The resurrection of the 6th form common room for those inbetweeners who are TTC/PG after mc and are too long in the tooth to fit anywhere else

Hurrah! That's brill news pretty!

Good luck today tigger.

Glad to hear you're head is in a good place, jolls.

All is well, grooving and boxing away!
Catch up at lunch xx

Good luck Tiggs just try to close your eyes, think of a happy place, take deep breaths until they say everything is fine.

I did not crane my neck trying to look at the screen and I certainly didn't remonstrate the poor sonographer saying she really should speak more clearly when mumbling the words baby and heartbeat.

Is someone going with you?

Just popping by to say hi as suffering from insomnia

That is great news Jolls really pleased to read your positive post x

Good luck tomoz Pretty & tigger x

Good to hear about your results digit

BB hows the cold stuff looking?

so tired......but can't switch off

Just popping by to say hi as suffering from insomnia

That is great news Jolls really pleased to read your positive post x

Good luck tomoz Pretty & tigger x

Good to hear about your results digit

BB hows the cold stuff looking?

so tired......but can't switch off

Thanks PV. I'm 6+1. Tomorrow morning is my first scan. I don't know if I'll be able to look. The mc never got past 5+6 according to the hospital, although it took another 4 weeks for the minimal bleed to start. So I'll know tomorrow if this one has gone the same way.I keep on trying to convince myself that whatever happens at least I've proved that I can get pg again which I was severely doubting.

I hope yours goes well tomorrow. Do you have someone coming with?

Jollster it's very nice when they're supportive. Really makes a difference to the whole experience. Even makes you grin and bear the hour wait to book your next appt....

Cheers Didge
I've been thinking, I've done all I can, demandedgot drucks, stayed relatively sane there's bugger all I can do about it now.
It's nothing I haven't dealt with before.
If all is well , then I'll be panicking.

Jolliebobs yeah for supportive docs, knowing you'll have the hand holding and support has been proven to work wonders.
I remember my Consultant saying re the trial the placebo effect has great results. IYKWIM.

digi I have it all crossed for you too. We have similar histories IIRC, except you're a absolute youngster in comparison to me I think? Here's hoping pg#5 is a happy one for us both x

Cross posted - that is great news jollster

My follow up appt is this month. All tests have also come back clear (although still waiting on karytoyping) - hope I get the same reassurance as you do. Over 60% is pretty good, I'd be happy with those odds myself.

Thinking of you for tomorrow's scan pv, got everything crossed for you.

hey WellAndTrulyBuffied... nice to see you, to see you nice

How's everyone feeling today?

Had a really positive appt this morning at the recurrent MC clinic. The consultant was lovely.

Basically if I get pg again, I will get scans at 6/8/10/12 weeks, and immediately I will be under his care.

He reiterated what I'd already learned at the private clinic and was appropriately empathetic to my situation.

I didn't want or expect a "it'll all be ok" type chat, it was just really reassuring that I would get lots of handholding and support next time round.

Even with 43 looming next month, and after 3 MCs, with the all-clear results I have had, there is a 60% chance of another pg NOT ending in MC. (In fact he said slightly higher as I already have a child).

I'm realistic about the chances of having another child, and although I am/will try again, I'm doing it with a more balanced approach.

I feel in quite a good place acktshally.

Take care y'all x

outed

Ooh buff if you friend pv she can out me too if you want!!!

Have PM'd you Buff

Yay Pretty Have been wondering where you bin!

I will be your fb freind - how do i do that then? Am a bit at t'interweb...

Best fx for Scan, will be thinking of you. don't worry about the sleep pattern, all things being well you won't have one for the next two years or so little while. As for being on edge, hmm, hsve you tried rescue remedy? It can be great - and make your mouth taste boozy without drinking

Otherwise repeat after me 20 times 'I am Calm, I am Relaxed, I am In Control' (Unfortunately this technique is guaranteed to make me burp hugely or giggle, particularly if there are other people in the room, so you might have to do it by yerself)

Howdy doody!

Tis me the incredibly vacant one and boy do I feel it!

Been drifting through the last few weeks in a bit of a daze which didn't go down too well in work
Frickin 'roids are making me feel on edge (as well as the normal on edgeness) and my sleep pattern has gone haywire.

I didn't unlurk to moan so I'll shat it!
Soz bout me.

Well, how are we all eh?

Brooks off skiing are we, fab!
You deserve a nice break, I mean rest, don't break anything, yikes, you don't deserve that.

Jolls good to see you're keeping the spirits up and abusing the fatties, you do make me chortle.

Tiggs I'm sure I've said whoop, but if not made up for you, how many weeks are you now?

Buffs bout blardy time you joined the dark side of bookface, wanna be fwends?

My next scan is Tue and I'm shitting it!
This will be the latest scan I've got to.
Never actually seen a moving bean before.

Better ta - new bras help!!

Have just joined bookface-scary place, 'tis an' all

Enjoy skidling!

Jumping in to say HELLO and wave at people and drop in cheese and some weird Spanish licker that some friends gave us and I can't drink due to

hellooooooooooooooooooooooooooo...

anyone there?

BB - are you off skiiing now? If so enjoy and take care x

good stuff Tigger... dare I say baby steps and all that? x

Thanks appt was fine. I saw the lovely diabetic consultant who said he recognised me from 4 years ago and promised I could go to 40 weeks if my control was as good as last time (hospital policy is 39 weeks and since I had a c-sec I can't be induced again).

I then thought I'd get out miraculously early until they made me wait an hour to book my next appt!!!!!

I'd forgotten how much I love the nhs....

It felt really weird being around that many pg women and I didn't feel like I really belonged. I still can't believe it will happen.

tigger hope appt goes well - let us know how you get on x