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TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

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Diddle · 26/09/2005 11:42

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

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slinkstah · 28/09/2005 14:31

having my stillborn has made me want loadsa babies! i feel like having 4 or more! i guess ill change my mind if/when one comes along lol

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Diddle · 28/09/2005 14:26

mumswish - your time will come, when our bodies are ready to carry another baby then they will get all cosy and let our eggs get comfy. I know its tough to stay positive, esp when you see people so close to you with their own babies. I agree the weather makes a huge difference on my mood too, its miserable here, no rain yet though, don;t send it my way.

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mumswish · 28/09/2005 14:11

Maybe thats why I'm feeling yucky then. I'm so happy for her but maybe underneath it all I'm jealous and scared its not going to take for ages. I'm really worried I'll be on here for years with mc after mc and no luck. I'm scared I'll never get there and the closest I'll get is to hold her baby (ies) and wish. What if thats all that happens? I've not even tried yet and I'm this low what the hell will happen to me if I am still here in a years time.

Sorry to be so depressing when everybody is having such a nice day. I dont think the weather helps to be honest as it's throwing it down by here.

Ahh well. Smiles I spose

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Diddle · 28/09/2005 14:09

soft play was good thanks, spent 2 hours there and had lunch too, the kids loved it, still full of energy though, dont know how they did it. I met up with some other childminders and a lady who works at the local playgroup. It was lovely to have adult company.

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Coathanger · 28/09/2005 13:58

Well, i'm back from running my DH around! What you all been up to today?

Diddle, how was soft play??!!

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Diddle · 28/09/2005 13:56

mumswish - maybe you're feeling yucky because you saw the baby, and although you hope to be pregnant this time next year, there is no guarantee that you will be, thought i would be by now, fingers crossed for this month. Lets hope by this time next year we have all been pregnant and got our babies

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mumswish · 28/09/2005 13:32

Afternoon Slink - Did you have fun at the shops tho? As long as you had fun doesnt matter if you didnt spend any money. Hope your ok

slinkstah · 28/09/2005 13:28

hello everyone- haven't caught up with todays goings on yet but hope everyone ok. ive been shopping too coathanger didn't get much though.

Coathanger · 28/09/2005 12:48

Hello everyone!

Well, i've been shopping and bought 2 bras and matching knicks! Vary reasonable from Next!

HK - be positive, hun. You seem to be showing all the signs. I'm willing so hard for it to be a bfp XXX

Hi ya, Carameli! Good to see you over here. I hope you are having a good afternoon with your mum. Hope to speak to you later XXX

CP - I'm so sorry it was a bfn again. It will happen though and soon Chin up sweetie XXX

If I've forgotten anyone, I'm sorry. Got to dash out to drop DH off somewhere. Back in a bit...

mumswish · 28/09/2005 11:58

ok I'm going for lunch now. See you girls in an hour!

Am starving!! Thinking of going chippy. Surely thats not healthy for having a baby!! O well, I'm not yet!! GET THE MCDONALDS IN WHILE I CAN!!

See u in an hr.

bubble99 · 28/09/2005 11:57

Hi all. I've just managed to whizz into the office for a quick post before serving lunch to our nursery littlies.

Carameli, you've found a good place to be. Wishing you all the best for ttc again.

XX

mumswish · 28/09/2005 11:46

hi Diddle,

TBH I'm feeling really yucky today and I have no idea why. Although it could have something to do with going to see best mates newborn. I'm going to be in her position this time next year so I dont understand what it is.

Never mind

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Diddle · 28/09/2005 11:43

Off to soft play now so don;t get gas bagging too much i'd ahte to miss anything

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HellKat · 28/09/2005 11:43

Lol I'm trying not to get them up.

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Diddle · 28/09/2005 11:42

so positive aren't you HK, good idea not to get your hopes up though, wish i knew how to do that.

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HellKat · 28/09/2005 11:41

Diddle- you know me too well. How about next thread name should be "Test addicts R us" .
Mums- He he you may be excused to use the lav hun! I'll have a big announcement saying "Kat's testing" then another saying "Bfn".

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Diddle · 28/09/2005 11:37

hellkat - i though there must be a reason for not testing, otherwise you would be doing it right now. i knew you couldn't wait unless there was a reason.

carameli - good to hear you're doing ok, won't worry as much about you now. you know where we are if you need us, and have a lovely afternoon with your mom.

mumswish - how are you feeling today?

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mumswish · 28/09/2005 11:34

If you test you have to tell us before and after. I'm keeping everything crossed for you. Mainly cos I need a wee but you know!! Same thing

HellKat · 28/09/2005 11:20

Diddle- can't test today, no cash until Friday! I'll probably end up finding it somehow and testing

mumswish · 28/09/2005 11:01

Welcome Carmelli.

I'm really sorry to hear what your going through, We've been there and its really not fair. I can understand your feelings please feel free to chat I'm willing to listen and I'm sure the rest of the girls are too.

Carameli · 28/09/2005 10:56

no don't worry I am defintely not bottling it up. My dh and I have had great talks about it and I have waves of crying and feeling a bit more normal.

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Diddle · 28/09/2005 10:53

carameli - thats great that you're keeping busy and getting organised, but remember to elt yourself grieve too, i know its hard, but if you bottle it up you won't start to heal the pain.

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Carameli · 28/09/2005 10:52

thanks guys,
must go and get a few things done. Yeah my mum is great, will always get me to think of something nice. My dd is 2 next week and we are having a little family party for her on Sunday so I am also trying to focus on that for a bit as she has been such an absolute angel thorugh all of this. I really want to do something to make her day really special.

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Diddle · 28/09/2005 10:48

hellkat - why not test today? i know af has been but yours are never normal so could be baby burrowing in, maybe. i hope so

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Diddle · 28/09/2005 10:47

carameli - welcome to our group, you will be made very welcome here, we all know how you feel, and it is totally understandable to feel so raw at the moment. I hope your mom manages to take your mind of it. I remember crying everyday for at least 4 weeks after my miscarriages, life is so unfair, and we all deserve so much more. Even now 6 months since my last one, the slightest thing sets me off, but it will get easier for you.
I hope you find the support and warmth from thsi thread that we all have.

((((big hugs))))))) to keep you going till your mom comes.

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