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Freak out room for those newly updiffed after MC to hold hands and support each other...

987 replies

DachshundsWantPuppies · 30/01/2011 08:37

Hello!

Newly updiffed and freaking out about spotting, cramping, the wait until your first scan and each little twinge? Settle in for lots of hand holding and supprt until you're ready to move to grads

OP posts:
OrangeGloss · 02/02/2011 07:13

Tigger !!! that's put a :) on my face! Is there a history of twins?

tonythetyger · 01/02/2011 21:29

Have namechanged again. Trust me Pink, when you've got 4 appts booked by the time you're 9 weeks and you can't tell work until you feel that it's definite enough (so probably not before 12) a 5th one guaranteed to take up most of a morning is not a good thing to have to explain to your boss Smile

Let's see how calm I am when we get to wk 8. Logically I know it makes no difference and if it's not going to happen it won't irrelevant of if I have a scan or not. But it is fun to see it on a screen.

hairyfairylights · 01/02/2011 21:28

Congrats tigger that's fantastic!!

PinkIsACheeseAddict · 01/02/2011 21:23

Wow tigger that has just put the biggest smile ever on my face!!! Fantastic news!!! Grin also well done you for declining a scan in a fortnight's time-you must be made of stronger stuff than me!! I've got another one in a week and I'm already getting antsy.

icantquitebelieveit · 01/02/2011 20:32

Owl they offered me another scan in 2 weeks (but just for fun) which I declined and I have my next AN in 3 weeks (booked last week) so they'll probably scan me then.

Mamapower · 01/02/2011 20:13

bouncer just congratulated you on the other fred but hell you got two so deserve a second whoooooop here too for the double trouble Grin Grin

owlbooty · 01/02/2011 20:13

Welcome new and lovely people Grin

And a massive WHOA at Tigger - that is amazing news!!! So pleased the scan went well for you, no wonder you are shocked! :) Will they give you another scan in a few weeks or will you have to wait until you hit 12?

Pips definitely worth discussing with your MW. At the moment the scanning dept near me are drowning in preggo ladies so I knew I stood no chance and went private, but it seems to vary wildly from area to area. Always worth asking!

icantquitebelieveit · 01/02/2011 20:08

Can I join?

Formerly tigger but after today's news am going through a namechange phase.

I had my first scan today at 6+1/2 and discovered that I'm having twins. Still in shock. 22 months failure and then this. Can't believe it at all.

Wombat33 · 01/02/2011 19:38

Evening all!

I'm also discovering the downside to train travel: I wish all the people sitting around me would stop breathing - their breath stinks!!!

pink does sobbing this morning at the news report that the Egypthan army had declared that they would not open fire on civilians count as random crying? Blush (I have no connections with Egypt or anyone there, never even visited on holiday...)

nickstermum · 01/02/2011 19:35

WE should... be loaded before long Grin

Mamapower · 01/02/2011 19:24

oh x-posts nix we're good, we're really good, shall we start charging for this advice Grin

Mamapower · 01/02/2011 19:23

Hi Pippa my GP just offered it to me for my own sanity but also because she didn't want to book me in until we knew the viability. I would ask for one and if your GP/mw is sympathetic may offer to refer you for one. Other than that I, like many people booked a private scan... approx £70 I think, it may be worth it for peace of mind. Good luck and let us know how you get on Smile

Evening all

nickstermum · 01/02/2011 19:19

talk to either gp or mw... mostly unless you have a bleed problem peeps tend to pay for a private scan. I think they are about 60 squid. ish.

PinkIsACheeseAddict · 01/02/2011 19:13

nix just looked cankles up-chin up hun, you're in good company as I swear Jennifer Anniston does too. Have a look at the ankle airbrushing on the cover of Marley and Me ( don't watch the film though)-it's so extreme she must be turbo paranoid.

PinkIsACheeseAddict · 01/02/2011 19:07

Hi pippa sorry no idea as round my way you don't even get a midwife appointment until 12 weeks, then the first scan at 14 or 16 weeks!! Yeah right, as if I was going to wait that long!! I would imagine you can ask for one ,but hopefully someone will be along with answers soon.

PinkIsACheeseAddict · 01/02/2011 19:03

What are cankles?? I've discovered what the danger of train journeys is..... Have been on the train for an hour and forty, trying to suppress the urge to fall asleep and/or vomit on my colleagues :/

Think I'm going to have to ask DH to drive me to acupuncture tonight, way too tired to drive....

Pippaandpolly · 01/02/2011 18:51

Hi everyone (shy wave), especially Nickster who I recognise :) Just wondering how you go about asking for an early scan? I've got a booking in appt with the midwife next Wednesday (8 weeks) - can I ask her for one? So desperately want to know it's all ok in there. Or will she be able to hear a heart beat? Really don't know what to expect!

nickstermum · 01/02/2011 18:31

Mm is blue fingernails bad circulation? I am in the cold spell at the min :) with CANKLES today....WTF?!

PinkIsACheeseAddict · 01/02/2011 17:38

£24 kenwood on amazon-buy two owly!!!

PinkIsACheeseAddict · 01/02/2011 17:28

Hang in there hairy. Blue fingernails doesn't sound good-get some slippers on!!

owly I think wasabi do if there's one near you. I'd steer clear though as I think it comes out of a mr whippy style machine. A basic ice cream machine is max £50 from Argos or amazon-I've got a kenwood one it's fab!! Tell mr boots that's your valentines prezzie of choice!!

I'm constantly cold too!

Have just had a bag of, you guessed it, salt and vinegar real McCoys. It was amazing. I have another in my handbag-luckily I'm with colleagues so would be too embarrassing to eat them otherwise I'd be straight in there.

Ive still been drinking a glass of pineapple juice every morning as I like it but read on the other thread the enzyme can cause uterine contractions-shit!! I am too scaredto eat anything these days-might just stick with the crisps.....

Hello YRMOTB by the way!

hairy I am so jealous of the people that find out they're pg at 16 weeks-that would be a dream come true.

owlbooty · 01/02/2011 16:36

I've been told I am having a boy (by the dr at the scan) and I am not craving anything. I could quite fancy some green tea ice cream though. Does anyone sell it round here? No they fecking don't.

Mr Boots refuses to let me buy an ice cream machine.

Excellent news on the puking and retching and weird twinges - blue nails is a new one but I did get the constantly cold thing for a couple of weeks :)

Wombat33 · 01/02/2011 16:24

I heard that yrmotb. I googled it too and there's as much out there saying it's not true as confirming it so sadly I thing we'll have to wait for scans/arrivals to confirm!!

Hairy I too have blue nails (new since pg) and am constantly cold - I thought it was meant to be the other way around but apparently not for me!

youremindmeofthebabe · 01/02/2011 15:54

You do know that there's an old wives tale saying if you crave savoury foods, you'll have a boy?

Just a thoughtGrin

Good luck for Friday hairy

hairyfairylights · 01/02/2011 15:03

I'll be exactly six weeks on Friday. I am truly cacking myself.

I also have blue finger nails and am paranoid I have some kind of undiagnosed circulation disorder (consulant has me on 75mg of aspirin per day).

OrangeGloss · 01/02/2011 13:28

Hairy glad you have someone nice to talk to. How far will you be on Friday? Sorry if I missed you saying. I hope it reassures you

Good work on the detox Wombat Grin

Pink paranoia is definitely a symptom!! I asked the MW about backache and cramps, she wasn't the slightest bit interested, calmed me down a bit

I've had my scan date, 11th Feb! Let the countdown begin. They are obviously going by my LMP dates, so that makes me 10+6 today. Gonna read my book tonight for visualization and hairy's PMA - now I know which bit to read

I didn't puke this morning, which means my nausea is worse all day. My colleague keeps asking if I'm ok, he just caught me heaving Blush Grin