TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

Off to get ds2 ready. Back tomorrow.
Take care all xxxxxxxxxxxx

Hear hear HC.
When I got pg with ds1, i was actually underweight. That poses more risks compared to a few pounds overweight. As far as I'm concerned (being as I've been both ends of the spectrum) it's far better to be slightly overweight and healthy. I don't bother weighing myself now. Just go by how my clothes look. If my jeans start getting snug, it's time to ease back on the choc. Simple

GOOD LORD what alot to catch up on!

Missmibaby-brill news girlie-test again tomorrow or the day after and I bet it will be an even stronger line (((xxx)))

mumswish-welcome to you. Hope you get sorted with your pill decision. I would finish the pack so your AF starts as normal to give you a CD1. My doctor told me that as soon as you stop taking it, it goes out of your system within 24 hours. I am seriously overweight too and daren't go to the doctors about anything as they blame everything on my weight. Don't do exercise either-life is too short to spend time doing something you hate! ((xx))

slinkstah-can't remember if I welcomed you so welcome ((xx))

My cold is improved and I hope everyone else with the lurgy is feeling better soon.

Right, must get tea on. Byee for now.

xx

By christ you lot can chat for England! .
Congrats Miss!
Mums- Go ahead and stop your pills, and have a massive bonkathon!! .
Talking about young mums, he he, I was 16 when I was pg with ds1 and had him at 17! I love it now though, makes teenage years far easier to deal with (I'm a dippy mare half the time anyway and act like a child).
I've personally found it really hard to conceive after this last mc.
Weird thing here girlies, had af (lasted 8 days) but was'nt that heavy. This morning, boobs are all swollen and sore. Any answers? Tested day before I came on and -ve. Don't know if it's worth testing or leaving it to see if I come on again in a few weeks.

I'm off home now. SPeak to you all tommorow. Goodnight, sweet dreams!!

CH lol at the condomn inventor
lottielou good luck xxx

Well, i'm off for a bit. Got to take DS1 to Beavers and then to a friends to use her fax!! Will be back later on. XXX

Good luck lottie!! XXXXX speak to you soon

Yeah condoms are the invention of the devil!! Whoever invented them must have been a virgin

Thats what we are using at the mo, until we come to a decision about what we are going to do. Don't want to have a coil now, as by the time things settle down with it, DH and me should be dicussing TTCing or not.

Mumswish - good am glad that you have got the advice you need! Good luck you hun! xxx

CH - I'll have a glass of bucks fizz please, just in case - you never know!

Right well i'm off to the docs now to see what they say! Wish me luck! xx

Night All xxxx

Virtual shcampersh rulesh hic

I'm shuch a light wight

oh yeah could do with some champers lol

yes tis horrible eing on af whilst someone fitting coil own there lol. bet you were well shocked ch -planning coil and getting pg ;)
it is nice not having to use anything now though- was using condoms a while ago but they are just so yukky i am really pleased to be trying now.

Don't worry Mumswish, this is special virtual champers - no harm to those TTCing! Enjoy!!

me, me I want some.

Have some now before ttc.

I reckon I should get drunk on the day I want to b pg cos thats what happened last time ( I think)

ha ha

and how many pg from drunken nights out. Thats the secret you know!! ALCOHOL>>>>> hidden baby dust inside?

I'm glad you got that sorted, mumswish Hers to the 7th October and CD counting and BDing!! CHEERS!!

Pop!

Fizzzzzzzz!!!

Glug-glug-glug

Whose for champagne just for the hell of it??!!!??!

thanks for all your help guys.

FPC have just been on phone and confirmed that I'm to finish the Pack (if I want) and then try straight away (after 48 hrs pill is out of your system)

I'm glad I checked so my cd1 will b 7th oct. (I think)

I was supposed to be having a coil fitted the month I found out I was PG! Was waiting to come on so they could fit it (was horrified to hear it had to be fitted whilst you are bleeding!) and I didn't come on! The idea of a coil does appeal to me, its just the fitting of it. But no contraception for me at the mo, ta very much!

ive never been on the pill - well i tryed it for a few weeks ut ended up in a right mess mentally! psycho bitch i think my boyf at time called me. i never tried it again as it was like really bad pms everyday lol. i had the coil in until last pg it worked well and kept me pg free for 5 years and got pg straight away after i had it out.

Mumswish - I really think that M/C happen for a reason, that is very very cruel i know but your thoughts on your body not being ready is for me the way that i look at it. I have tried not to ask questions about all the if's, Y's,But's and maybe's. It's torture. The pain will never go away and you will always think about the baby you have lost but it will eat away at you if u keep beating yourself up about it and thinking about things that you 'could've done differently'

xxx

I'm sorry I haven't been able to contribute to the pill conversation. I don't know much about the pill, coz I only took it for about 6 months before I found out I can't take it! I have Crohn's disease which means it doesn't absorb and its success rate is only about 60% in me. Its a bit like if you have a tummy bug whilst taking the pill and you have to be careful for a week after. Except it is constant for me.

oh CH so u dont have to worry then, just keep an eye on it!

My pains are getting worse...Ouch

So if I was to become pg in the next couple of months there should be no xtra reason for me 2 mc other than it just not being the right time. Dont worry guys I'm not upset, I am actually quite happy, I look at it in a clinical way now, I see the mc as a way of preparing my body, i just want to know if there is anything that could have caused it as I dont want the baby to b wasted. I dont know if you understand what I mean, I'm confusing at the best of times.

By the way, when I went for what was meant to be a date scan they said I was already 10wks along I was sure I had only conceived 4 maybe 8 wks earlier so why did the baby grow so big so quick only to give up? Dont molly coddle gals, I just wondered whether anyone knew thats all as the hospital wouldnt help at all just kept saying that it was over now.

Anyway.. I'm going to sort out the post and do a stationary order, will check in before I finish work and no doubt before that aswel. I'm addicted already!! ha ha

TMI = Too much info

When I went to the docs to ask about comming off the pill i was advised to come off when i had finished my cycle and if i was going to TTC then to wait 3 months to let my bidy regualte back to normal and have 'natural' Af's!

I really wud chat to someone medical bout it hun! x

Lottie - lol at me being "diturbed"!! I know that Ha-ha!! I'm not overly worried coz it might be blood hanging around from last Af. Pink discharge looked just like that - a bit like CM but light pink (obvioulsy blood) instead of clear or cloudy/white. There wasn't much and I haven't seen anymore, although I haven't been to the loo for a while. And its not enough to wear a panty liner or anything.

Sorry everyone else, TMI (too much information) I know...