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TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

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Diddle · 26/09/2005 11:42

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

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Lottielou · 27/09/2005 15:32

So your still bleeding since it came bang on time? Has it stopped and then started again? ( sorry for the million and one ?'s just trying to get and idea whats what)

Lottielou · 27/09/2005 15:32

So your still bleeding since it came bang on time? Has it stopped and then started again? ( sorry for the million and one ?'s just trying to get and idea whats what)

mumswish · 27/09/2005 15:31

Carly - I personally think try anyway just dont build your hopes up too much as when I had my mc I stopped bleeding for nearly a weeks and then went full blown into it again so it mayb that your body hasnt finished but again I'm not too sure so by all means go for it!

Lottie - you know those rooms, the padded ones have you ever noticed they dont give u a matress to sleep on. Dead uncomfortable, esp with jackets keeping your arms tight like that. Not too fond of that place to b honest. But I LOVE the food.

Lottielou · 27/09/2005 15:30

i meant m/c - ooops

carly82 · 27/09/2005 15:29

well first "normal" one, i bled quite quite heavily after the m/c but this one was bang on time

Lottielou · 27/09/2005 15:27

Sorry for your M/s Big Hugs xx So is this your second AF since?

carly82 · 27/09/2005 15:25

lottielou - m/c was eight weeks ago, i thought my af was finished but a day later started p again only very lightly but it still wont buggar off!!!

mumswish - my dp would be very willing (well to be honest he doesnt have much of a choice) we will be bd'ing all week

Lottielou · 27/09/2005 15:25

Yes of course be yourself Mumswish, you can join coathanger and I in our mad little word that sometime surfaces! It consists of little pink and blue sweets, white jackets with brown straps (they dont half make ur arms ache) and lovely white rooms that are lined with padding! it's fab there! LOL

mumswish · 27/09/2005 15:20

Carly - Sorry huney but I dont know what to say, not been there myself. I'm thinking if its only light then there's no reason y you cant still try and long as your dh(?) doesnt mind (bit yucky I know) I'm not sure tho.

Lottie - I hope that it doesnt mean its over for you this month. I think this thread is too lucky for that.

Are you sure you want me to be myself? I'm a bit nuts u know?! :0

Lottielou · 27/09/2005 15:20

I really hope Mumswish and Slink that ur right! Not getting hopes up at all tho! Trying to concentrate on my holiday and then test when i get back! Fingers crossed!

Lottielou · 27/09/2005 15:18

Carly - Hi! Hmmm, well is it normal for you to be bleeding now? I am pressuming that it isn't. When was your M/C?

Lottielou · 27/09/2005 15:16

yes well i have thought that but with my last PG i didn't have them, allthough i know each PG can be different i haven't got my hopes up!
Dont wrooy, i dont mind you saying that, please feel free to say what you want on here - no one minds, this is one of the places we can be ourselves.
I really do hope that i get my BFP. Diddle is due to test on the same day as me. We are clones, ha ha we M/C in april we were a day within eachother and when we were waiting for our AF's to arrive, they came at the same time! We have pretty much been in sync ever since. We are now on CD 25 and 26 and have made a pact to test on the same day! I hope it's a sign!

mumswish · 27/09/2005 15:16

that would be so good,

I've just rung family planning clinic and they are getting a doc to ring me back which is nice.

I wasn't sure whether I should ring me docs and ask them to book me for an appointment but I'm really worried I'm going to get someone like the other woman.

O well, here I am worrying about nothing again

carly82 · 27/09/2005 15:16

afternoon ladies!
i wonder ir someone to could answer or try to answer my dilema. i am currently on day 15 but am still having slight bleeding (sorry if tmi!) am i still likely to get pg as today is one of my most fertile days and i dont want to risk missing a whole month

slinkstah · 27/09/2005 15:14

yeah they could be the egg embedding my ds and dd i did not feel the egg embedding but with my recent pg i felt it and it was relly bad cramping and i told my dp i was going to get af the next day but i didn't

mumswish · 27/09/2005 15:05

Can they not be pg pains? (the egg embedding?) I hope I'm not out of line sayin that as I dont if anyone wants to hope or not.

I hope they are for you lottielou that would be great to have another one!

Lottielou · 27/09/2005 15:03

Mumswish - Try ur local family planning clinic, mine is very helpful!
We had quite a few BFP's on the last thread, and so far one on this one. Not quite sure who is due to test next, i loose track if i'm not on here everyday! Been soooo busy!
I'm on CD25, my cycles range from 35-45, have been BD'ing as much as possible and was quietly quite confident that when i test on the 8th i would get my long awaited BFP but since the past couple of days, getting these pains, am now not quite sure. Need to wait to see what the doc says.

mumswish · 27/09/2005 14:58

yeh that might be a good idea. Dont want to go back to docs tho. I'm bit scared of them. Will check to see if local clinic here somewhere.

I thought I was meant to finish pack but best check first.

Thanks guys your so helpful.

Ok so enough about me, what have you gals all been upto. Where are we on pg's? i thought I counted 4. How many more to test? Oh I'm so excited I cant wait to find out if anyone else has their happy moment.

Lottielou · 27/09/2005 14:55

Diddle - Would u stop now? I was advised by my doc to complete the packet and then come off! Everyone is different tho!
Mumswish - perhaps u should try and get advice for your doc, or your local family plannig clinic!

Lottielou · 27/09/2005 14:53

Mumswish - yes i know what you mean, i think without MN and espesh Diddle i would have gone crazy (i know some of you think thats debateable that i'm not already bonkerz, hee hee ) without this support!
Re: your pill! I would carry on taking it till the end of the pack. If you come off now then you could be waiting weeks for your cycle to regulate (as much as it can, you seem to have irregular ones like me, mine get upto CD45 ). when i came off the pill i finished the pack completely then didn't take it again! Which one are you on?
Oh and please dont appologise for asking questions, thats what we are here for!

Diddle · 27/09/2005 14:50

mumswish - i'd stop now

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mumswish · 27/09/2005 14:47

Quick question then I promise I'll leave you alone. I promise!!

I've taken half of my pack of pills, should I carry on going until I get to the end or can I stop now?

mumswish · 27/09/2005 14:46

lottie lou - sorry to hear your not feeling to well. It's not good having cramps. I hate mine too. Thanks for the message, its nice to talk to people and get their feedback as you're the only people I know who have been through it, none of my family have.

Lottielou · 27/09/2005 14:41

Congrats Missmibaby! Really happy for you!
A big huge welcome to the newbie mumswish -Sorry for your loss, i'm sure you'll find all the suport from this great bunch of lovely ladies! If i was you i would come off the pill now! I came off the pill in december last year, started to TTC in March, M/C in April and then my last cycle was a possible M/C too but i refused to get it confirmed!
Anyway a big welcome to you x
Diddle - hows u huni?
CH - How you doing? Haven't chatted to you for ages! Hope all is well in ur crazy world?
Xena - SO please all is well with your beanie! How are you?
Hope everyone else is well, haven't had much time to post lately and catch up, been mega busy as am off on my hols with DP on friday - a week in Tenerife - cant wait!
I'm on CD 25 today, have been having awful cramps past twop days, like AF pains but that is way too early for me, dont expect AF for another 10-15 days or so! Hmmm - well off to the doctors tonight to get myself checked out! Ouch, quite painful!

Hope your all having a good day! xxx

Diddle · 27/09/2005 14:39

oh slinkstah - you've had a rough time of it haven't you. but please believe when we say that stress won't have caused your miscarriage, it happens for so many reasons. Normally when the baby gets to a point in its development and the cells that it requires are not there, so your body aborts it.

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