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Freak out room for those newly updiffed after MC to hold hands and support each other...

987 replies

DachshundsWantPuppies · 30/01/2011 08:37

Hello!

Newly updiffed and freaking out about spotting, cramping, the wait until your first scan and each little twinge? Settle in for lots of hand holding and supprt until you're ready to move to grads

OP posts:
mrsrobinredbreast · 17/02/2011 12:31

Thanks for the welcomes. I feel at home so I'll just pop the kettle on. Anyone for a brew?

Knitter, I felt massive at this stage with mmc too, this time not so much and no real symptoms whereas last time I felt dreadful. Keep reminding myself that I didn't really have symptoms with DD either.

MamaP - next Fri will be here before you know it.

Emoo - good luck for scan too. Fanjocam indeed, am sat here giggling to myself.

KnitterNotTwitter · 17/02/2011 12:01

Dachs congratulations - does twins count as a litter of puppies?

Robin welcome - I'm a day behind you (5+3) today

nix your bump sounds lovely :)

Had a scan on my leg today (was tempted to ask if he'd do a 2 for 1 and check where my bean was). Sadly leg is rather buggered - i've torn the junction between the tendon and the muscle apparently - no running for at least 6 more weeks.

Still feeling very paranoid about lack of symptoms. I remember feeling massive at this stage when I was pg with the mmc - I joked with a friend that it must be at least triplets! Only symptoms now are sensitive nips and being tired but unable to sleep deeply. Woke up at 6am this morning after a saucy dream (the sort that I remember getting MUCH later on when pregnant with DS).

Emoo · 17/02/2011 11:08

Oh MamaP X-posts - never mind - you WILL get there next Friday. Big landmark!

Emoo · 17/02/2011 11:02

Aaaaahhhh and finds time to catch up...

Thanks to all for the hugs on Tuesday... I've continued to be a bit wibbly all week, but luckily Tues/Weds at work were so hectic I didn't have much time to think. I'm still getting cramps, but only when I think about them, and I don't know if they are just psychological. I only have to wait until tomorrow morning for my scan, and am hoping I'll not go too insane today. I need to do some major deforestation work at some point, in case it's a fanjocam! Blush Anyone who has had a scan at 7 weeks - what should I expect?

bras - I have given up on these altogether recently - have bought vests with shaped cups in from M&S - they are super-comfy, supportive enough for me (36C), don't show nips, and are long enough to tuck into jeans. here

Robin - welcome - there is always room for one more ! Congratulations on your BFP! Hopefully the hospital were a bit lax on paperwork because they were too busy looking after patients, or it was lost in the mail. I would book where is most convenient for you and not worry about it.

Onions - welcome too! I do get the occasional scratching-related craving (not due to pregnancy though!), but they have decreased considerably in frequency since an upsetting incident a year or so ago when I was in a pub and someone got a nipple, I kid you not. They've not seemed the same since.

MamaP - wow - booking appointment - congrats!

Owl - I am sure the 3 scans are real, and Mr Boots is probably right Grin

Orange - sounds like you've done well to get so far without admitting to many at work - specially as you've been vomity.

Pretty - good luck for your scan tomorrow, and sounds like you are nearly over the worst with the drugs.

Lemon, Wombat and Choccie - thinking of you and sending good luck for scans today, and for your DH Choccie. Wombat, thanks for the Brownie wishes - it was not as painful as I had imagined and a couple of us sat in the back row and gossiped in whispered tones.

Banana - glad you've got to the TTC stage.

Nix - I think that's really sweet (although a bit patronising) to take your bags off you... now if you can only train them to bring over iced buns and tinned mackerel on a tray, you're winning!

Love - hope your back is okay now - is it womb-related or longer-term back probs you're having?

Pink - sorry, had to laugh at you and the jelly babies. I am unfortunate enough to live rather too close to a corner shop, and am now having to fight the urge to go and see if they've got any! I too have bump Envy - I think it must be normal [hopeful emoticon].

Dachs - still grinning from ear to ear on your behalf! Grin

Ladybee - congrats on getting to double figures today! You've had a really emotional week by the sound of it, and I hope you have come out of the other end of it still able to smile.

Digi - glad to hear you've stopped cramping. I hope you survived the bunch of 4-5 year olds! Bloody good rant, by the way, on Tuesday. I was very impressed. (All completely justified, by the way).

HK - glad to hear things still going fine! Wish I could be as zen as you!

Knitter - love the jelly bra analogy - sorry your DH is being useless. Mine is similar in those sorts of circumstances. Oh, I'm an uneasy magpie believer too

Mamapower · 17/02/2011 10:56

Hi Robin there are a lot of us eating junk at the mo... me and Pink are on a mission to empty the UK of cream eggs Grin

Preeeeeety hooooragh for lowering the drugs, great news my lovely Smile

Love technically I am 8+4 but gestationally I am 7+1 what a difference the ovulation date makes!!

Owl I know scarey! However, someone decided to get really ill and the surgery went into medical emergency melt down so they've had to re-schedule me for next Friday! Enjoy the cheese butty, made me want one now Grin

Any news from any of our gals being scanned??

owlbooty · 17/02/2011 10:37

Ahh, you found us MrsRobin :) Pull up a beanbag and make yourself comfy. I like to think we have a chocolate fountain in here, with marshmallows on sticks for dunking.

The first rule of GP/hospital communication is: always assume there hasn't been any. This way you can never be disappointed Grin

Oooh, MamaP booking in appt! That's come around quickly.

Sleep cheese overload? any left there? I have made myself a cheese butty for lunch and want to eat it now. This is not because I am up the duff, it is because I am a greedy bugger.

mrsrobinredbreast · 17/02/2011 10:33

Good luck tomorrow lovemy. Deep breathes, you can do this, you can do this.

Your healthy day is putting me to shame though. Just devoured a little chocolate penguin thing which was really for my DD but was the only chocolate we had in the house. I really must pull my socks up.

lovemysleep · 17/02/2011 10:21

banana glad to hear AF arrived and you're back TTC - good luck x

welcome mrsrobin - and how stupid is that hospital! Hopefully, a blip though - suppose we all make mistakes sometimes. We'll all be here to gold your hand...

Mama how many weeks are you now? Can't remember... Keep sticking my head in the sand about going to docs - scan tomorrow, so will have to go to the docs if everything is ok.

Owl I can't wait to be going to my 16 wk MW appointment! Bet you'll pop soon, and have a lovely little bump. I felt DD moving at 17 weeks, so you should feel that soon too, which is lovely.

Prettyvacant ah,coming off the roids! I start coming off mine in 3 weeks time - so far , the symptoms aren't too bad - it's hard to distinguish between them and pg symptoms, if I'm honest! Am sure that they have worked there magic for you....

Am so going to check out Figleaves bras soon too - can't wait to be able to buy maternity clothes, I am sooooooo desperate to get a bump now.

Healthy day today - stocked up on cherries, nectarines and grapes, and just glugged a big glass of OJ. Prawn salad for lunch too...mmmmm. Got to make up for the white carbs and cheese overload of the last 2 days, I'm afraid.
Feeling decidedly green today, and bloody knackered - could just sleep, sleep, sleep. Been awake since about 5.45am, so that's got a lot to do with it.

This time tomorrow, I'll have had my scan - eeeekkkkkkkkkkk! Am now chanting "Scans are my friend, scans are my friend....."

Big hugs ladies xx

mrsrobinredbreast · 17/02/2011 09:59

Hello all

Can I join in too? There are sooo many of you and I need some hand holding too so is there room for one more?

I think I am 5+4 today. Been to see GP today who didn't know that I had miscarried last September as the hospital hadn't sent a letter so they still had me down as pregnant and due in March Shock. I am now doubting whether I have done the right thing is booking in at the same hospital, hopefully it was just a blip.

Does the freakout room have a stereo (get me, child of the 80's!)? I need to put on some soothing music and eat chocolate by the kilo.

Good Luck to all who have scans today. Esp. Wombat who I remember from my post when I'd just found out about MMC and you wrote such lovely things.

Mamapower · 17/02/2011 09:53

Excuse typo's on phone.... Why does this thing think it knows better than me and changes my words! Bah!

Mamapower · 17/02/2011 09:52

owl you crack me up missus! Grin

Morning all, waiting in doc's for booking in apt. Quite excited about it bring 'official'! Thinking of all those with scans today, may the good news roll in Smile

PrettyVacant1 · 17/02/2011 09:38

Lemon sorry honey, you too xx

owlbooty · 17/02/2011 09:37

Hello PV , dear, top news on the 'roids reduction. They do seem to send people a bit loopy going on what others say on here. Hope the scan on Friday is all good news for you x

Pink jelly babies are ace and I too have eaten whole bags Grin I'd definitely ring GP/MW about the scan as you don't want to leave it too late. If it doesn't pan out on the NHS the plus side is that you tend to get a much longer look at the bean with a private scan and judging by the one I went to they have much better scanners. Or you may end up like I did having to get a private one anyway due to misbehaving bean at the NHS appt.

I am still wishing my life away - got my '16 week' MW appt this afternoon (am actually 15+4). I have no bump to speak of and the norks are pitiful. I am now convinced I am not actually up the duff at all and the 3 scans I've had are all lying. Needless to say, Mr Boots thinks I am mental.

I got a non-wired bra from mothercare in the end; it's black with white spots on and v.comfy. I might not have expanded but the underwires were getting damn uncomfortable.

Ps. The bump rubbing thing? It's indigestion. At least, it is when I do it given that there's no bloody bump Grin

Wombat33 · 17/02/2011 09:21

morning all. Quick one to say good luck to choccie, lemon and anyone else with a scan today!

Bras - I bought some last weekend. I wasn't keen on going wireless just yet so went for a couple of well fitting wired ones, though I know I might have to buy more again if I keep growing (gone from my usual fried egg 32B to a positively busty (for me!) 32D - much excitement!)

As for work. I think they're still oblivious. But I might be kidding myself!

PrettyVacant1 · 17/02/2011 09:21

Bah, I posted last night but its not there. Hmm
Woo hoo for DoubleDiffedDachs
Smashing news.

Choccie fx for you sweets, we're with you in spirts.xx

Welcome to Onions blurrrgghh at hairy scratchings.
This be a good place to wibble.

S'cuse the lack of loves and mentions for you all, I'm on my mowbli and it appears to be having a moment.
I can't scroll up.
Stoopid Orange have got a conspiracy against me.
Home broad band is fooked too, we asked Orange to fix it, they did.
It will work in Oooo, around 12 days.
Aarrrggghh.
Silly me thinking if I'm paying for it from a certain date that's when we should actually have the service from.
and breathe

Grin Easing myself of the 'roids this week, I'm down from 20mg to 10 last week, 5 this week , finishing on Sun.
Eeek, I hope they've continued to do the job.
My temper is something to be desired,luckily, the only fatalities so far have been a biro and a calculator.Blush
Weird loopy Wednesdays seem to be a pattern, no idea why.
Next scan Fri.
Then one 2 weeks after that to put our minds at rest after I've completely finished the drucks.
I hope its grown.

OrangeGloss · 17/02/2011 06:42

I have no chance of catching up properly sorry, I have to get my puking out of the way and get ready/eat before a 7.20 pick up :(

Dachs that is fecking awesome news!!! Grin Just shows how different growth rates can be

Pink I was so late in making my booking appointment, my MW spoke to me on phone and booked me in anyway! I had my scan appointment through before I saw her. Worth an ask?

Choccie (((hugs))) for today

Banana glad to hear x

I have bump Envy I realised I was watching a pg woman the other day and made myself look away in case she saw and I looked like a nut-job!

People at work have guessed about me, but I've only admitted to a few. I've gone from being someone in the gym every night and eating salad to no exercise and eating carb by the bucketload with a nice pot belly of bloat :) maybe the undisguisable belching and retching didn't help either Blush Grin

hotnspicyonions · 16/02/2011 22:56

Scratchings, I want Scratchings! OMG if that's a craving I'm gonna be the size of a house..... Grin

digitalgirl · 16/02/2011 22:25

Welcome onions had to laugh at you celebrating your bfp with a bag of pork scratchings! Hope this is a sticky one.

DACHS how bloody brilliant is that? Twins!!!! Very very pleased for you!

Big squeeze for ladyb making it through due date and also dealing with big move to the other side of the world. Must all be so stressful but at the same time providing a massive distraction to stop you over thinking things. Totally understand wanting to put off scans.

Yay for banana officially being back on the wagon! Am so pleased for you, I remember how difficult it was for you to even contemplate it a few months ago and now it's all exciting for you again!

Thinking of you & your scan tomorrow choccie deep breaths (both you and dh).

Good luck also to lemon and wombat for tomorrows scans.

love I suppose they're (heat pads) no different from a hot water bottle. Which is fine as long as you don't raise your core temperature.

Waves to pink, nix, orange, owl, mamap, lily, knitter, hk and emoo.

May we all find our zen tomorrow.

PinkFondantFancy · 16/02/2011 21:44

Ha nix I probably do when I get full of gas and need a good fart Grin I'm Angry on your behalf about the gossipy peeps-how dare they, it's your news to share when you're ready!! Gah.

nix owly oh experienced ones, how did you stop yourself from wishing your life away? Time is going sooooo slowly and I want to join the smug bump rubbing brigade!!! So impatient it's not funny.

banana congratulations-it's quite a big milestone eh? It's the first and last time I'll celebrate AF's arrival for you though. :)

am in awe of your fabulous sounding boobs!!

love no idea about heat packs but can't imagine they'd do any harm?

banana87 · 16/02/2011 21:31

OMG Dachs Congratulations!!!

Choccie thinking of you for tomorrow, hope everything goes well!

Waves to everyone else, will do a proper catch up later!

lily06 · 16/02/2011 21:30

Hello, so pleased for you all, often lurk and read on here to see your progress. Just wanted to recommed Bravissimo for larger bra sizes - I'm a 36HH (non-pg), and they have some lovely designs etc. They also do pg and nursing styles too.

banana87 · 16/02/2011 21:26

AF arrived yesterday. Officially TTC Grin.

nickstermum · 16/02/2011 21:02

X post mama

Defined bump is more likely just excess flab, rather than baby:) but it's my second, apparently you bump up earlier as everything is a little more wobbly anyway :) either that or wine gums :)

Wine clink for perky norks and growing bumps!

Oops and pelvic floors...... Just sneezed, not prettyConfused

nickstermum · 16/02/2011 20:58

Pink I haven't had the nuchal as the bean wasn't behaving so just opted for 16 week bloods like with Ds. Fxeverytging good x here's hoping for low risk again :)

Bee I found a good fitting sports bra also helped xx

Mamapower · 16/02/2011 20:57

Envy at nix nice little bump, I just can't wait for that moment... how beautiful Smile

lady thanks for the extra bra advice... I too won't last much longer. As soon as I get in the door from work, I rip the damn thing off... once upon a time DH thought that was an invite to come get me Wink Blush Grin