Feck off with your babydust - The hut of gl/doom, home of inadequate reproduction

holly willoughby strikes me as someone who uses words like babydust and other such irritating shite on a regular basis.

Posh could at least look bloody happy about being pregnant, mind you holly willoughby is positively smug all the time...

Sleazy - my shit list: Klass, Willoughby, Posh Spice, Jessica Alba - in fact anyone on tv who is PG PLUS anyone who gets PG without trying PLUS anyone who gets PG & stays PG without any problems.

changing ellan - had loads of issues with DH over reproducing, it lasted several years until one night in November I told him I'd leave him & find someone who did want children and that our DD would be calling someone else 'Daddy'. Sounds harsh but he'd practically had an affair when I was pg with DD & had got angry with me after 12 week MMC in Nov. Bizarrely ever since then our relationship has never been better. As long as I've got lovely girlfriends & team gloom to talk too I just have to accept this is one huge subject he can never understand...

well ive ruined it for myself tonight by crying and DP has lost his temper with me, back to the drawing board then!

Yes but I hate her (unreasonably) as associate her eldest with son I lost. I softened sliightly re no 2 but she is still on my (hugely lengthy) shit list . that's rubbish re dh bexamundo.

Mine out so may go to bed soon

Myleen actually had a hard time ttc #2 I read an interview with her, they were at the point of considering ivf. So i'm not so resentful if her. I'm well mardy tonight. I'm fertile but Dh has some kind of infection 'down there' which is making him sore so I have a horrid feeling this month is not gonna happen. Grr! Hugs to those feeling crappy.

Pooch- I agree that once af kicks in I get over it. Also it's the selfish cows like your neighbour who annoy me - not people I like or who I know have struggled. And couldn't agree more it's my baby I want - not some random.

Actually changing, my DH said something similar. It really bloody sucks, because they just can't understand what it feels like for you. You need them on your side, but believe me when I say that no amount of talking about it will make him understand. It just makes my DH cross when I'm feeling sorry for myself.
Personally, I've decided to man up and get on with it. Determined to stay positive, because I want to keep my relationship on track. Ain't gonna be no baby without him after all...

Pooch, DP says Im not fit to have a child at the moment because Im so down! Yeah, cos I havent managed to get pregnant! Fuck off!

Shite isnt it.

Oh yes one thing that has annoyed me today is my next door neighbour who is about to drop and has the window open all the time while she has a fag - where's the justice???

changing sorry you are here and feeling so crap. sleazy despite my posts which may have given the impression I'm having a bad day I'm ok - get unbelievably depressed when af starts and few days after then snap out of it til next cycle starts.
Yes hate hearing of friends who are pg - think one is but avoiding telling me - bless her - Changing - why should you be happy for them - we're not saints - you want to be pg then you'll be happy - there's nowt wrong with that. (as you can see I ain't no fuckin Mother Theresa).

Welcome changing- sorry things so crap for you.

That dentist thread is - quite why anyone would think it's a light hearted topic I don't know.

Sorry pooch lissie hairy and all others having bad day. Hairy - I have not forgotten the gossip who spread to all and sundry about my loss at 21 weeks. The last thing you want as you say is the fake "are you ok" when what they want is details to spread.

And while I am on the envy thing why is it the stupidest annoying people who are pregnant? Holly willoughby myleene klass emma bunton.. It will be Jordan next ...

Thanks, nobody understands and I hate feeling jealous of others. I want to be happy for them but Ive spent all day in tears trying desperately to hide it.

DP will be home soon and he will be rolling his eyes at me, another knife through the heart.

hi changing, welcome to the hut - sorry you are here.

ditto. been writing my list for friday and am starting to get a bit scared. i know he'll pooh pooh me again.

do you need any follow ups?

how is everyone else? thank you for your good wishes, sorry ive not been on, no internet so on phone and a self-imposed break!

Hi all Im new in here :( :( :( so many people I know are pregnant :(

Im so so unhappy.

Well thanks for asking Lissie- I'm pretty crap today.

How are you doing?

had to post. hairy, how are you doing today?

although actually, if anyone was giving a baby away, I'd gladly take it of their hands ;)

ellangirl that's what I keep telling people. I don't want your baby/their baby. I want mine. :(

So sad, isn't it.

Hmm, I'm keeping out of them all I think- at the end of the day they're all only doing what they think is best.
Saw my new niece and nephew yesterday, thought I might be upset but I wasn't. I don't want anyone else's baby, only mine.

oh yes ellangirl, please do tell her she's an overexcited pink fuffy wierdo. I can almost picture her from that post, bless her.
I almost think we need two conception boards, one for people who have been trying up to 6 months with nothing untoward happening and one for everyone else.

I really want to post on the dentist thread too.

There's a thread started called 'am I a weirdo?'. I so want to answer yes. I'm sticking in the gin house- much better in here

Bexa my fingers have been itching to reply - would be along the lines of 'Fuck off you heartless bitch, you clearly are one of these people who shag then a few weeks down the line feel a bit peeky, wonder 'oohh haven't had a af in ages maybe I'm PG', get a BFP and then give birth 6 months later'. Crawl back to whatever stone you crawled out of. But I have managed to resist, am far too nice/diplomatic to post such a message...