/10/2005 11:17

Sounds fab, Maddy!! Does it mean you get free membership ??

I love visiting spas. Made a vow last year to make sure I do it once a year. Love it! All the pampering and relaxation - Ahhhhhhh! hehe

Will look yours up on internet.....

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maddyd · 16/10/2005 11:11

Ch i work for Nirvana Spa. Look it up on the internet. www.nirvanaspa.co.uk. Its lovely.

Ive been there 7 tears ansd was in Management but since the kids i just do the data inputting as it means i can work from home. Flexiable hours, as long as i do the work i can do it when i want which is fab. My other half is senior mamger there and my oldest dd is a flotation therapist there too/

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Coathanger · 16/10/2005 11:01

Oh, Maddy forgot to say, I went to Walletts Court Hotel and Spa in St margarets near Dover. It is small bu tit done the trick! I went to Brandshatch last year. Can't remember the name of the place but it backed onto the race track! That was a lovely one.

How lovely working for a spa! What do you do?

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HellKat · 16/10/2005 10:25

The nurse is'nt sure. It's been there since before I got pg earlier this year and gone from the size of a pin head to the size of a 20p. Causing loads of pain up inside etc. After smear results come through, I've got to make an appt with the gp then get a referral to the hosp.

HellKat · 16/10/2005 10:22

Yep Hc definitely works, guarenteed lol. I have'nt even bought the test lol so will do later all prepared for the morning. My boobies are still dripping when squeezed. Weird is'nt it?

HumphreysCorner · 16/10/2005 10:19

Morning ladies

Maddyd-how distressing for you all. These things do happen and you just can't do anything about it. Hope she is OK and soon mended. Ooh, just 4 weeks to go. Brings back such memories. ((xx))

HellKat-what do they think the lump is? lol at you bedding and bringing AF on-I swear by that theory as it always works. Tried my hardest to keep DH out last night and it worked thank goodness-just need to be prepared for later as DD going to watch SIL horse jumping and I suspect DH has plans for later. Methinks I will have to confess about testing. My boobs are killing and the squeeze test produces milk really easily. I will be soooooooooo disappointed if I'm not PG this month. Really hope you are though and that the lump disappears. I will be testing at 6-30am as it is up early to get DD to nursery for 8am-can't wait to log on and see how you got on. GOOD LUCK ! ((xx))

Coathanger-early night for you then hun . ((xx))

Right veg to prepare. My diet has been working and my trousers are loads slacker so v.pleased.

Love to everyone and have a good day and I'll catch you all later.

xx

HellKat · 16/10/2005 10:09

Poxy computer lol

HellKat · 16/10/2005 10:08

I tested Friday morning and bfn. That was the day i was due to start. I'm never late either so definitely wondering what's up.
Great idea about your testing!

HellKat · 16/10/2005 10:07

I tested Friday morning and bfn. That was the day i was due to start. I'm never late either so definitely wondering what's up.
Great idea about your testing!

maddyd · 16/10/2005 09:56

4 weeks tomorrow we fly off. Cant wait.

When did you last test Hellkat?

Im going to test the day before my hen night so i know ether i can drink or not. That will be 28 days since the early mc so dont think ill be testing to early.

HellKat · 16/10/2005 09:50

Lol but of course Mad! She needs to be in with the wedding scheme . How long until the big day now?

maddyd · 16/10/2005 09:48

We go back next fri for another x ray and a re cast so will get her a pink one then. (she needs to match the wedding colour scheme)

Hellkat im nervous for you too.

Ch which spa did you got to as i work for one of the major ones???? Just being nosey

HellKat · 16/10/2005 09:43

Ch- So true! if I am obviously I'd be over the moon. Still feel really periody iykwim.
Maddy- Awwwwww. These things happen hun! Hope she feels better soon and hope they gave her a really funky cast!
Terrified about testing. Excited but terrified

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Coathanger · 16/10/2005 09:30

Awww, bless her (your DD) It could n't be helped, just one of those childhood accidents.

I'm well. Doing okay. The spa day helped a lot hehe! Not sure if the anti-depressants are working or if I would have felt better anyway without them. But I'm not complaining, life seems a litle less of a worry for me right now.

Just want to give you this, Maddy, coz I think you deserve it

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maddyd · 16/10/2005 09:26

Heres hoping Coathanger

I pushed dd off a swing. She wanted to go on a big swing but she didnt hold on tight enough and went flying. Literally.

Hows you?

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Coathanger · 16/10/2005 09:21

Morning all!

Hangover well and truly gone now! Just really tired

Maddyd - how did DD's arm get broken? I'm sure you didn't do it, did you? Hope she is okay. And how are you? I read both your posts, on here and on the TTC thread. I hope you are okay, Hun. You could well be OVing, as it was an early MC and you bled for such a short time. My MC was at 7 weeks, but I only bled for a week and I gat my AF 28 days later, so presume I OVed at normal time. So, it is poss that you are OVing. Lots of love to you Maddy XX

HK - ooooo, testing tomorrow?? It will be sod's law though if the one month you could do without being PG you are. But if you are, it will work out okay, I'm sure. Good luck for tomorrow XX

HC - You're testing tomorrow too, aren't you? Good luck to you hunnibun! I hope its the BFP you deserve XX

Morning everyone else. Hope you are all well and feeling fine this morning.

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maddyd · 16/10/2005 07:39

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maddyd · 16/10/2005 07:38

Gppd Luck Hellkat. xxxxx Fingers are so crossed for you.

Havnt been arouund for a few days as i broke DD's ar,. Acccidently of course . But she was at the hospital till 3 in the morning and its taken me a few days to catch up on sleep etc. Yesterday i felt really sick with the tiredness.

As for cycle dats whos knows. Im sure i ovulated a few days ago as all the signs were there but is that really possible so soon after the mc. Anyway as i only bled for 3ish days i thought i would count that as my cycle.

Anyone have any news?

HellKat · 16/10/2005 05:49

Trying not to get excited

HellKat · 16/10/2005 05:45

Morning all!
Af not here still! I should've been on Friday morning. I thought I'd definitely be on on time as I had the smear on Thursday. Bd last night (that normally gets it going and nothing!). Got really bad af pains but nothing there. If I don't come on later then looks like I'll be testing first thing in the morning.
Without going into details, I had a problem when I went for my smear and a lump was detected. So the only time I don't want to be pg (incase it needs any kind of treatment) it looks like I might be. I don't feel pg at all though. Lol put down my jeans getting snug around my middle down to way too much choc!
Hc-Looks like you may have company tomorrow testing!
Ch- Spa day sounds heavenly!!!Glad the hangover eased!
Hope everyone's been having a fab weekend! x

HumphreysCorner · 15/10/2005 22:31

HellKat-are you quite late now? Really hope it is for a reason. If she aint comin to you then she aint comin to me! ((xx))

Coathanger-did you have any raw egg? Mmmmm-lovely-not! ((xx))

peepee-thanks for sharing the babydust-hope you are OK. ((xx))

Diddle-hope you aren't feeling too sick-remember to take it easy ((xx))

Hugs to everyone else. ((xx))

Night night, sleep tight.

xxx

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Coathanger · 15/10/2005 21:44

Evening girls! Well, the hangover has faded to a slight nausea, and I'm very chilled after my spa day. Had a back massage and it was FANTASTIC! It was so gorgeous here today that I actually fellasleep outside in the sunshine, in nothing but my bathrobe!!

HK - I'm sorry AF is beign a b**ch! Silly cow! I hate it when she teases like this. How are you otherwise? XX

Peepee - Hun, I hope you are okay. As Diddle says, your time will come. After readig the "spirit babies" articles, it seems to me that we will all get our babies. I hope its soon for you Peepee. XX And, no I didin't win at bingo And for your bad toe, if you go to A&E and ask for some DuoDerm hydrocolloid dressing, that will draw all the gunk out of the sore. XX

HC - oooo, good luck for Monday hun! Will be here for you when you test! XX

Diddle - good to hear you are taking it a bit easier. Make sure you keep it up. And remember, ositive thoughts XX

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Diddle · 15/10/2005 18:20

peepee - hooray you did it, see its easy when you pinch someone elses

HK - you must be so frustrated with af teasing you like this.