'Anyone trying to get pregnany and want to talk about it' thread No 5

Morning all,Well it was ov. Saw Doc this am. So it was a major one as I had all those symptoms. Ah well it was a bit soon anyway, so I'm ok as I know I've ov now.
TM, replied you your email!!

Hi Quackers,
I haven't been around much. Been so busy and had problems with virus' on my computer !! Now all well though. Yes job resolved. We negotiated a very good settlement and now I am doing a contract for them !! Just in the process of talking to other prospects too. Would be great to catch up and chat more. I miss chatting with you too. Hope you will be seducing hubby tonight in light of your ovulation.
Do you have MSN Messenger ?

Well last week I had my first ovulation since coming off the pill (didn't really intend to stop taking it but forgot 3 days in a row and decided to have a month's break).

Ovulation was a huge pain low down on the right hand side, front and back. It was so painful for an hour or so that I seriously thought I had an ectopic pregancy!

Anyway, did NOT take precautions the following night so who knows! Not sure if I'm trying to get pg or not really. Have DS age 17 months and should really aim to have No2 when he is 3 to save on child care, but as doc said, I am of a "certain age", fertility declining etc (I am 29 for god's sake).

Is 24 hrs after definite ovulation the right time?

Should know end of next week. Funny how I can remember to take folic acid every day but not the pill.....

Hi all

Am a bit new to this, thou did post couple weeks ago. Would really like to get pg soon. Have 2 boys but had m/c in June. For some mad reason, despo for a girl. I never really had to try for boys, but am for this one. Sorry to do this, but what are real signs of ovulation? I don't even really know ..........feel free to point me somewhere else. I think I'm about a week after the start of my period...so when should I be looking to you know.......do the do. 14 days???

Well I'm not saying that he was overly keen, but when you have been trying for a year with know luck they suggest that you both get checked out.

I think now he has done one test he is also keen to see if there is an improvement. And really its not much of an investigation to go through compared to us ladies. I've had a dye test last month to check out my tubes and that was really invasive and uncomfortable.

Anyway fingers crossed this is your month and you and your DP wont have to worry about any of these tests. I think your doing the right thing in relaxing and letting it happen naturally. LOL

Nik Nik - my fingers are crossed!

I know how disappointed I have been at the end of each month (we've been trying on and off since xmas) so I can empathise.. It doesn't help the fact that I felt so easily the first time (miscarriage) and the second time (dd) - both in the first month.. I am beginning to think perhaps I'm all dried up!!! missed the boat as it were! oh well...maybe this month......?

Oh Nik, i feel awful moaning about my situation when your is clearly worse - Sorry!

Knowing how much DP wants children i don't think i could honestly see him going to the stage of actually getting tests done - Well done to your DP!

I know Jems it is so frustrating, we have been trying for 18 months now but each month I am so hopeful and then always dissapointed.

For the last 4 months I have O'd on exactly Day 15 and I know we have always BD'd at the right time.

DP is due to do a second sperm test next week so fingers crossed it will have improved as the last one was to be honest pretty dire.

Fingers crossed for us all

Hi NikNik,

TBH i'm trying not to think of it - i'm on day 20 today and think i ov'd on or around day 14 but i'm probably wrong.

It's starting to get to me a bit - every month i go through the "Am I, aren't i" thing and then it turns out i'm not - I know everyone does it but i have been doing this every month since Xmas and it is now starting to get on my nerves.

I am now going to leave it down to fate and if it happends it happens - i will still come here to chat though and find out what everyone is doing and how they are getting on!

Nik, only got my temp rise 2 days ago ( day22) that's why! I'll go away now and shut up about it.

Jems I've checked out the chat thread your right its really funny. How are you? Do you think you have O'd ie temp increase

Blimey Quacks - sounds like too much like hard work for me........all this 2nd guessing!

Has anyone seen the "Mummy and Daddy having a cuddle" on the Chat thread!

It is hilarious!

By the way - My Freaky employee is leaving - has found another job - Yippppeeeeeeeeeeee

Quacks why do you think its O now wouldn't your temp still remain high if you were pg. It may be that you were testing just a little to early

Right, think I've had an almighty ovulationa and that's all, even enough to get a small bit of pink! My temp is high still after 2 days so it must have been ov kicking in again. I was convinced I'd felt it on day 14 but maybe my body was just trying to ovulate! Then tried agian a week later, God knows. Its the twinges high in my womb and sore boobs, god it must have been a major ov!!
How are you all today!

Still here! Boobs still big, sore and twinges below. No signs of AF coming. Was hoping for my 21 day test result today and this would confirm my cycle days but won't be here till Thurs! Not being too sure though as temps all over place! That's why my progesterone test would be helpful right now!!!

Oh thanks guys, feel a bit premature! Just wanted some reassurenace I suppose!!
TM HOW ARE YOU!!!!, I miss you loads, haven't seen u aqround, although I don't check the March thread v often, but always look out for u!!
How are u? have u resolved your job problems?? I do hope so!! Have to try and chat at same time some time!!!!!

Quackers it sounds very exciting. Will keep everything crossed for you. Let us know how it goes. I miss our chats !

Quackers it sounds really promising. I've got my fingers and toes crossed for you.

fingers & toes crossed for you. just wait a couple of days then test again.

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