Feck off with your babydust - The hut of gl/doom, home of inadequate reproduction

Hmm I've just looked at the dentist thread..who does she think she is mocking our gin based thread?! How rude! I went to a spa in November during the 2ww and they advised me not to go in. After a year of ttc I decided not to cos if I had finally got a bfp and anything had happened I'd have always wondered if it was my fault...
Ah well life must be miserable when you're lke that!

Pooch yeah, I had a friend tell me (at another friend's fortieth birthday party - really appropriate ) about her friend's cousin who 'had loads of miscarriages'. And she kept on about 'why don't you take aspirin it worked for her'.

So I took great pleasure in explaining thrombophilia , and the reason I wasn't taking it yet was my consultant (not just some woman at a party) had advised that it can prevent implantation and should only be taken from BFP.

When I got my last BFP my consultant put me on 75mg, but I still miscarried. :(

If I was a crueller / more bitter person I'd ring her up and give her a graphic blow by blow account of my recent MC and ask her medical advice this time . Wonder what she knows about NK cells? LOL.

Pooch I've read it and am trying to keep my big gob

hairy sleazy - the dentist thread is under 'Conception'. Hairy - you may want to read it - you may be able to release some more anger on it - would love to see any comments.

Sleazy - its called 'Going to the Dentist during the TWW' - its hilarious - things have got really heated on there - am waiting for Spikeyspookydooky's reply!!

hairy i'm sure you're not as stupid as me but several friends told me about aspirin so I started taking 75mg a day but then saw my MC Consultant who said don't take it until you get a BFP - which of course makes sense - but i was desperate! Anything to 'fix' my MC's. I started my new role today - stomach about to erupt and my DH was involved in a firearms incident last night so didn't get in til 5am - still in shock - my first thought was 'Will you be OK to shag on Sat night' - which I didn't put to him - then on way to work realised that if he'd been shot there would be no TTC for aaaaaaaaaaaaaaages. My obsession has taken over my life...

and yes, I know about fucking aspirin. do you think I have not googled the fuck out of 'recurrent missed miscarriage'????!!!!

GRRRRRR.

(feel a bit calmer now!)

Fucking hell.

Why is it that some people seem to think my miscarriages are a suitable subject for gossip.

You know, someone that knows, but you haven't seen since, and says 'you alright?' with that look in their eye - almost a selacious look. A look that means 'I want the grim details'.

I know this person would love nothing more than to get in to a deep conversation about what 'help' they will now give me and all teh gory details of what happened - and I keep trying to hammer home THEY WILL GIVE ME NO HELP. THEY WILL TEST ME AND THEY MAY NEVER FIND A REASON. I WILL HAVE TO PAY FOR ANY 'HELP' MYSELF.

Fucking wankers.

(sorry, another vent)

Oh pooch sympathy re af- making me feel pissed off too. Also suspect dh will be away In prime time this month.

Where is this dentist thread?

I succumbed & read the dentist thread, I think there's going 2 be a cyber fisty cuffs the way it was heading!

Pmsl at pooch you've just cheered me up :)

Ninja I'm ok finally dragged myself out of depression after onset of af. Told DH the timetable for this month's SWI, which went down like a lead balloon! Spent Valentines shitting through the eye of a needle so that was romantic but DH bought me a replacement rabbit 4 the last 1 I wore out so that was nice! How r u?

hi pooch how're you tonight?

Aaahhh my lovely team of doom/gloom, I knew I could rely on you to bring a smile to my face.
I speed my mouse through all the other threads as quickly as I can til I see 'feck off.....' then I know I'm in a place where I won't get annoyed by all the shite others write.
lissie still thinking of you and hoping you're well enough to at least get drunk.

we're watching megamind, its good fun.

ninja I thought that might be "one of those" so I didn't look

Ohh ninja I can't find it...

No drunkenness but its making me feel about 300

hairy and hardandsleazy you'd better not read the going to the dentist on the tww thread then. Whilst for some it may be a legitimate concern I read it and felt like twatting the OP.

Is the brits any good? any pissed up celebs making tits of themselves yet?

Agh martine mccutcheon on an ad- just need shot of smug Holly willoughby in audience and twit count will be comolete

Lol hardandsleazy high five to you.

If you cant vent here...

Or I hope it's a boy/girl and was so disappointed at scan.... That is not fucking disappointment at a scan. Watching the Brits- James corden is a cock isnt he?

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"I want to be pregnant now" thread

"I've always managed it within four months."

Well so have fucking I and I've always fucking miscarried so far. And I'm fucking forty fucking two. Join the fucking queue because you have a child and I fucking don't.

Sorry in advance for the bitterness.

Of course this is all tongue in cheek. I do realise it's not about being next in the queue etc.

Would they be the same fuckers who are on the I am trying for a baby in second week of November mob?

Or 'stop worrying and relax, it'll happen when it's meant to'.
Bloody great.

and it's always people who have never had fertility problems, and who go on to tell you how awful their pregnancy/childbirth etc was. grrrrrr.